Joseph E. Aulisi

Joseph E. Aulisi

Joseph Aulisi Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jan. 31 to Feb. 1, 2007.
AULISI Joseph E. Aulisi Vice principal of Kearny High School, 78 Chairman of N.J. Recreation Commission Joseph E. Aulisi, 78, a resident of Belleville for 50 years, passed away on Monday, Jan. 29, 2007, at St. Michaels Medical Center, Newark. The funeral will be from the Biondi Funeral Home of Nutley, 540 Franklin Ave., on Friday, Feb. 2, at 8:30 a.m., followed by a Funeral Mass in his memory at St. Lucys Church, Newark, at 10 a.m. Entombment will be in Gate of Heaven Cemetery, East Hanover. Visitation will be on Wednesday, Jan. 31, from 7 to 9 p.m. and on Thursday, Feb. 1, from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. Mr. Aulisi was born in Newark. He graduated from Seton Hall University in 1953 with a degree in physical education and health. He received a masters degree in administration from Seton Hall in 1958, and also earned a doctorate equivalent in administration from Seton Hall University in 1961. He was vice principal of Kearny High School from 1970 to 1998, when he retired. A Marine Corps veteran of World War II, Mr. Aulisi was a member of the N.J. Education, the N.J. Coaching Association, the Kearny Drug Council, the N.J. Physical Education Directors Association and the National YMCA Physical Directors Association. A lifelong member of the YMCA, he was a current member of the Montclair YMCA. He was appointed chairman of the N.J. Recreation Commission from 1972 to 1980 by former Governor Brendan Byrne. He was a Barringer High School Alumnus of the Year in 1982 and was elected to the Queen of Peace Hall of Fame in 1998. Mr. Aulisi is survived by his devoted wife of 53 years, Mildred (nee Napolitano) Aulisi, and was the loving father of Donna Dyte and her husband, Peter, Annie Calabrese and her husband, Carlo, Flora Giaimo and her husband, Dennis, Barbara Sickles and her husband, Michael, Dr. Edward Aulisi and his wife, Gabriele, Lisa Aulisi-Memmelaar and her husband, Peter. He is also survived by his brother, Vincent Aulisi and his wife, Erma; his sister-in-law, Lucia Napolitano, and his 14 loving grandchildren. In lieu of flowers, donations to the Montclair YMCA Support Youth Scholarships. c/o Dawn McFadden, 25 Park St., Montclair, N.J. 07042 or the Joseph Aulisi Scholar Athlete Memorial Scholarship Fund, c/o John Millar, Kearny High School, 336 Devon St., Kearny, N.J. 07032.

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January 20, 2021

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John Ramsey

January 20, 2021

Mr Aulisi was a very positive influence on the hearts and minds of a lot of Kearny NJ Students and Student Athletes. He was a giant figure in our community and had a heart of gold. He dropped out of high school , enlisted in the USMC , fought in the Second World War. War ends, he comes home from active duty then graduates from High School. He was motivated to join the Corps, because of the influence of Marine Gunnery Sergeant , John Basilone. John Basilone, another NJ native fought in the Island hopping campaign WW2, in the Pacific earning Congressional Medal of Honor and many other awards for actions above and beyond the call of duty. I got to know Mr Aulisi well after High School. He was my Principal and HS Football coach. I joined the Marine Corp after High School and we shared some memories. He even ordered me to Umpire one of the KHS baseball games as I was hanging around and going to watch. He said,"Ramsey got your stuff"? then get dressed. It was a very special day.
Semper Fi Marine. You will greatly missed by all who you have served.

Tony Papel

February 7, 2007

Dear Dr. Aulisi,
I'm so sorry for a great loss in your family. My prayer to God is to open his loving arms to your father and comfort for the loveones he left behind.

Linda Heslen Quigley

February 5, 2007

Dear Aulisi Family, we are so sorry to hear of Mr. Aulisi's passing. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. We have lots of good Manasquan memories!
Linda (Heslen) Quigley & Karen Heslen

Glenn Herrigel

February 4, 2007

To the family and friends of Joe Aulisi: I knew Joe way back in the forties from Kamp Kiamesha and always had the highest regard for him at that time when he was one of the tent counselors. From the write-up in the Star Ledger, he was in life what he was as a young man--a leader of men.

Irma Bielefeld

February 3, 2007

My thoughts and prayers for the family of Mr. Joe Aulisi. His wonderful sense of humor will be missed. My teaching years at KHS (1985-1998) received an added sparkle, by his gift to make me laugh.

Kenneth Adams

February 2, 2007

Joe was one of my football coaches in the late 50's and early 60's. I thought he was pretty gruff back then but I'm so pleased our friendship mellowed over the years. He always had a welcome greeting and a kind word. I'll remember him with much respect. My condolences to his family. God bless.

Nancy Nemec-Coulson

February 1, 2007

I worked for Joe at KHS from 1989-2001. An absolutely wonderful man who was always smiling at you and talking to you as though he really cared...about you, your life, and your family. He loved KHS athletics and all of the kids. The school will be a very somber place without him. My thoughts and prayers are with his family. God bless.

Joan Wilson

February 1, 2007

Edy, my heartfelt sympathy to you and your family at the loss of your father and grandfather.

Francesco Bifulco

February 1, 2007

Mr. Aulisi was a great guy, for the 4 years I knew him in High School he was always there at every sporting event, Including the ones I played in. He LOVED to be around Kearny High School Athletics and he wont be forgotten. "Once a Marine, Always a Marine" he used to say when we asked him if he was an ex-Marine.
Great Man to know.

Gigi Goyonaga

February 1, 2007

Dr. Aulisi,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Rest in Peace Mr. Aulisi! you left behind another great man.

Matthew Leone

February 1, 2007

Your father was a generous presence at the Newark Y in our young days--many of us, I'm sure, as do I, appreciate all that he did, all that he meant to us as we grew up splashing around under his watchful, guarding--lifeguarding, that is--eye. Our sincerest condolences.

The Cappiello Family

January 31, 2007

Rest in peace Mr. Aulisi. Your legacy will remain forever with all of the people in Kearny who had the pleasure of knowing you.

Manny Ventoso Jr.

January 31, 2007

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Felicia Diggs RN

January 31, 2007

Dr. Aulisi,

My deepest regrets & sympathetic heart pours out to you and your family. I know your father was a great man. It shows through you, your family, and the tremendous amount of people he knew and touched.

Love,

Don Cooney

January 31, 2007

Mr. Joseph Aulisi was a great man and a wonderful father. Our deepest sympathy to our dear associate, Edy at the loss of his dad. Our prayers are for his entire family. Don Cooney family.

James Zangari

January 31, 2007

My deepest sympathy to the Aulise Family, regretably I am residing in Boca Raton, Florida Or I would have loved to pay my respects in person. We both went to Sacred Heart and I have many fond memories of Joe. May you rest in peace.

Zachary Levine

January 31, 2007

We express our sympathy to the entire Aulisi Family. A great man has left a great legacy. Zach, Jennifer, Julia and Leah

Maria Thompson

January 31, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers to all of the Aulisi family.
Maria and Tommy Thompson

Brian Churchman

January 31, 2007

Big Ben was a great teacher and a great man - tough on the outside and warm on the inside. Some of my fondest memories from Kearny High came from guidance he provided. (Class of '68)

Margaret and Jim Sheldon

January 31, 2007

We feel so grateful and priviledged to have gotten to know Joseph Aulisi at the family celebrations at Barb and Mike's home. We celebrate with you his esteemed life of service as a devoted husband, father and educator, and send our love, prayers and deepest sympathy to all the Aulisi family.

The Sheldons
Margaret, Jim, Jamie and Andrew

LuAnn Agaman

January 31, 2007

Rest in peace....remember Mr. Aulisi very well from Kearny High. A constant at the school, was kinda comforting...even to this day, watching him at my nephews varsity football games....sending my sympathy to the family...a 1983 Kearny High Graduate, Lu Ann

Philip Bellini

January 31, 2007

You were my mentor, my coach, a fellow Marine, and my friend. I was
your "watch charm guard" and we seemed to have a special bond. I will always cherish that bond. I will miss not being able to visit with you on my return visits to Kearny and our calls to one another each Nov. 10th, the Marine Corps birthday. I look forward to the day when I will again join you in that special place in heaven where all Marines are sent.
Rest in peace Marine, you have completed your mission on earth. Semper Fi.

Laura Sandomeno

January 31, 2007

Lisa, so very sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. You and your family are in our prayers. Love and support from family and friends will help you at this time and in the days to come.

Christopher Schul

January 31, 2007

I worked for Joe at KHS from 1996-2001. He was a pleasure to work for and a great person. God Bless Mr. Aulisi and his family.

Dave/Orchid Carlson

January 31, 2007

A sad time for the Aulisi family and for Kearny High School and our town. Joe was so dedicated to our students and school. He will be missed by all he 'touched'. Our Sincere Sympathy to Mildred and all the Aulisi family.

Lisa Aulisi

January 31, 2007

Thank you for everything you taught me...I hope I can give my children what you have given me. I love you and will miss you very much.....your baby, Lisa

Connie Johnson

January 31, 2007

I grew up upstairs from the Aulisi boys, they were like my big brothers. This is such sad news. My deepest sympathy to his wife, children, grandchildren and to Vinnie.

Love & Prayers
Connie Cerato

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