Joseph M. Coughlin

1951 - 2020

Joseph M. Coughlin obituary, 1951-2020, Pittsfield, MA

Joseph M. Coughlin

1951 - 2020

BORN

1951

DIED

2020

Joseph Coughlin Obituary

Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Mar. 31, 2020.
It is with great sadness that the family of Joseph M. Coughlin, 68 of Houston, TX, announces his passing, on Monday, March 23, 2020, at his home, with his devoted wife Laura at his side, after a brave and fearless fight with cancer. Born in Pittsfield, MA on October 1, 1951 to the late Thomas W. and Eleanor Coughlin (Aulisi). He was the second oldest of seven children.

He graduated from St. Joseph Catholic High School in Pittsfield, MA in 1970, where he was tri captain of the football team. He served in the U.S. Navy from 1970 to 1974, as an aviation mechanic and received an Honorable Discharge. He attended Shasta Communty College in Redding, CA and completed his license in Airframe and Powerplant in 1980.

While living and working in Houston, TX he met his life- long and perfect partner, Laura Back. They were married on July 15, 1978 in Holliston, MA. They settled in Houston and Joe retired from Total USA in 2016, where he worked for 32 years as a technician and served as a volunteer/certified fireman and EMT.

Joe was the consummate husband and father. Nothing brought him more joy than being with his girls. He leaves his wife Laura, and his three daughters, Jacquelyn Fries (John), Lisa Coughlin and Elizabeth Coughlin and her fiance Charles Michaelis, and three grandsons, John Fries Jr., Jude Fries, and Cole Michaelis. He also is survived by five sisters, Kathleen Cesan (Earl), Susan Nichols (Robert), Siobhan Fusini (Dennis), Stella Coughlin (Michael Michon) and Mary Coughlin (Rick Berrian), and his brother Richard Coughlin of Cedar Park, TX, his sister in law Karla Back and her husband Peter von Stackelberg of Alfred, New York. He leaves 16 nieces and nephews who will miss their Uncle Joey very much, and 8 great nieces and nephews, many, many cousins, his Aunts Mary Coughlan, Lucy Aulisi and Lena Riche. Also his life long friend John Voltoline of Leander, TX. He is predeceased by his mother in law Mary Margaret Back, and father in law Arthur Edward Back.

Joe was an avid New York Yankees fan as a child and a young man, but became a true Houston Astros fan along with the rest of his familuy. He excelled at mechanics and could repair and build anything, including Jeeps, motorcycles, and his favorite Dodge vans. He was also a talented, self taught carpenter and wood worker. He had many remarkable talents, but always was very modest and had a humorous self deprecating way. A more peaceful and loving man there never was.

There are no calling hours. A family celebration of life will take place at a later date. Charitable donations can be made in Joe's memory to the Boys and Girls Club of Pittsfield, and also a plea for blood donations. Joe was a regular donator until he became sick, if you have the time and can do so, please do it for Joe.

Cigarette smoking killed Joe. Please stop or don't start for yourself and the love of your family.

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April 5, 2020

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April 5, 2020

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April 3, 2020

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Siobhan Fusini

April 5, 2020

Requiescant in Pace meus dilectus frater

Theresa (Rische) O'Canas

April 5, 2020

I want to express my condolences to Joey's immediate family and to all of his siblings (my cousins).

God bless all of you.

April 3, 2020

To All of Joey's family...I have sent cards to Laura and to Mary. Although I haven't responded here, and I am not very savy with a computer, I wanted to extend my deepest sympathies to all of you for the loss of Joey. I will always remember his gentle disposition, his ready smile, and his generosity of warmth and welcome when I came to visit him in Texas. Also, growing up with Joey...he was fun, engaging, and someone I looked forward to visiting and playing with as a kid! What a great picture of him here...it really depicts the warmth of his personality that he always conveyed to others! Please know that you are all thought of during this most difficult time..and I too grieve with you of our loss.! May his soul and his beloved life be now returned to his loved ones who have passed before him...God Bless You! Love, Maria Gennari

Brian Flynn

April 1, 2020

Very sad to hear of Joe's passing. He was a terrific guy with a great sense of humor and obviously was a man of many talents. It was a pleasure to be his classmate. My heart goes out to his family. RIP Joe.

April 1, 2020

I was sorry to read about Joe's passing. Even though we weren't close friends in high school, Joe was always a friendly and happy person to be around.
My condolences go out to the Coughlin family.

Jim Simon
St. Joseph's Class of 1970

Siobhan Fusini

April 1, 2020

Letter from a little sister to a big brother : Thank you for the tickles , the hugs, the kisses with your scratchy mustache . For the rides in your open Jeep and motorcycle and up in the air on your feet . The smile on your face when I made you a peanut butter sandwich, gifts from Disney Land, Christmas when I was ten, coming home to drive me across country to live in the big city with you , your laugh , your undivided attention , your presence . Thank you to everyone who prayed fervently for Joe the last 2 1/2 years , especially to my four sisters and brother for sharing my loss and broken heart . Thank you to our brave and faithful mother for keeping our family safe and close and unbroken . Thank you to Laura , Jacki , Lisa and Elizabeth for loving my brother so dearly and making his life complete . Thank you to Saint Jude and Saint Ann for their intercession in bringing Joe and his entire family home to his beloved Berkshires after his initial victory over cancer , and to all his providers at MDAHospital. Thank you to Saint Theresa for fulfilling her promises and for sending me a rose . And finally ... thank you to Saint Bartholomew for interceding for Joey so that he no longer suffered .

Debra Ramsey-Fortune

March 31, 2020

This truly saddens me. I have known this man, his family, brother & sisters since high school. Even though time drifted us apart, in recent years I had again connected with Joe and Laura. As I read all these loving tributes, I wholly agree there was never a more gentle or loving soul. Always smiling and bringing laughter into the world. I know he will be greatly missed. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. My sincerest sympathy.

Peter McGOVERN

March 31, 2020

I remember Joe as a friend and a good football player at St. Joe. He was always friendly
and positive in the way he related to people.
He clearly has passed away far too soon.
God Bless!

Karen Hunkler

March 31, 2020

Cousins are amazing to have and grow up with. Someone as special as Joey can never be forgotten. I will always remember him as selfless, kind and compassionate and as a great son to my beloved Aunt Eleanor.

Karla Back

March 31, 2020

Joe was my dear brother in law....he was one of the most peaceful, funny, simple-living people I have known. He loved my sister Laura. I remember so clearly the day that Joe and Laura wed in my parents backyard in Holliston Mass. It was a rainly July day, all the Coughlins arrived and our few family and friends, and then the sky parted and the sun came out and what a beautiful ceremony and day it was. Laura and Joe were young and I worried about them as they drove off in their old van headed for California. They had three wonderful daughters Jacki, Lisa, and Elizabeth, who Joe loved dearly, as well as his son in law, grandsons, nieces, and nephews, his sisters and brother, his dear friends, and all of his wonderful family in Pittsfield and now in various part of Texas and beyond. He loved being outdoors with the wind at his back on his motorcycles or in his Jeep (he loved that Jeep); he so loved his Yankees and then the Astros (an acquired taste), and a quiet afternoon on his back deck with the family dogs or tinkering in the garage. Joe taught us how to live simply, love lots, and appreciate a sense of humor. Joe was a funny man and a kind and gentle man and we are all better for having him in our lives. Thank you Joe.

Paul Coughlan

March 31, 2020

Joey is my cousin and we lived on the same street for about a decade. I witnessed first hand his remarkable creative talents in everything from automobile model building in his youth to wood working projects for his daughters as an adult. But his most remarkable talent was his warm, helping manner which made him loved by everyone who knew him. Joey was often called on to help others and he was always good natured about helping those who were much younger than him. He was a giving person. Joey will truly be missed by everyone who knew him.

March 31, 2020

Joey is my cousin and we lived on the same street for about a decade. I witnessed first hand his remarkable creative talents in everything from automobile model building in his youth to wood working projects for his daughters as an adult. But his most remarkable talent was his warm, helping manner which made him loved by everyone who knew him. Joey was often called on to help others and he was always good natured about helping those who were much younger than him. He was a giving person. Joey will truly be missed by everyone who knew him.

Paul Coughlan

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