Kelly Scott Perdue

Kelly Scott Perdue

Kelly Perdue Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Dec. 17 to Dec. 18, 2005.
Kelly Scott Perdue, 45, of Albemarle County, died Thursday, Dec. 15, 2005, of a heart attack, at his residence.

Born Aug. 26, 1960, in Washington, D.C. he was one of four children of Charles L. Perdue and Nancy J. Martin-Perdue of Twymans Mill, Madison County, Va. Kelly was predeceased by his identical twin, Kevin Barry Perdue, on Dec. 3, 1979.

Kelly graduated from Rappahannock County High School in 1978. In 1983 he graduated from Piedmont Community College with a degree in respiratory therapy and worked in that capacity for several years with Martha Jefferson Hospital. He returned to school and received a B.A. degree in chemistry from the University of Virginia, and a Doctorate in Pharmacy from Virginia Commonwealth University. He was employed from 1997 until his death by Martha Jefferson Hospital where he served as a clinical pharmacist in MJH associated Family Practices in Orange, Madison, Crozet, Forest Lakes and Stanardsville. He was a member of the American Society of Health System Phamacists, as well as the Virginia Branch of that organization.

Music was inevitably a part of Kelly's life, he and his twin Kevin attended their first hootenany in Washington, D.C. at the age of three months, and he was deeply influenced by the music of his parents who, in addition to singing around the house all the time, performed traditional music in coffee houses and at festivals on the east coast.

From the age of four years, Kelly gained some of his musical influences from Rappahannock County bluesman and songster, John Jackson, and his family, who were friends with the Perdue family for over 40 years.

Kelly decided on the mandolin as his preferred instrument; although, he ultimately became proficient on guitar, fiddle, and other instruments. Throughout high school he played mandolin with his twin, Kevin, who played banjo. After Kevin's death, Kelly played with numerous individuals and groups until, in 1989, he and several friends formed the band, Mando Mafia.

That group consisted of Kelly, Rick Friend, Pete Marshall, Bill Giltinan, and Vaughan Mairs. The band , and Kelly as an individual musician, have won awards at several festivals on the east coast, and one of their CD's was given an award by the French magazine, "Tradicion."

Kelly is survived by his wife of 24 years, Elizabeth Steel-Perdue and two sons, Benjamin Tipton Perdue and Daniel Walton Perdue; his parents, Charles L. Perdue and Nancy Martin-Perdue of Twymans Mill, Madison County; two brothers,Marc Charles Perdue and his wife, Anne, and their daughters, Kathryn and Theresa, of Crozet; and Martin Clay Perdue and his wife, Susan Holbrook, and their two daughters, Emily and Sarah, of Lake Monticello.

Survivors also include Kelly's in-laws, Joseph Steel and his wife, Kay, of Ormond Beach, Fla.; and brother-inlaw, Joseph Steel III and his wife, Lynne, of Herndon, Va.

Kelly will be sorely missed by his professional friends; by the musical community; and most of all by his family.

Family visitations will be held from 2 to 4 p.m., Sunday afternoon, Dec. 18, 2005, and 6 to 8 p.m., Monday evening, Dec. 19, 2005, at the Preddy Funeral Home, Madison.

A private graveside service will be held at the Perdue's Family Cemetery at Twymans Mill the following day.

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December 27, 2005

Marion and Walter Ross posted to the memorial.

December 20, 2005

Scott Mathis posted to the memorial.

December 19, 2005

Monte Blevins posted to the memorial.

Marion and Walter Ross

December 27, 2005

So sorry!

Scott Mathis

December 20, 2005

I first met Kelly at Mt. Airy, I think it was 1985 or 1986. Before heading out for Mt. Airy, we were warned that musicians "back East" were snooty and clickish. Nothing could have been further from the truth. We were warmly welcomed by Kelly and all of Charlottesville folks. Kelly and I struck up a friendship that has lasted 20 years, despite competitions and other wordly disreactions. He set the high bar for old-timey mandolin players. The only thing that exceeded his talent was his generous way of sharing it. We'll miss you Kelly but we'll be playing your tunes and remembering you.To Kelly's family, Linda and I share your loss and sadness. Please be well.

Monte Blevins

December 19, 2005

Kelly was a man of great talent and wit. I met him five years ago as a patient and he has kept me at a normal level all those years Kelly was someone you could sit down and talk to and this we did each visit.

Kelly I will miss the fish stories

thank you my dear friend for five years of friendship

Anita Wright-Thomas

December 19, 2005

I have known Kelly and Libby since Kelly was in Respiratory School at Piedmont. He was one of the nicest and outgoing people I've ever known. Not to mention one of the best UNO players. Kelly will always be remembered at Martha Jefferson Hospital as a top notch Resiratory Therapist and Pharmaciest

Joanna Hudson

December 19, 2005

Kelly was a classmate of mine at the VCU School of Pharmacy from 1992-1996. During that time Kelly and I became study partners and close friends. His intellectual ability combined with his humorous and calming demeanor was a great combination that helped me (and him) through many stressful situations. I certainly loved his music -- so much in fact that I asked him to play at my wedding. Ken and I agreed that his music was one of the highlights of the day. Kelly's music and story/joke telling were well known to those 13 of us in my PharmD class. As a small class we were like a family - Kelly helped us all feel that way. Thank you Kelly…



My deepest sympathy goes to Libby, Ben, Daniel, and to Kelly's entire family. Kelly will truly be missed.



Joanna Hudson

Laura Light

December 19, 2005

Kelly was way more than a good friend, a fellow musician and a central part of our folk music community. He was (and is) a great soul. Perhaps because he had to face death squarely in his family and friend circle, perhaps because he had a huge heart and big spirit, but Kelly was the one who offered true comfort and calm and acceptance to me when I was reeling from the loss of close friends in the past few years. I'm trying to hold on to that aspect of his being at this moment in time, because I already miss him like crazy. It's very hard to think that we won't have that big warm shoulder to lean on when we need it, or that beautiful music to fill our hearts. My thoughts and prayers go out to family and friends, especially Libby and the boys. As usual, I was far away on a gig, but in my heart I am with you all and following Kelly's best advice. Keep loving each other today. He was my best teacher in that subject and I thank him and honor him. There must be a heck of a jam going on in heaven, cause I know he sure didn't want to leave us here. Fly on home, Kelly, we'll always think of you and miss you and love you.

Laura

Tom Hogge

December 18, 2005

I have been a big fan of Kelly's music for several years. I got to meet him and pick with him a couple times in the last few years and I count it as a privilege. I lost a close friend, Preston Hawkins, earlier this year. Preston and I used to go see the Mafia at the Prism Coffee House. Preston was so inspired by Kelly's picking that he bought a mandolin, but he never got that far with it. I have the mandolin now, actually. I can only hope that maybe Kelly is giving Preston lessons up in Heaven right now. I know I was always in Heaven just listening to him play. And oh, what a kind person he was. He will be missed greatly.



Tom Hogge

Julie Mangin

December 18, 2005

I have many fond memories of Kelly at music festivals for the past 15 or 20 years. He was always a superb musician, a fine storyteller, and a good friend. He was always a joy to be around. I am saddened beyond words that I can express to think I won't see him at the next festival. My heart goes out to Libby, the boys, and all of Kelly's family and friends.

Kathleen Bouman

December 18, 2005

To my dearest brother-in-law, Marc and my sister, Anne; your devoted parents, Nan and Chuck; to Kelly's loving family,Elizabeth, Ben and Dan:On behalf of Anne's family, the Bromleys, please accept our profound sympathy on the loss of a wonderful brother,son, brother-in-law, father and husband, musician and friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this dark time. May your memories of his love, his music, and his good deeds bring you comfort and peace. My husband, Larry and I and all of Anne's family will keep you close in our hearts. Fondly, Kathy Bromley Bouman

Kathy Atkins

December 17, 2005

Kelly was one of the most wonderful people I have ever met and I enjoyed working with him at Orange Family Physicians. He was such a happy bubbly person. You could be in the worst mood and Kelly could brighten your day and just make you feel better. I loved the childhood stories he would share with me and all the loving stories of his sons and wife ,who said it was love at first sight. My husband Gordon, did rotation under Kelly and he truly enjoyed working with him. He said Kelly was a great man. Kelly Perdue you will truly be missed. You touched so many in such a wonderful way. God Bless and be with all your family.

Derek Halsey

December 17, 2005

Kelly was a friend of mine, and I wrote and put together a tribute to Kelly, with the help of musician Tim O'Brien who was most gracious, online with more info. You can find it at http://tinyurl.com/9de8h





Derek Halsey

Gritz Magazine

Bluegrass Unlimited

michelle aldridge

December 17, 2005

Kelly was a person that lit up a room with his fun and special spirit. Every time that I worked with him he had an encouraging word for me and told me that things would get better for me, to keep my chin up.

Love,

Michelle Aldridge

Crozet Family Medicene

Sharon Barrett

December 17, 2005

My last conversation with Kelly was last Tuesday at work. He spoke about his wife and how they met so many years ago. He said they went out for a beer one night and he really liked her.The next day she moved in and he said she never left so he figured he better ask her to marry him. He spoke of his kids and how lucky he was to have them, that so many people take them for granted. We talked about the miscarriages he and his wife had, and how hard it was for them to have kids. He seemed so happy! I had to share this conversation with you because we could have spoke about so many things that day, but it was his family that he shared with me. I know that he loved you all very much! Even though I only knew Kelly for the two years that I have worked at Crozet family medicine it fells like I have known him for a lifetime. He loved all his patients very much and they loved him. I recieved many phone calls at work today of patients who had just read the paper and called because they couldn't believe that it was our "Kelly". We will all miss him very much! Sincerely,

Sharon Barrett,RN

Doug and Christine Campbell

December 17, 2005

Libby and Family, We are so saddened by the loss of Kelly. We knew him from the music we played with him at Clifftop and Mt Airy. His genius of musicianship, his love of family, and stimulation of work were obvious to all who knew him. Aside from mandolin/old-time talk, we shared discussion of medicine and hospital life since we also shared that connection. May you find comfort that Kelly was a tremendous human whose kindness and enthusiasm made all our lives richer. We are so sorry. Doug and Chris Campbell

Sheila Newman

December 17, 2005

To all who knew and loved Kelly we send our heartfelt condolences. We are grateful that Kelly gave us all so many gifts, but we are saddened beyond words because we are going to miss him so much. We send all our love to Kelly's family, and his musical family.

Lorie Lichtenwalner

December 17, 2005

I first met Kelly with his parents and a brother or two at a Sunday Newcomb Hall dance in the fall of '74. He was all of 14 or 15. I was all of 19. It was many years until I ran into him again. Marc and I recently recalled those Sunday dances with fond memories. I'm glad I got to know them both a little bit after all those years. My own brother, Dan, died yesterday in PA of complications of leukemia. If Kelly took his mandolin with him, Dan has his banjo and I bet they're all playing music in the air. Let's have a moment for brothers...they are so special. LL

Teresa Krohn

December 17, 2005

I had the pleasure of working with Kelly at Orange Family Physicians . Kelly,s office was located in our department and he brought such brightness to our area. Upon his arrival each day, he would always make a point of saying hello to the three of us. We always enjoyed the sharing of photos of his son's which he had many of in his office and was so proud of. Kelly had such a gentle and caring way with his patients and everyone he met. I will miss his voice and his eagerness he always showed in helping us decorate our area for all the holidays. He enjoyed most Halloween and Christmas. I will miss his smile but I know he will continue smiling upon us. We at Orange Family will have many laughts ,smiles and tears when we think of our friend, Kelly.



Teresa

BECKY FRAZIER

December 17, 2005

KELLY WAS A GRAT GUY. I REALLY ENJOYED TALKING TO HIM ON THURSDAYS AT FOREST LAKES. HE WILL TRUELY BE MISSED. YOUR IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.

LaDonna Winegar

December 17, 2005

Kelly was a very special soul and will be greatly missed.

Keeping you in thoughts and prayers,

A friend from Forest Lakes,

LaDonna

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