Matthew J. Coughlin

Matthew J. Coughlin obituary, Candia, NH

Matthew J. Coughlin

Matthew Coughlin Obituary

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Matthew J. Coughlin, age 55, of Candia, passed away unexpectedly after a short illness. He and his wife had selected rural New Hampshire to raise their horses, dog, chickens, rabbits and koi. He leaves behind his loving wife, Marcia Trudeau and two children, James M. Coughlin and Laura E. Coughlin. He is also survived by his parents, William J. and Marguerite R. Coughlin of Beverly, MA; three siblings, William J. Coughlin, Kathleen M. Kalentkowski and Cheri Coughlin; and aunts, uncles, nieces and nephews. Matt's family moved to Beverly, MA in 1961. He was educated in the Beverly public school system and graduated from Beverly High School in 1979. In preparation for his eventual appointment to West Point, Class of 1984, he spent a year in 1980 at New Hampton School. Following his appointment to West Point, Matthew graduated from the University of Massachusetts with a focus in law enforcement. His passion for law enforcement led him on a journey through the Hooksett, NH Police Department and culminated in a 27 year career as a senior special agent with the U.S. Department of Justice Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco, Firearms and Explosives. Matt was an avid ocean fisherman, especially when his friend, Paul Delorenzo, was paying for the gas. In high school he played football, basketball and track and was co-captain of the 1979 football team. He was a member of the Manchester Ancient Order of Hibernians. He enjoyed beekeeping and his favorite pastime was working his gentleman's farm whilst riding his John Deere tractor. A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated on Friday, July 8, 2016 at St. Catherine Church, 267 Webster St., Manchester. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Cancer Society, 2 Commerce Dr. Suite 110, Bedford, NH 03110.

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Jason L

June 3, 2025

You were a good man.

Jim Tanda

March 12, 2023

Years have passed, but Matt, you will never be forgotten. I´ll always cherish our time at the Academy together as new Agents. Rest in Peace, my friend.

Ryan Mahoney

December 9, 2022

Thank you for everything you've done for me I think about u all the time. Matt really helped me get my life back together and restored my faith in law enforcement. U may be gone but never forgotten.i know u would be proud of me if u could see how much I've improved my way of life and the company I keep are really good honest men and women. I'm sorry we never got to say goodbye to each other and I didn't believe it at first because of ur job but you where a gentleman and I'm proud of you for everything you've done for our country. God bless you and your family

Ellen Niles

September 1, 2016

Kathy and family,
I just learned of the passing of your brother.my deepest sympathy to all of you.

Deborah Murphy

July 8, 2016

Jimmy and Laura, so very sorry to hear of the loss of your dad. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Debbie Murphy and family

Tom Hayes

July 8, 2016

Matt was a fine young man and athlete at BHS. I remember him as a personable, respectful, and coachable player when I was assisting Coach Arnold with BHS hoop. Bill & Marguerite, be proud of the job you did raising a good man.

Benedict Onye

July 7, 2016

You were a very good friend in college and beyond, you will be missed. To the Coughlin family, we will keep your family in our prayers.

Scott & Karen Jangraw

July 7, 2016

Bill, You & your family are in our prayers. We are sorry for your loss.

Marie Norris

July 7, 2016

I'm writing to extend my sincerest sympathy to the Coughlin family. A light has been extinguished, but its glow continues to shine and warm those left behind. Your gentleman farmer's legacy is his protection and support of his family and his country. May your family, friends and memories of Matt be a wonderful source of comfort to you always.
Marie F. Norris Centerville School- Beverly, MA

Shannon Barror

July 7, 2016

Matt was a classmate and neighbor of mine in Beverly. He was always so kind and welcoming through JR HS and HS.....My heart goes out to his family and loved ones. Condolences. xo

Mary and Phil Winn

July 7, 2016

So sorry for your loss

Jim & Carey McLoud

July 7, 2016

Our deepest condolences to you Marcia, Jimmy & Laura. We will miss his interrogations at the store, but more importantly we will just miss him! Too young, too soon.

Joanne and Jeff Smith

July 7, 2016

Matt was a great friend with a heart as big as the ocean. I will never forget the many great times we shared at BHS and UMass. We will miss him dearly.

Sandi Walford-DeValkenaere

July 7, 2016

Condolences to Matt's family and friends. I was a classmate of Matt's at FLETC in 1989. Matt is no doubt smiling down on us now, he will be missed.....

Sean Kilbreth

July 7, 2016

Matty will be missed. Law Enforcement has lost a great soldier in the mission. Matty Godspeed .. May your family find comfort during this time.

Cynd "CG" Budahn

July 6, 2016

My sincere condolences to the Coughlin family and Matt's LE family as well. I will remember with a smile, all the fun times we had in our 20+ years working together. Matt, you were one of the good guys! I will especially miss hearing "CG! What up?" in the Halls of Justice when you'd come by to say hi! Rest In Peach my friend.

Rob Cashman

July 5, 2016

So sorry to hear of Matt's passing. He was a friend from high school who many of us remember fondly. My condolences to the Coughlin family.

Christopher Gilroy

July 5, 2016

Matt was a stand up guy and a cops cop. He always stepped up when we needed anything in Hampton, NH. Matt will be missed. Our condolences and sorrow for he and his family's loss.

Bob Boland

July 5, 2016

Much sympathy to the Coughlin Family on your loss. I was a classmate of Matt's in NAT-006 at the ATF Academy, and have many fond memories of "Ming the Merciless." I was fortunate to spend a short period of time with him during the summer of 2006 while in Manchester. He was the same great guy! May you find comfort in all the great memories of him.

John Morris

July 5, 2016

Matt;

Gone way too soon. I have many great memories of the Portland - Concord connections. May your family have peace and comfort in this time of loss.

Karen Kennard

July 5, 2016

Our deepest sympathies to Cheri and family for the loss of your brother. I hope you find comfort in your memories of Matt at this very difficult time in your lives. The Kennard Family

Terri Kenny

July 4, 2016

To The Coughlin Family-
Sending prayers to you all during this time of need. I sincerely know that he will be missed by you all. God bless.

Kraig Hankins

July 4, 2016

So sorry for your loss. May family and friends be comforted during this time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Mark Kraft

July 4, 2016

It was my honor to have know and worked with Matt at ATF.
My family's thoughts and prayers will be with you. Remember that the memories that bring a tear to your eye today will bring a smile to your face the rest of your life.

BJ Zapor

July 4, 2016

Travel well brother...thank you heavenly Father for letting us have Matt as a brother and friend.
Faith and Muscle...

Marilyn Waitt

July 4, 2016

to Matt's family - The Waitt family is in shock after hearing about Matt's death. He was so good to all of us and even came from NH to NY for our golden anniversary party and also to Dick's funeral. Dick would be
so upset about this - he loved Matthew . We are praying for him and for his family. He was a great human being who was loved by so many. love, Aunt Marilyn

Louise McLaughlin

July 4, 2016

My thoughts and prayers to Matt's family. RIP Matt.

Mary Magee-Johnson

July 3, 2016

Jimmy and Laura, We are sad to hear of the loss of your Dad. Mary Elizabeth and Steve

Anne Marie Paskalis

July 3, 2016

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Coughlin family. Matt may you RIP.

Karen Carney-Hatch

July 2, 2016

Matty, you were a brother and friend since we started working together at ATF back in 1989. I will cherish the memories. You will be missed. Rest in peace and God bless. Love and prayers to Marcia and Matt 's family.

J. White

July 2, 2016

Matt, You will be greatly missed! May all of our happy thoughts and memories bring comfort to everyone that knows you. God bless and Rest in Peace!

Michele Hulbert

July 2, 2016

Marcia, so sorry for your loss. Sending you love and prayers to comfort you through these difficult time. We love you, Michrle, Aunt Susan, and Morgan.

Lori Witt

July 2, 2016

Matt you were a good and kind person. We enjoyed a good laugh last time you visited the office. You left us way too soon - Rest In Peace. My sincerest condolences to the Coughlin family, extended family , friends and the Manchester Field Office.

Donna Muir

July 2, 2016

Matt - may you be at peace. So many good times to remember! love, Donna

Madeleine and Bob Michel

July 2, 2016

Our deepest sympathy to your family, we knew you and your mom and dad when you were in Beverly.
.

Ernie Yerrington

July 2, 2016

To Matty, thank you for having my 6 every step of the way for 26 years!! You will sorely be missed and never forgotten.

Linda Colby

July 1, 2016

Rest in peace

Mandi Gingras

July 1, 2016

I'm so very sorry for your loss Marcia. May the comfort of friends and family surround you and help you through this very difficult time. You are in my thoughts.

Daniel Futrell

July 1, 2016

Matt, I will miss you. You were there with me since the beginning of my career with ATF. I wouldn't have wanted anyone else by my side when the going got tough. I'm glad we got to speak a few weeks ago. Your friend, Daniel Futrell

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