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Nancy Taylor Benson
1970 - 2016
Nancy Taylor Benson
1970 - 2016
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Nancy Taylor Benson May 12, 1970 - August 13, 2016
Nancy Taylor Benson, 46, of Fairfax, Virginia passed away on Saturday, August 13, 2016. Nancy was a talented freelance artist and a beautiful presence both inside and out. Nancy’s glowing smile radiated love and kindness to her cherished children and family.
Nancy was a multi-faceted person of many interests motivated by an insatiable curiosity and a love of learning. She graduated from the Holton-Arms School in 1988 and from Colgate University in 1992 with a degree in Art History. She pursued graduate studies in art at George Mason University with the goal of reaching out to disadvantaged youth, wanting to “help tidy up inner lives so everyone’s outer lives can be clean, sparkly, beautiful and flowy.” In addition to her lifelong artistic practice, and her talented freelance work in art, Nancy was a yoga teacher. As a spiritual seeker and practitioner, Nancy had a keen interest in ancient philosophies and belief systems. Nancy’s philosophy in life was “to live in every moment and just be.”
Nancy had a deep affinity and love of nature, and derived much joy in hiking the local woods with her family dogs. Nancy’s sensitivity to others and kindness was always on display in her encouraging presence and ready smile. She will be dearly missed by all those who loved her, and who derived so much joy and delight from her.
She is survived by her children, Lucy Benson Clarke, and Thomas Benson Clarke; her mother, Susan Benson; her sister, Tracy Adams Benson and her brother, James William Benson, Jr.; her former husband David Clarke and her best friend, Steve Scholl. Her beloved memory will be cherished by many more.
The family will receive friends from 6 to 8 pm on Friday, August 19 at Demaine Funeral Home in Fairfax with remarks being given at 7pm.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to:
Friends of Homeless Animals
P.O. Box 415
Aldie, VA 20105
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Jennifer Bryson Robinson
July 17, 2017
I am so saddened to learn that Nancy has passed away. Nancy and I were friends in elementary school, participating in girl scouts and hanging around. She could make me laugh so hard that I cried. In addition to having a quick sense of humor, Nancy was incredibly creative and always had a unique perspective. I admired her and thought that she was one of the truly all-around great people in our world. I'm glad that my childhood experiences were influenced by Nancy's friendship.
Kat Whatley
July 4, 2017
It's been almost a year since we lost Nancy, and I still think about her so often. She has left such a void in our universe that can never be filled. I met her 7 years ago, when I was 15 years old. I can say without a doubt that I have never and, likely, will never met a more creative, inspiring, and simply beautiful soul. She came into my life at such a pivotal time and really left her mark...
It breaks my heart but I also can't help but smile when I find a little match box she decorated, a handmade card, a simple bookmark she made. She was the coolest woman I've ever known. I hope she found her peace.
Karen Cheng
June 1, 2017
Nancy was one of the most radiant woman I ever met I am beyond sad to hear this news. She did art with my daughter Keira and her creativity and skill was contagious I loved to have Keira around Nancy. Nancy you will always be loved and missed by my family, we were always so excited to be in your company.
October 30, 2016
Dear Family,
We have only just today learned of Nancy's very untimely death. We are shocked and very saddened - for her and for all of you! Please know that we will always remember Nancy as she has been so aptly described, and will also always cherish the darling little handmade Christmas card she sent us many years ago. She was a very talented woman in so many ways. Take care of Lucy and Tom - and yourselves.
With love from Tockey and Bill
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August 21, 2016
I cannot tell you how saddened I am to hear of Nancy's passing. Our paths continuously crossed since 1998 when we both started at UMUC together, to just these past years at elementary school when our kids ended up being in the same class. It was always are wonderful joy to see her again. To Nancy's family: I am sending my thoughts and support to you. I am so sorry. Adrienne Sullivan
August 19, 2016
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Jan Kearney
August 19, 2016
We were so lucky to have Nancy helping us with costumes for our performers at various special events. Everyone commented on how helpful and friendly she was, a true pleasure to be around. I can't even begin to express how much we will miss her!
Philip Clarke
August 19, 2016
We are very sad that Nancy has left us for this time. The photo posted here is a pleasing and powerful reminder of her sweet spirit. We grieve with you all in this loss of a lovely woman who added so much to this life. Love from the Clarkes in NC
Julie M
August 18, 2016
So sad to hear of Nancy's passing. Sending prayers to her family and friends.
August 18, 2016
Our entire family felt Nancy's light through her friendship (and childhood shenanigans) with my sister, Emily. Her light started there but continued through the whole family each time she came to visit.
It would be an incredible gift to her children, her mother and others she loved to send a letter when it is least expected that captures a favorite memory of her and how she specifically brought light to our lives.
Then, perhaps, Nancy Benson's light will outshine the heartache we feel as life unfolds without her.
Amazing Peace,
Lisa Moody Breslin
a. a.
August 17, 2016
I am incredibly sorry for your family's loss and am saddened by the void Nancy's passing has left.
August 16, 2016
Nancy was dearly loved.
Caryn Morgan
August 16, 2016
I was heartbroken to hear of this. Nancy was my friend in Elementary school and I have thought about her often over the years. My thoughts are with the family, for peace and understanding, during this difficult time.
The Arnsteins
August 16, 2016
We are so sorry to learn about Nancy's passing and are heartbroken for your family's loss. Prayers for peace and comfort from your old neighbors.
Teresa W
August 16, 2016
An absolutely beautiful woman inside and out with the gift of a smile and friendly hello for everyone around her. She will be very missed. Our thoughts are with her family and friends.
David M
August 16, 2016
Nancy brought many gifts to my life that I will never forget!
Wishing the Benson family hope and peace during this difficult time.
Words seem inadequate to express the sadness I feel about Nancy's death. I pray that your heart and soul find peace and comfort!
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