Phares G. "Sonny" Stauffer

Phares G. "Sonny" Stauffer obituary, Sunbury, PA

Phares G. "Sonny" Stauffer

Phares Stauffer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 17, 2009.
MOUNT PLEASANT MILLS - Phares G. "Sonny" Stauffer, 69, of Steffen Valley Road, went home to be with his Lord on Wednesday, July 15, 2009, at Geisinger Medical Center, Danville, from injuries suffered in a farming accident at his home.
He was born Dec. 12, 1939, in Selinsgrove, a son of the late Phares O. and Lizzie (Gehman) Stauffer. On May 26, 1961, he was united in marriage to the former Erma F. Neitz, who survives. His passing breaks a loving marital union of 48 years.
He was educated at the Kantz Grammar Schoolhouse.
He was a part-time carpenter in his early years. Starting in 1981, he owned and operated the Phares Stauffer Custom Retail Butcher Shop at RR1 Mount Pleasant Mills, retiring in 2005. During most of his years of working, he was engaged in farming. Following his retirement, he and his wife, Erma, assisted their children in the operation of the continued family butcher shop business and the farm.
Mr. Stauffer attended both Ebenezer Bible Church, Selinsgrove, and St. Thomas Independent Brethren in Christ Church, Mount Pleasant Mills. He was a member of the Pennsylvania Farm Bureau.
Family times were cherished by Mr. Stauffer, especially those spent with his grandchildren and his great-grandson. He enjoyed hunting and farming, and he loved to be actively working with the family business.
In addition to his wife, Erma, he is survived by five children, Donna J. Wolf and husband Craig of Port Trevorton, David L. Stauffer and wife Amelia, Diane L. Smeltz and husband Dale and Debra L. Carnahan and husband Ronald, all of Mount Pleasant Mills, and Darren L. Stauffer and wife Ivy of Middleburg; 11 grandchildren, Heather Wolf, Ryan Wolf, Aleshia, Clayton Smeltz, Trent Smeltz, Jody Muncer and husband Christopher, Brandy Carnahan, Amber Carnahan, Kirsten Stauffer, Collin Stauffer and Caden Stauffer; one great-grandson, Jaden Muncer; two brothers and two sisters, Martha Martin and husband Ira of Port Trevorton, Harvey Stauffer of Middleburg, Sally Stauffer and husband Walter of Selinsgrove and John Stauffer and wife Alice of Mount Pleasant Mills; two brothers-in-law, Paul Good of Port Trevorton and Ray Good of Selinsgrove; one sister-in-law, Catherine Stauffer of Selinsgrove; and several generations of nieces and nephews.
He was preceded by one brother, Titus Stauffer, and two sisters, Anna Mary Good and Ida Good.
The family will receive friends for the visitation from 2 to 4 and 6 to 8 p.m. Sunday and 10 to 11 a.m. Monday, followed by the funeral at 11, all at St. Thomas Independent Brethren in Christ Church, Mount Pleasant Mills, with the Rev. Roger L. Womer officiating, assisted by the Rev. Raymond D. Neitz.
Burial will be made in Ebenezer Bible Church Cemetery, Selinsgrove.
Should friends desire, memorial gifts may be directed in loving memory of Mr. Stauffer to Susquehanna Health Foundation, 1001 Grampian Blvd., Williamsport, PA 17701-1946, or to the Ronald McDonald House of Danville, which lovingly cared for the family of Clayton Smetz, Mr. Stauffer's grandson, during his illness, at P.O. Box 300, Danville, PA 17821.
The George P. Garman Funeral Homes Inc., 9366 Route 35, Mount Pleasant Mills, has been entrusted with the funeral arrangements.

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July 22, 2009

Pizza Ruhls posted to the memorial.

July 22, 2009

Kathy Reichenbach posted to the memorial.

July 22, 2009

Ernest & Tammy Brosious posted to the memorial.

Pizza Ruhls

July 22, 2009

We were shocked when we heard the news.Knowing he's in Heaven makes it a little less painful. He was a great guy. He always had a kind word and that smile could brighten anyones day. He will be greatly missed. You are in our thoughts and prayers. If you need anything please don't hesitate to call thats what friends are for.
Don, Vern, Aundrea, & Christina

Kathy Reichenbach

July 22, 2009

I'm so sorry to hear of Sonny's passing. Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss.

Ernest & Tammy Brosious

July 22, 2009

To the Stauffer Family,

We were so sorry to hear about your Father. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

bran

July 21, 2009

pappy you will be in my heart forever
i love you the mostest of all youll never know! du finged oust!

Denise & Jason Judy

July 21, 2009

To the Stauffer Family,

We are saddened by the news and wish peace to your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Ryan Hostetler

July 20, 2009

To the entire Stauffer family as well as those who worked with the family in the butcher shop,

I always admired "Sonny" for his inspiration to his children, the employees, and also to me as I was greeted early Friday mornings when I delivered meats to a very clean shop with sharpened knives all laid out in a neat now -- ready for use that day. He left a legacy that will impact all those who knew him.

Our thoughts & prayers are with you all
Ryan Hostetler and John F. Martin Meats

Amber Savage

July 20, 2009

Stauffer Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Nancy Bickhart

July 20, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with the family in there time of grief and sorrow. Remember all the good times and your memories will comfort you knowing he will always be with you.

Susan Elsasser Musser

July 20, 2009

Stauffer Family,

Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of your loss of Sonny. He was such a great friend of Dad's and will be missed by the many whose lives were touches by him.

Susan Elsasser Musser

July 20, 2009

Dear Stauffer Family,

Please know my thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Ed Robinson Family

July 19, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Brenda Moore

July 17, 2009

To the Stauffers: I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband & dad. I pray that God will give each one of you the strength you will need to make it through this difficult time. I pray that you will remember all the wonderful memories you had with him, and remember you will get to see him again someday. Your in my thoughts and prayers.

Donna Maize

July 17, 2009

Dear Stauffer family,
I was so sorry to hear about Sonny. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. My heartfelt sympathies are with all of you in this difficult time.

Cathy Rowles

July 17, 2009

Donna,
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Steve Will

July 17, 2009

To the Stauffer Family,

My heart just sank when I heard the news. He was one of those men I always saw as "bigger than life", in other words, a great and unforgettable human being. Such a loss must seem insurmountable right now, but I know that our God has seen you through before and He's still right here. May He carry you right now as you lean on Him.

You're in my thoughts and prayers!

Marie and Tom Murphy

July 17, 2009

To Dave, Amy and Aleshia and entire family:
I was so sorry to hear about your father. May God comfort and sustain you.

Ida Gehman

July 17, 2009

To all the Stauffer's, I can't believe Son is gone. I will miss talking to him when I come "up home". As you know I always get my meat there. It was alway fun to talk to him and harass him. He had such a jolly laugh. Times are changing as the older generation passes on. I know how much you will miss him. I pray for God's grace durng this time and in the days ahead. Blessings to all of you. Love Ida

Barb Ditty Erdman

July 17, 2009

To the entire Stauffer family,
Our deepest condolences to Erma and the girls at the shop, and to the entire family. My dad John Henry Ditty, always felt so close to "Sonny" and was a faithful shopper at the store, introducing his own children and grandchildren to the butcher shop.
I remember "Sonny" visiting at my dad's funeral visitation and how much my mom, Vera Ditty appreciated their stopping by at that time.
May God Bless you All in your time of sorrow. Sincerely,
Barb Ditty Erdman

Ed and Angie Buck

July 17, 2009

To the Girls at the "meat market",
So sorry to hear about your father. You will never forget him but in time the pain in your hearts will not hurt so much. Keep close to your Mom, she has lost her forever partner.

July 17, 2009

Dear Stauffer Family,
My heart go out to you. I pray for you and ask God to comfort you.
Pat Stroup

ron and elaine meiser

July 17, 2009

erma and family,
we are sorry to hear of your loss. we will keep you all in our prayers.

Viki Ludwig

July 17, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

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July 22, 2009

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