Robert James Allaire

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Robert Allaire Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 21, 2025.
Robert James Allaire, 83

Robert James Allaire, 83, of Surprise, Arizona, passed away on Friday, July 11, 2025.

He was born on August 9, 1941, in Long Branch, New Jersey. Robert graduated from Long Branch High School and proudly served in the U.S. Navy. After his military service, he built a life rooted in hard work and family. He spent 30 years employed as a utility worker, where he was known among fellow workers and customers alike for his dedication and strong work ethic.

Robert, was married to his beloved wife, Elaine, for more than 50 wonderful years. Together, they raised a family and shared a lifetime filled with treasured memories, taking particular joy and pride in the accomplishments and character of their two sons.

Later in life, drawn to a warmer and drier climate, they moved to Arizona. Despite the distance, Robert maintained his many lifelong friendships and somehow remained a virtual repository of hometown news and events.

Robert was a passionate fan of the Washington Redskins and New York Yankees for his entire life. Robert's devotion to his teams ran so deep that prior to the advent of cable television he installed a seven foot wide satellite dish in his backyard just to ensure he could watch every game.

Robert brought that same steadfast loyalty to every friendship. He possessed an uncommon kindness and generosity. He was selfless, compassionate and a loyal friend to all who knew him. His soft spoken nature belied his underlying strength of character and unshakable commitment to fairness.

Robert is survived by his sons, Keith Allaire of Centennial, Colorado and Edward Allaire of Buckeye, Arizona; his brother, Keith Allaire of Rockville, Maryland; and his grandchildren, Tyler and Jordan. He is now reunited with his wife, Elaine, and his grandson, Ryan, who preceded him in death.

Robert will be remembered for his loyalty, humor, generosity, and love for his family. He will live on in the hearts of all who know him.

Interment will be held for Robert and Elaine at Woodbine Mausoleum, 14 Maple Ave, Oceanport, New Jersey, 07757, on 9/20/25 at 10:45am, to be followed by a gathering of friends and family to celebrate Robert and Elaine's life.

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10:45 a.m.

Woodbine Mausoleum

14 Maple Ave, Oceanport, NJ 07757

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