Ron Smith

Ron Smith obituary, Frisco, TX

Ron Smith

Ron Smith Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 6, 2023.
Ron Smith was the middle son of Bill and Justine Smith. His older brother is Tony and his younger brother is Jeff. The "Boys" had a blast growing up in Bellflower. From the very beginning to the very end they always had each others backs and still enjoyed being around each other. Their last trip together was in June 2021 to Big Sky Montana for a fly fishing trip and just to hang out one more time, having fun as they did so many other times. The stories they would tell us about all the pranks they played on one another, the fun times they had camping, the long car trips back to Oklahoma to visit family, and many other moments and adventures together. The three musketeers, Ron loved his brothers so very much. Ron grew up in what was called "The American Dream", a Mom & Dad that loved the boys unconditionally and taught them what was important in life; To be a good person, to have integrity, to always do their best, and to have the courage to be a leader of themselves. Those life lessons that Ron's parents imparted on him, taught him early in life what it was to be a good and decent person, and he carried those lessons into his adulthood. He followed his Dad and older brother Tony into the Pipe Trades. Ron started as a apprentice plumber working his first job at the Wilshire House Hotel in Beverly Hills. Throughout his career he advanced and eventually became a Senior Vice President of one of the largest General Contractors on the West Coast. Ron had a passion for the construction industry, he couldn't wait to wake up and get to work. The people that worked with him knew and felt his passion, and he was well respected for his knowledge, work ethic, and leadership. He finished his 55 year career in providing consulting services in the Construction Industry working for Jim Howard of Howard-Young International. The only reason he retired at the age of 74 is that he had to begin to focus his energy on the disease that would eventually take his life. He applied the same positive can do attitude and energy to his battle with cancer. He was a Superman as his doctors called him at MD Anderson.

Ron's life consisted of many other passions, far more important to him was his two daughters Kim and Cindy, his grandchildren Taylor, Amanda, Sophia, and Gabby, and his first great grandchild Zain. Plus Ron knew that the future brother of Zain was arriving in early November and would be his second great grandchild. Ron thought of James, the husband of his eldest daughter Kim as his own son, and loved him dearly. Houston joined the family later and married Cindy his youngest daughter. Ron was so happy that Cindy found such a good man to share her life with and he fit right in with the family. His first grandchild Taylor married Ilijaz and Ron was so happy that Taylor met a man that loves her dearly and that is a wonderful father to Zain. Ron was so very proud of each and everyone and loved his family deeply.

A few things that you may not have known about Ron...

He was the original MacGyver. Ron could make something out of nothing. He could solve a problem at work or around the house utilizing whatever was in front of him. In High School he had a passion for cars and racing. His pride possession was his 1960 Chevy Impala and he was known to have the fastest car in town. From an early age Ron wanted to be a cowboy. He was known to the people that loved him as "Our Wyatt Earp".

In closing, after 18 years together how I remember my Ronnie is that he was so very kind and generous of heart. He never held a grudge. I am so happy that I was able to have 18 years with him to enjoy life together. He made me a better person. At the end Ron said, "I've done more and seen more than I ever thought possible. I've been blessed with a wonderful family, wonderful friends, and that he was leaving this Earth with no regrets. Ron started his new adventure on November 5, 2023

Thank you for being a part of his journey, he loved you all.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Dr. Tina Cascone's Research at MD Anderson Cancer Center, P.O. Box 4486, Houston, TX 77210-4486 or www.mdanderson.org/gifts. Ron always said that Dr. Cascone is the reason he lived as long as he did, she is an amazing Physician and Research Doctor. If you are so inclined, he would love to have any donation sent specifically to her so that many others may benefit from her research and her gentle care as he did, and my Ronnie says thank you!

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November 19, 2023

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November 14, 2023

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November 10, 2023

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Holly

November 19, 2023

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.He and his wife found me on the side of the road .my car broken down and on the verge of being homeless. They pulled over to ask if I needed help which I did I had no cell phone to call anyone for help.These two people have the biggest heart especially Ron got under my car and changed my tire and then they offered to follow me to make sure I got on the road and not only did they do that they took me to Starbucks and bought me food. They were heaven sent people just don't do that stuff anymore for anyone . I adopted them as my aunt and uncle because I really don't have family around .but God bless you Ron I know you are in no more pain .your heart and barbs heart are as big as thus world .heaven sent two angels to help and I'm very grateful God bless always and forever thank you so much for helping me all these years .

Curt Brown

November 14, 2023

Roll up the sleeves, let's get it done. Gentlemen, mentor, consumate professional. Never afraid to lead or jump in to make it happen. One of the respected colleague I've ever had the pleasure of working with. When I think of Ron, I see a sharp dressed man in his white Oxford, button down, red tie, always in unbelievable shape! Thank you for the memories, may you rest in peace!

Christine thomson

November 10, 2023

I met Ron when I was working in Canada with UMA/Spantec and he was up going over the prospects of opening up an office in California. I told my boss at that time if you open that office I had better be going down there to set it up. Well that was the beginning of a whirlwind career in California with Ron as my boss I couldn´t lose. He was the kindest man I ever met in the work world and treated every one with respect and dignity. He was firm but kind and expected you to get the job done he assigned to you. I loved working with Ron and was so sad when UMA decided to close down. But that wasn´t the end of me with Ron and Phil they kept me in their minds to follow their trail and took care I was included in that journey.

Ron, you will be sadly missed and I am glad I had an opportunity to speak with you and let you know I was thinking about you. Rest in eternal peace my friend.

Christine Thomson

Keith Kelly

November 9, 2023

Ron was such a warm and friendly person in all my interactions with him. What a good soul! Condolences to Barb and the rest of the family!

Barb

November 9, 2023

Jim Howard

November 8, 2023

Jim Howard

November 8, 2023

Jim Howard

November 8, 2023

I started working with Ron almost twenty years ago. It immediately became obvious that Ron brought extensive experience and common sense to evaluating complex construction issues. I quickly learned to lean heavily on Ron's experience in the endeavors we jointly pursued.

The nature of our work together was such that we often faced tight deadlines to get assignments completed. When facing such challenges, Ron was always there working 12-16 hours a day to assure we met the deadline. I have never worked with a more reliable and steadfast partner.

While I hope the above commentary underscores my total respect and admiration for Ron as a construction professional, it was Ron as close friend and and undeniably "good to the core" person that captured my heart and made every minute I spent with him rewarding and endearing. In short, I second Barb's comments in her tribute to Ron - his integrity, humble demeanor, strong work ethic and his commitment to friends and family were essential elements that simply made him a decent , caring and wonderful person. I love Ron Smith and I will miss him terribly.

Phil Reed

November 8, 2023

Ron Smith was my friend. That is a term that he did not take lightly. If Ron considered you his friend, you knew that he had your back no matter the circumstances or consequences. We also worked together at three different companies over a span of many years. I first met Ron in 1978 when I joined the large construction company where Ron was a project manager. He was the consummate professional, impeccably dressed, and the heart throb of all the ladies in accounting.

The first project we worked together on was in Bay St Louis, Mississippi. I remember flying all night to New Orleans, getting a rental car at 6:30 a.m. and experiencing some of the most intense heat and humidity of my life driving over to Mississippi to the job site. Upon my arrival, I was looking for the right trailer where I could find Ron and encountered a massive and muscular man coming from between the trailers with 100 lb blocks of ice on each shoulder. Think twin brother of the big prisoner in the movie The Green Mile. I asked him where I could find Ron, and he said "Mr. Ron is in this-here trailer." He was calling Ron "Mr. Smith" but Ron told him to just call him Ron, but he insisted that he had to call him "Mr. Ron" because he wanted to show proper respect. That was indicative of the kind of respect that followed Ron throughout his career. He, in turn, respected everyone around him.

There are so many stories to share but we don't have time, so I'll share just one. Ron and I witnessed the transition in the construction industry from adding machines and Telex machines to computers. That was a mysterious world to us and we had to teach ourselves how to make the computer do what we wanted it to. Ron had a little more trouble with it than most. Those who knew Ron would say that he seldom would lose his cool. One day across the office we heard and very loud crash of something being broken into many pieces. It turned out that Ron had put his powerful fist right through the keyboard out of frustration. That was not the only keyboard we replaced, but Ron finally figured it out.

Ron and I traveled to a lot of places together across the US and Canada and had many conversations outside of work topics, but we never talked much about religion. He knew that I had lived in Bellflower and graduated from Bellfolower High School where he did. And he know that his younger brother Jeff was Athlete of the Year when Jeff was a senior and I was an unknown freshman. Ron also knew that my Dad was pastor of a church in Bellflower. When it became evident that Ron would eventually lose the battle, a feeling came over me that compelled me to share with Ron my faith and belief in Jesus Christ as my savior, so I sent him some scriptures, one of which was from the book of John, Chapter 11: vs 25-26 which reads: "I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die; and whoever lives by believing in me will never die."

I did not know how Ron would react, but I was overjoyed when he sent me this reply. "Thank you Phil, I appreciate you caring about me and my soul. I believe in Jesus Christ as my savior, and as Barb says, it's only through Jesus Christ that we find a way to God." So is it a cliche to say that Ron s in a better place? I think not. May our beloved friend, co-worker, son, father, grandfather, great grandfather, and companion rest in eternal love and peace forevermore.

Phil Reed
November 8, 2023

Maggie Souder

November 7, 2023

I met Ron and Barb while visiting their neighbors Lori and Bill. Lori said I would like them instantly, and she was 100% right. I felt so welcomed and had that "old soul" feeling about Ron right away. He and Barb were a delight and joy to be around, and I was the beneficiary of their warmth and helpfulness on more than one occasion. I´m lucky to have had opportunities to enjoy their company.

Randy McFetridge

November 7, 2023

I met Ron at Brinderson in 1984. He was in operations and I hired as an estimator.
My daughter, Rachael, has a very happy memory of Ron as he hired me back to Brinderson in operations as a project engineer when she was starting kindergarten in 1994. Then I followed Ron to Spantec/UMA with Phil Reed then went with them to TIMEC. He was always even tempered, but he expected you to get your work done.

I will miss you Ron,
Randy McFetridge

Anthony Loscavio

November 7, 2023

Ron is surely in a better place now and may god watch over him eternally. I knew and worked with him for about two decades and he was always a joy to work with even when times were rough. He was a positive and optimistic leader who faced the challenges of the day as they arose and was an excellent leader. A couple of things that come to mind about Ron were his ever present smile and the fact that I never heard anyone say anything derogatory or negative about him, and there are very few people that I can say that about. He was loyal and dedicated to his family, people, company and always did the right thing

Doug Grisham

November 7, 2023

I knew him when they lived in Paramount; Jeff is my best friend. Ron had a green `67 MGB. I said I wanted it if he ever sold it. I was in Grad school in late 1970 and Ron called on a Friday night. We were getting by on 1 car as my wife Sue taught at the Middle School across the street.
I said I would but not sure. He said he was going to sell it to the dealer on Monday. I said I´d pay what the dealer offered. He called Sunday evening and asked if I wanted it... I said yes. We drove over, talked a bit, did the paperwork and paid for the car. As we were leaving he got a call for it and I said they could buy it. No, Ron said it is sold.
One of the most fun cars I ever owned. (Wish he still had his Porsche 356.... Had many great times growing up with Ron as a great example of an older "brother."
Miss you Ron. We haven´t met, Barb, but thank you for loving and caring for Ron so much. You are a blessing.
Doug Grisham

Staci Kleizo

November 7, 2023

Beautiful words about my uncle Ron.
All of my memories with him are happy and I will forever hear his calm voice in my head.
He definitely passed on his strength, knowledge, kindness, and "MacGyver" skills to my cousins, Kim & Cindy.
You are so loved, Uncle Ron. You will always be with us!

Stacia Kleizo

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