Rusty Pendrey

Rusty Pendrey obituary, Grass Valley, CA

Rusty Pendrey

Rusty Pendrey Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 20, 2023.
Joseph "Rusty" Lee Pendrey, of Grass Valley, California, passed away on December 3rd, 2023. Rusty was born on March 27th, 1945 in San Diego. He was raised by his mother, Celestine Pendrey, in San Francisco, California. After graduating from Lincoln High School in San Francisco in 1963, he attended San Francisco City College, and then later graduated from San Jose State University. He subsequently obtained a teaching credential from the University of California, Berkeley. He was an outstanding elementary school teacher in San Francisco for decades until his retirement in 2005.

In 1969, Rusty married his first wife Jane (Glickfeld) Pendrey, and they went on to have three children, Jeremy, Jason, and Jessica. They lived on Pedro Point in Pacifica, California, where Rusty spent his free time surfing, raising chickens, gardening, and playing guitar. During his summer breaks from teaching, he fished for salmon in the bay off Linda Mar Beach. He enjoyed the many friendships he had with his fellow fishermen. Also during several of his summers, the family went on road trips to places like Colorado and Minnesota.

After his first marriage ended, Rusty bought a Harley-Davidson Sportster 883 and often hit the road, including taking some long trips to places such as South Dakota. In 1990, he met Jane VanCantfort. They lived together with her two children Lindsay and Logan VanCantfort, first in the Linda Mar neighborhood and later in the Vallemar section of Pacifica.

Upon retirement, Rusty moved to a five acre ranch in Grass Valley, California, where he left his Harley days behind him and instead took up riding a horse. He also continued gardening, raising chickens, and went fishing in local lakes. In his early retirement years, Rusty also spent two winters living on a beach on the Sea of Cortez in Baja, Mexico. But the ranch in Grass Valley was where his heart was. Jane VanCantfort soon joined him at the ranch, and after many years together, they wed in 2011. Over the years, his children and grandchildren loved visiting him, Jane, and all their animals. In Grass Valley, Rusty volunteered at the local food co-op, also as a fire lookout, and walked dogs at a local animal shelter.

Rusty was predeceased by his brother, Robert "Rep" Emerson Pendrey. He was also predeceased by his dogs Jack, Corta, Mason, and Sparky, as well as his horse Rascal and donkey Chester. He is survived by his beloved wife Jane VanCantfort, his children Jeremy Pendrey (Andee), Jason Pendrey (Emine), and Jessica Paul (Ryan), his step-children Lindsay VanCantfort (Charlie) and Logan VanCantfort (Stefanie), and his grandchildren Sonya, Justin, Ethan, Aaron, Abby, and Ollin.

A Celebration of Life will be held on Friday, March 22nd 2024, at the Pedro Point Firehouse in Pacifica, California. The public is welcome at 4:00 p.m. A private service will begin at 5:30 p.m. Donations in Rusty's name can be made to Sammy's Friends in Grass Valley, California or an inner city education organization of the donor's choice.

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July 16, 2024

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March 18, 2024

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George Castillo

July 16, 2024

Rusty was my 5th and 6th grade teacher in 1975 and 1976.... I have never stopped recalling to myself and others how fortunate we all were to carry forward the love from the impact of his intuitive creativity as a teacher.

I can't hear the songs, Delta Dawn, Country Roads or Joy to the world without having Rusty immediately return to me ...(I was actually compelled to look him up after my son requested Country Roads on our Alexa...and after telling them about a man, who was my teacher but resonates in my soul. I realize even now that Rusty is one of the major influences
which allows me to trust there is creativity in my soul and just as he did that I can see good in all people.

I have wanted to reach out to him many times over the decades but although we didn't reconnect I knew that was still teaching and he could not help but continue impacting others as he did our class.

Thank you to those who have shared.... it sets the deep roots he planted in my soul garden even further down to hear how he did this for you.

Kathy Quintanilla

May 25, 2024

To his family, my sincere and deepest condolences.

Mr. Pendrey was one of the kindest, warm, loving, understanding, compassionate, playful, and gentle soul I knew. I had the pleasure and privilege of being his student in the 4th grade back in the 90s. He saw me as a human being and not as an immigrant child who didn't know how to speak or read English. He was inclusive and encouraging. To this day, I remember him, specially during times of great challenges - his memory helps me push through - that's how much of an impact he had in my life. May he rest in peace, dance amongst the clouds, sing and play his guitar, in heaven you are. Thank you for the gift that was you, Mr. Pendrey. Thank you. Thank you.

Paris

March 18, 2024

Paris,
I wish to express a tribute to a frmr teacher and willing person, that being in name Rusty Pendrey, who passed December 2023. He is at rest, but his impact as a spirited person, who grew his hair out && let it fly in the wind, is the guy that I knew. I remember as if it were yesterday, having our classroom time: playing guitar singing songs, "My baby just wrote me a letter" "Raindrops" etc... that photo in the classroom of that band, the fun computer games, making paper mache masks, going to the park playing many games like "British Bulldog" as somebody mentioned already, and having the conference time with the "talking stick", and just being a major cord in the Clarendon Community. His eagerness to live, learn & engage life will be missed. Cheers!!!!!

Susie

March 15, 2024

His apron at school & his table groupings.

Graham Rubin

March 1, 2024

Rusty was one of the best teachers I ever had. I was in his class for 4th and 5th grade in 96-97. I had a tough 3rd grade year and he made me happy to be in class again. His attitude, energy, and outlook made learning fun. He was fair and understanding. He was also funny. I´m not much of a singer, but when he broke out his acoustic guitar, or the white electric with the whammy bar, I was always happy to sing. I´m now a teacher myself, and the example Rusty set is a model I strive to emulate. Having read some of the messages from former students, I dearly hope I can make half the impact that Rusty did.

Jess

February 29, 2024

Sending my condolences to the family. Rusty holds a special place in this world and in my heart. He was my 4th grade teacher in 1998. He taught me some of life´s hardest lesson like an absolute G. He used to play acoustic guitar and taught our class to sing "Joy to the World" is a song written by Hoyt Axton and made famous by the band Three Dog Night. The song is also popularly known by its opening lyric, "Jeremiah was a bullfrog". I learned how to use a Mac in Rusty´s class. I learned oh so much from his class. My little sister Nicole and I will forever be grateful for the amazing teacher he was to us and so many others. I will always remember him. My prayers go out to his family.

Kathryn Kathman

February 29, 2024

Rusty had the gift of being able to reach and encourage any child to bring out the talents that they didn't know they had. Many times, I've thought that if Rusty could have time with this or that child, he could make such an impact. Heaven has a special place for you my friend.

Samson

February 17, 2024

Rusty was one of my favorite teachers. What an amazing person. I will always remember him.

Adrian Pangaro and family

February 13, 2024

Oh this is very hard to accept. Still to this day my favorite teacher of all time. My family holds a special place in our hearts for this most special teacher and friend. Nick and I will forever ever cherish your lessons. What i would do to go one of his awesome field trips one last time or splashed on a summer day from a water balloon from the catapult.

Jan Rogers and family

January 27, 2024

Our family has nothing but very fond memories of Rusty. He taught both of our children at Clarendon and to this day remains their favorite human being on earth. Such a wonderful teacher and kind man. We also got to know him personally and were so grateful for it. One of a kind. The universe is better because he is part of it.

Larry Glickfeld

December 27, 2023

Glad we were able to get together for that High Sierra backpack with Jeremy a few years ago, and that long conversation we had recently. Gonna miss you Bro'.

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