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February 14, 2018
We haven't forgotten you. We won't forget you.
Brian M
July 24, 2013
What a tragedy. Can't believe it's been this long already.
Christine Floyd
February 13, 2013
I was just thinking about you the other day and then I realized the date. I can't believe it's been 5 years. I miss meeting at the bowling alley while we waited for Jonny to finish...
October 19, 2012
Hey lady. Its over 4 years since the last time we spoke...and I still remember it like it was yesterday. We miss u here. Save me a spot for when we meet again.
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Sarah R.
February 14, 2012
It's been four years and we still haven't stopped missing you. <3
Philip
November 22, 2010
Sorry for your uncomprehendable loss. And Mr. Mace, Ryannes' tattoo and yours have to be the best tattoo I've ever seen.
August 22, 2010
I extend to the Mace family my deepest condolences. Losing an only child is not easy, yet, by "draw[ing] close to God," you can see her again (James 4: 8; John 5: 28, 29).
Jessica Denney
July 7, 2010
I cant believe its been almost 2 & 1/2 yrs. Found some pictures of you just earlier this week and thought I would send my love!
May 7, 2010
2 years since you left this world@went Home To God
Janeth
April 2, 2010
I just watched the story on E! My heart goes out to your family. Very few times have I been moved so deeply by a father's grief. God's blessings and peace to you both.
Daisy Tillman
February 28, 2010
I just watched the E! Broadcast of Ryanne's story - I am so sorry for her family's loss - she seemed like an extraordinary young woman. Her death was senseless and tragic - she will not be forgotton.
Erin
February 26, 2010
I just watched the family story on E! and I can't stop crying. This story touched me like no other. Maybe it's because I lost my brother just 6 days after Ryanne's passing. Or maybe it's because just like Eric I have a tattoo in honor of my brother. When I am missing him or thinking of him, I look down at my wrists and feel comforted. Ryanne was an amazing young lady and one I wish I could have called a friend. Eric and Mary Kay I offer you my most heartfelt sympathies and will always have a place for you in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you for sharing Ryanne's life and story with the world.
Michelle
February 25, 2010
I just saw the family interview on E! and this story really touched my heart. My deepest condolences to Ryanne's parents for their unspeakable loss. I had tears rolling down my face as I listened to Eric Mace relive this nightmare. May she rest in peace.
Alan Davino
February 16, 2009
My wife and I lost our nineteen year old daughter in a car accident while she was traveling back to college January, 2008. We had thought about taking her back ourselves, but she was able to get a ride with a college friend. She had ridden with this friend before, so we felt relatively comfortable about his driving skills. We figured it made no sense for us to waste fifteen gallons of gas at the same time the friend was driving back by himself. It wasn't a monetary consideration. In fact, we were more than happy to pay the young man for his gas. It was an environmental consideration. We wanted to be good stewards of the earth, conserve fuel, reduce pollution, all that stuff.
The reason I'm bringing this up is this: it's easy to beat yourself up when things go wrong --- even when you tried to do the right thing. The advice you gave your daughter was the right advice. You have nothing to regret, just like we have nothing to regret. The only thing that matters is the kind of parents you are, and how much you loved your daughter when she was alive, and how clearly she knew it. That's all that matters.
As for waking up every morning thinking about her, going to bed at night thinking about her, spending most of the time in between thinking about her ... well, believe me, you're not alone.
We wish you the very best as you continue this long, painful journey.
Stephanie Todd
February 16, 2009
I saw the family interview on CNN today. Your advice to sit in the front row is one that I learned in college and is one that I took advantage of in order to make an impression for the teachers and to better understand the subject. While I can't make you feel better about the advice you gave to Ryanne, I can say it is the same advice I gave to my daughter. You were and are excellent parents.
God bless you and Ryanne.
Ricardo Sawyer
February 15, 2009
A gentle soul has left us, and I hope time will heal you. Ryanne sounds like a woman who could have, and did have an impact on everyone. I will introduce her to my 13 yr. old daughter so that she knows who is a good person, a caring soul. I do believe if you say a person's name, they will continue, so I will say her name now, Ryanne Mace.
Gabriela, Mateo and Julie, Alan's friends
February 14, 2009
To an angel in God's grace, Ryanne Mace
Dear Mary Kay, Eric, Alan, Michelle and Grandparents
We think of you in this time of sorrow and pray to God for your healing, strength and peace. We know how much joy Ryanne brought to you, her wonderful family, in such a short journey on the earth. And even if we did not get to meet Ryanne, her kind smile will always be imprinted in our hearts.
God bless you!
Deirdre Benavides
February 13, 2009
I was reading an article on CNN and I saw your daughter's picture was on the side. I just want you to know that your family and friends are in my prayers and thoughts. I am so sorry for your loss.
Art Ravaschietto
February 10, 2009
To Ryanne and her family may God be with you in your time of sorrow
Vicky Lee
September 3, 2008
My deepest condolences to the family and friends of Ryanne; she sounds like she was a very kind person with the true heart of a Husky. We (NIU students) will never forget this promising classmate who should be with us now.
Mary Kay and Eric Mace
May 13, 2008
To our and Ryanne's friends and loved ones:
Today should have been Ryanne's 20th birthday. A tree was planted in her memory today at NIU by her grandparents, aunt and uncle.
We, her parents, chose today to scatter her ashes in a place that we know she loved in Oregon. It is a place of great beauty and serenity and it will always remain unspoiled.
We thank you all for your comfort, support and for honoring the memory of a young woman who had a truly beautiful spirit: our beloved daughter, Ryanne.
Bill & Pat Heinbaugh
March 17, 2008
Miley and Janet, please accept our condolences on the loss of your beautiful grandchild. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Amber Nelson
March 14, 2008
I worked with Mary Kay at Mercury Finance for almost 2 years, we talked alot about Ryanne and I'm so sorry for their loss. The stories I heard about her were always funny and filled with a lot of love.
Gay & Dan King Crede
March 3, 2008
You are in our thoughts and prayers and will continue to be for years to come. May you be held in God's loving embrace.
Mary Toman
March 2, 2008
My thoughts and prayers go out to you. Even though I did not know your daughter personally, my son Ben shared classes with her at Dundee Crown. May God give you strength and peace in this difficult time.
Jennifer Brattain
March 1, 2008
I work at WIU and attended Wesley
United Methodist Church. Our paster
mentioned knowing Ryanne's. grandparent's and that her grandfather is a retired paster. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Efrain Avila, Jr.
February 29, 2008
My deepest sympathies are with you in this time of loss. Although I never had the privilege of meeting Ryanne, from what I have learned of her she was an amazing and special young woman. The NIU Wesley Foundation and I share with you your loss.
Roger Grimmett
February 28, 2008
My heart is deeply saddened and full of grief over this tragedy. Words cannot adequately express my congregation's heartfelt saddness over your loss. We hold you up in the grip of God's grace!
John Hauck
February 28, 2008
I and my congregation at Washington Evangelical UMC have been in prayer for all of you these past two weeks as you have experienced this great loss. Knowing both of Ryanne's grandfathers and having read the news reports about her life, I can tell what a special person she was. I feel great pain at the loss you have experienced knowing what Ryanne's future plans were and her desire to help and serve others. May God give you strength and comfort in these difficult days as you know that Ryanne is at rest in the arms of her Savior Jesus Christ.
Cindy
February 27, 2008
Mommy and Daddy of Ryanne, My eyes cry for you and my heart aches for you.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
February 27, 2008
My heartfelt sympathy to the Mace family in the loss of Ryanne.
Alan Rhein
February 26, 2008
All of you have been and will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. May God hold you in the comfort of God's love and grace.
February 25, 2008
Margaret Anderson Page
February 25, 2008
My thoughts are with you at this very difficult time. I knew Ryanne's Grandparents Palmer when I was a student at EIU in the early 1970's as I sang in the Methodist Church choir. Please know that even though I haven't met you that I am thinking of you.
Sister Joanne Kaminski
February 25, 2008
My prayers and those of my fellow Felician Sisters here in Enfield, Connecticut are with you. May our merciful God console you and give you strength in these most difficult days.
Rev. Greg Courtright
February 25, 2008
I was extremely moved by deep grief at the Ryanne's death. I have continued to hold your families in prayer. May God grant all grace and strength for these days as you support one another.
Marge Ozley Roate
February 25, 2008
Extra Prayers for Ryanne's Family,
I can't imagine the heartache all of you are experiencing, having the vibrant joy of Ryanne's life cut so short! At times like this, I am especially grateful to know your family knows intimately the awesome Source of comfort and hope...for you and for Rayanne's eternal life now with our Savior. My prayer is that you will continue to lean not on your own understanding, but trust totally in God's loving comfort and grace to navigate through your grief now and the grief that will surface forever, because of the hole left in your hearts. May the joy and blessings that Ryanne brought into your lives continue to multiply in beautiful ways. Your sister in Christ,
Marge at Chaddock
arcelia watson
February 25, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kenneth Lemke
February 23, 2008
She is with God now. I never knew Ryanne, but for this tragedy - she will be in my memory forever. God Bless you. Please know we are all with you.
Elena Jones
February 23, 2008
Mace family and friends,
My deepest sympathy on the loss of Ryanne. She no doubt filled everyone's life with joy and happiness because of her loving and caring ways. Our daughter graduated from NIU this past December. I only wish we had known your daughter. Prayers of comfort to you in these dark days. God bless your family.
Angela Perrilles, 1992
February 23, 2008
To the family of Ryanne Mace,
My deepest sympathies for your terrible loss. May God bless you always.
In my thoughts and prayers
Theresa S
February 23, 2008
Mace Family I'm so sorry for the loss of your child. May the love for Our Lord give you peace.
Rev. Leah Pogemiller
February 23, 2008
Prayers of love, comfort, and hope are being lifted up by the people of Clinton United Methodist Church. May you experience the healing love of our Savior.
Mercy Bautista-Olvera
February 23, 2008
My deepest sympathy to Ryanne Mace Family,
On reading all that is written about Ryanne somehow we readers get to know the person that she was, even though we never met her. Ryanne was an amazing young lady with a great future ahead of her. I hope and pray that your pain would ease as time goes by, it is hard I've been there, losing a newborn, I know how it feels to lose a child. You have great memories of your daughter, keep her spirit alive, you were fortunate to have such an Angel for a daughter. She's now with Jesus in a better place...
Vaya con Dios Ryanne...
Sherwood and Carla Smith
February 23, 2008
Such a senseless loss of life. We are so sorry. We pray for you and your family, Miley.
February 23, 2008
To the Mace family,
Im so sorry for the loss of your daughter, sister, friend. Please be encourged by the words found at Psalms 37: 10,11and 29. Your family will be in my prayers.
[email protected]
nancy dewey
February 22, 2008
I am a teacher at Paxton-Buckley-Loda High school and knew Ryanne's grandmother very well. I am thinking of you all and remember ing you in prayer during this dificult time.
With much love,Nancy Dewey thinking of all t taughtalso
Veronica Kirkpatrick
February 22, 2008
I taught at Clara Peterson School with Ryanne's grandmother, Janet Palmer in 1989-1990. I was so sad when this news was passed on to our school family and wanted to send my sincerest condolences to the family. Janet was a wonderful woman to work with and it sounds like the kindness she possessed ran in the family. May you find comfort in those around you during this difficult time.
Lindalou Hauersperger Special Education Teacher PBL High School
February 22, 2008
I'm very sorry for your loss. May your faith help you through these trying times. My prayers are with you.
Sherrie Jacobs
February 22, 2008
Dear Janet,
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our prayers.
Lois Tate
February 22, 2008
I am not acquainted with you and your family, but I am praying to the great God we serve to give you comfort in your time of loss. I pray that Rayanne's life will be remembered by how she served God and her plans to do his work. God bless your family.
Deetta Gaither
February 22, 2008
Dear Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this sad time. May you feel the comfort of God's care in a special way in the coming days.
I offer this poem to your family.
I'm walking with my Jesus now,
His light yes comforts me.
My journey was completed,
I stand in victory.
The beauty of His presence,
Completes my joy this day,
Rejoice with me dear loved ones,
For I embrace The Way.
dg
Louis Youngs
February 22, 2008
You are in our prayers and our thoughts. Louie and Dorothy Youngs
Lori Bultemeier
February 22, 2008
Words are inadequate at a time like this, but know that so many are grieving with you and lifting you up to our precious Savior. Receive the comfort that only He can give.
Becky Brault
February 22, 2008
I know the pain of losing a child. I will be praying for you.
Becky
Sam & Marilyn Totten
February 22, 2008
There is no greater pain than losing your beloved children. Ryanne is in the arms of our Great Physician. Rev. Sam & Marilyn Totten
Julie Smith
February 22, 2008
Your families are in our prayers.
Rev. Julie Smith
Glendale Charge
Glendale, Eddyville and Taylor UMC
Jim Rhea
February 22, 2008
Determined prayers of love and hope for you and for our nation's children. In Christ, Dr. Jim Rhea and congregation of Mattoon First UMC.
Ruth Junk
February 21, 2008
Dear Miley & Janet: I am so saddened by your loss. To have it happen to a family I so admire brings the tragedy close to home. My prayers are with you and yours.
Stephanie Emiliano
February 21, 2008
I'm so sorry for your loss. As I do not know Ryanne, she will be for always remembered. May the Lord be your comfort in your time of grief.
Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted." Matthew 5:4
Mark and Julia Baier
February 21, 2008
Dear Mace Family, Your entire family is in our thoughts and prayers.
ALIRIO Y FAMILIA BAEZ
February 21, 2008
I AM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS
NOW WE HAVE ANOTHER ANGEL UP THERE
MEXICANS ARE PRAYING FOR HER AND YOUR FAMILY (AS MANY PEOPLE IN THE NEIGHBORHOOD AND SURROUNDINGS).
Trianna Moore
February 21, 2008
Mr, and Mrs.Mace,
First and formost I would like to say I am so sorry for your loss. Im holding you in my prayers. I would also like to say that I am so glad to have met Ryanne and been touched by her kindness. I was a freshmen who didnt know her way around a high school and she stopped (even though she was running late to class) to help me find my classroom. We were friends ever since. but it is just those little random acts of kindness that make someones days a little better,and even after I moved I cherish that fact that she didnt walk passed me and ignore me that day! So because of her I cherish ever moment and help anyone in need even if its something as little as finding a class. its still special!
She was a beautiful and sweet girl with everything going for her. I will miss her dearly.
Rev. Ray Hudson
February 21, 2008
I am the current Associate Pastor at Decatur Grace United Methodist Church. You are all in my daily prayers. May you feel the presence of our Lord during this most dificult time.
Marc Turnes
February 21, 2008
Your family has my sincere condolences and my continual prayers during this difficult time.
Nancy Allen
February 21, 2008
Dear Mace Family:
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm a member of Calvary UMC where Ryanne's grandfather was pastor many years ago. Also, I know another victim of the NIU tragedy, Julianna Gehant. I'm sure her parents, Deb and Ed Gehant, would like to hear from you.
Jody Seip
February 21, 2008
I am a member of CUMC in Normal.The Body of Christ at CUMC is praying for your peace and comfort. We have the pain now for the joy later. God bless you and hold you close to His heart during this painful time.
David & Carolyn Hurley
February 21, 2008
May God wrap His arms around you in your terrible time of sorrow and give you comfort. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Cindy Mace
February 20, 2008
I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one. My last name is Mace and I live in Rockford. This tragedy will forever be carried in all our hearts.
Rest in peace. You were taken much too early.
February 20, 2008
Debbie Wissel
February 20, 2008
Eric and Mary Kay, I have no words of wisdom, other than to say, what a wonderful young woman you raised and may you find comfort in your memories. With God's help may you find strength and peace. Both of you are in my prayers.
Jan (Dalton) Chisholm
February 20, 2008
Mary Kay, I knew you from school and church when we lived in Charleston. I'm so so sorry that such a tragedy has happened to you and your family. You are in my prayers.
Matthew Carpenter
February 20, 2008
Dear The Mace Family I Did Not Know Ryanne But I'm So Sorry For Your Loss You And Your Family Are In My Thoughts And Prayers Ryanne E. Mace 1988-2008 We'll Miss You
E. Reyes
February 20, 2008
Dear Mace Family,
I did not know Ryanne but i know we went to the same high school, my thoughs and prayers will be with you.
Erica Rudolf
February 20, 2008
Dear Eric and Family,
I cannot tell you how sorry I am for your loss. The sudden loss of a child to something so senseless is more difficult than I can imagine. Know that you are in all of our thoughts and prayers.
Linda Kennedy
February 20, 2008
Dear Mary and Eric, I just wanted to let you know how very sad I am in your loss. I remember working with you, Mary, at UICOM-R when Ryanne was a little girl and we would share stories about our children. You are in my thoughts and prayers and my heart is broken for you.
Rev. Ken and Judy Cox
February 20, 2008
You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Pat Yenerich
February 20, 2008
I am a staff member at NIU but never had a chance to meet Ryanne. I am also a mother of two daughters and cannot begin to imagine your grief at this time. Please accept my deepest sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with your family, along with the love and support of our whole NIU community.
John Fronius
February 20, 2008
Eric and Mary Kay, I am so sorry for your loss. In the midst of your pain and anguish, know that many are praying for you daily. God is in control.
The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases, his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is thy faithfulness. "The Lord is my portion," says my soul, "therefore I will hope in him."
Lamentations 3:22-24
Moni Rojas-Martinez
February 20, 2008
Though We've Lost An Angel and the Lord has Gained one back, she shall not be forgotten I know that for a fact.
-A sister i did not get a chance to know but now i sadly cry and mourn her, For who she was,my sister and could have been, my friend. Siempre Uni Siempre Certatio.
"Isis_04_Gamma Chapter_
Alpha Founders Dynasty"
Kenn & Becky Poe
February 19, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Beth Elliott
February 19, 2008
Mary Kay and Eric,
My heart truly aches for the loss you have experienced. I will always remember Ryanne as a beautiful little girl with whom I was lucky enough to spend a fun day with at the Lincoln Park Zoo along with Beth. We had a great day--Ryanne was such a happy child! I'm so glad to hear she grew into a beautiful young woman. Please know that you and your whole family are in my thoughts and prayers each and every day.
Love, Beth Elliott (Fuzz)
Danielle Du Melle
February 19, 2008
To the Mace Family,
Ryanne and I had a psychology class together last semester and i had the pleasure of being in her research group. If i had to describe Ryanne in one word, it would be "happy". She was always laughing and smiling and she was such a joy to be around. She was so helpful and when i didn't understand something, she would always be there to explain it to me. The tragedy at Northern was horrible, but when i learned what had happened to Ryanne, it made it 100 times worse. I kept asking "Why her?!" I think that Ryanne would want us to remember her as a beautiful, funny and smart woman. And this is how i will always remember her. She was studying to be a psychologist, just like i am, and i know she would have made a wonderful psychologist. I can't believe she is gone. I feel blessed to have met her and i want you to know that the whole Mace family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Julie Albright
February 19, 2008
OH Gene & Sally, and Family
I just learned that your precious granddaughter was lost in this senseless tragedy! Words don't adequately express how my heart just aches for you all. Many many blessings during your time of sorrow. May you find comfort in the wonderful memories of Ryanne, and some joy in knowing that she is with the Lord.
God Bless you all
Gene & Sally's West-Peoria-Neighbor
Julie Albright
Lottie Sowinski
February 19, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Nick and Jo Rowe
February 19, 2008
We heard of the dreadful events at the NIU on the news in the UK. We were saddened that such terrible things could happen and our sympathy went out to those affected. However when those that are affected are known to you, are people you respect and hope you can refer to as friends, then the pain becomes a very personal one.
Please accept our sincere condolences on the tragic loss of your daughter Ryanne.
I'll certainly follow up on your request and give an extra hug to my wife, kids (and Grandchildren) when I get back home.
anonymous anonymous
February 19, 2008
May God give you the faith and spiritual strenght to endure this difficult time of sorrow.
Your family is in our prayers.
February 19, 2008
Dear Mace family;
Please accept our deepest sympathies, prayers and condolences.
The Board and Staff of the Cook County Farm Bureau
Latrice Carter
February 19, 2008
I DIDNT KNOW YOU OR YOUR FAMILY BUT I FEEL THE DEEPEST SYMPTHANY FOR THE FAMILY MY PRAYERS ARE GOING OUT TO ALL THE OTHER PEOPLE WHO WAS WOUND AND WHO DIED
Farzad Omaraie
February 19, 2008
Dear Eric, and family,
we would like to extend our deepest condolences on this sad loss. Our prayers go out to you and the family. May God be with you and the family and give you strength.
Jim Floyd
February 19, 2008
Our daughter is a student at Virginia Tech, and she is also named Ryanne.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Herrington Family (Mike)
February 19, 2008
To Eric and entire Mace family, our deepest sympathies.
Adela S
February 19, 2008
My heart and prayers go to the Mace family. I didn't personally know Ryanne, but my best friend's boyfriend did and all I hear are great things about her. She was a girl full of life, a great friend, a wonderful daughter, and an unforgettable person. We'll always remember Ryanne and she'll be in all our hearts forever.
Lawson LeGate
February 19, 2008
Utah has had its own sad experience with these terrible events. Please know that we wish you peace and comfort during this most trying time.
Rev. Lisa Guilliams
February 19, 2008
When senseless, cruel acts are committed it's easy to ask, "Where is God". Take comfort in knowing that God was with Ryanne, cradling her in His arms and loving her as if she was His only child. Please know that the congregation at Trinity UMC in Granite City, IL are continuing to lift you in our prayers.
Carol Michelson
February 19, 2008
My heartfelt sympathies to the Mace family.Such senseless tragic events occurring on our campuses. Such horrific loss of a wonderful young woman. I pray for you and for others that were lost in their prime. God be with you sweet child.
Robert & Betty Treat
February 19, 2008
Bob and I send you our deepest sympathy and will remember you in our prayers.
Donna & Larry Dueringer
February 19, 2008
Know that people all over the country are praying for you and your families. A senseless loss like this is so hard to understand, but we know that God has a plan that we might not understand at this time. May God wrap you in his loving arms and give you the peace and understanding that you need. Know that you are all in our prayers.
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