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Stephen N. Palmer
1955 - 2023
Stephen N. Palmer
1955 - 2023
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BORN
1955
DIED
2023
Stephen Palmer Obituary
Stephen N. Palmer, Black River, passed away at Samaritan Medical Center Tuesday, January 24th. He was 67 years old.
Born in Gouverneur on April 18, 1955, Stephen was a son to Norman and Elizabeth (Fortune) Palmer. He was educated in the Gouverneur School District. Following graduation, Stephen worked for Pyramid Management Group/Salmon Run Mall until his retirement.
Stephen married Mildred Akins on November 25, 1990 at their residence. He enjoyed gardening and spending time with his dog, “Spike”.
Surviving besides his wife, Mildred, are his children, Christina and Christopher Davis of Watertown, Stephen II and Gerie Palmer of Gouverneur, John Palmer of Watertown; his sister, Peggy Farren; and his brother, Michael (Darlene) Palmer. Also surviving are 6 grandchildren, 2 great grandchildren, and several nieces, nephews, and cousins.
Besides his parents, Stephen is predeceased by 2 stepsons, Randy White and Ricky White.
There are no public services planned at this time. A celebration of life will be held privately at the convenience of his family.
Donations may be made in his memory to the Jefferson County SPCA, 25056 Water Street, Watertown, New York 13601.
Arrangements are with Reed & Benoit Funeral Home, Inc. and condolences may be made online at www.reedbenoit.com
Mary Dudo
February 1, 2023
I was so sorry to learn of Steve’s passing. He was truly one of the kindest, most selfless people I have ever known. Steve always put others needs before his own and was always willing to lend a helping hand to all while never expecting or wanting anything in return.
My deepest sympathies to you Millie, along with his entire family. I know he was your rock, your partner in love and life, and I pray that you may find some comfort in knowing how much he was loved by all
James Soos
January 31, 2023
Sorry to hear of Steve’s passing. My condolences to his family. I remember him as always being a very kind and good person.
Nicole L. " The German"
January 30, 2023
I'm at a loss of words. Steve was one of the most genuine, humbled person that I have ever met in my life. I worked in the mall for many years. Steve always had a smile on his face. Oh boy and what a hard worker, never complained, always kept smiling. Even after I left working at the mall, when I would go shopping, it was always nice to see a familiar and friendly face. I know Steve loved his coffee and little Debbie Cakes. I will have one of each for you today Steve. You will be truly missed. Millie, I'm so sorry for your loss.
Tina Sykes
January 29, 2023
So sorry the world has lost a wonderful man . Myself and Kirk have worked with Steve for over 30 years at the mall. This man was so kind ,would help out with anything ,such a hard worker .No one could ever fill this man’s shoes ,with such a great work ethic . There was never a day that Steve wouldn’t have a smile and a very nice hello to all . Over the years working with Steve we had fun and lots of great memories. He also worked for the mall tenants after work and his days off . They all loved Steve.
He was like family to all of us .Rest in peace Steve his nickname from me was Scuba Steve
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Andrew Gilligan
January 29, 2023
I'll never forget Steve and Millie from the mall. I worked with them many years off and on growing up here in Watertown at the mall. Steve was such a kind soul and will be deeply missed. So sorry for your heartaches Millie. Stay strong.
Kevan Houghmaster
January 29, 2023
Millie im so sorry about Steve. He was such a nice man.
Gerald Oatman
January 29, 2023
So sorry to hear of Steve's passing. He was a very nice man and the world was lucky to have had Steve
in it! May he rest in peace.
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