Stephen (Steve) J McCurdy

Stephen (Steve) J McCurdy

Stephen (Steve) McCurdy Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 4, 2025.
Stephen J. McCurdy passed away peacefully on February 27, 2025, in his home in Oakdale, MN. Steve was born in Oskaloosa, Iowa, on April 6, 1950, to the late Carroll F. McCurdy and Jessie Greene McCurdy. He grew up on a farm north of Cedar along with two brothers, Richard and Timm. He was an impish kid and won the Dennis the Menace contest as a young boy, featuring a picture of him covered head-to-toe in mud. Steve was a member of the Oskaloosa class of 1968 and was a singer in a rock band, The Upstairs Playground. After high school, Steve was drawn to the late 60's music scene in San Francisco with all its attendant highs and lows.

When that played out, he returned to Iowa City and fell in love with Teresa Russell whom he wed on June 3, 1972. She would provide him much needed love, support and direction for over 50 years. Together they raised three children, Cristin, Jessica, and Shaughn. Steve graduated from the University of Iowa in 1976 with a Bachelor's degree in Social Work (BSW.) He worked with several social service agencies in Iowa and Minnesota. He retired from the Dakota County Department of Social Services on January 20, 2017.

Steve was known for his long hair, indelible work ethic, and keen sense of humor which he often deployed. He loved his lakeside cabin near Thunder Bay, Canada, and foraging and eating morel mushrooms. He took great joy in his five grandchildren, Mariano, Leighla and Vanessa Morales, and Cleough and Georgie McCurdy. Besides the grandchildren, Steve is survived by his loving wife Teresa; daughter Cristin, Chicago; daughter Jessica Morales (Mario), Oakdale, MN; son Shaughn (Becky), White Bear Lake, MN; and two brothers, Richard (Jane), La Crosse, WI; and Timm (Debbie), Wichita, KS.

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Cheryl Weimer

March 22, 2025

I remember Critter from the Upstairs Playground and his wife Theresa. He was such a nice guy and I always wondered what happened to him.
My sincere condolences to you Theresa and your family at this sad time. I remember Steve really loved you and was glad to hear that you spent all those years together.
Cheryl Weimer

Jo Ide Temple

March 7, 2025

We had some great times. Remember Shaughn and Greg playing together while we were at a swim meet in St Paul. Steve was a great guy. He was one of the best characters in my life. Teresa call me if you need. 5734346365. I lost Dave ten years ago. Peace Steve. Jo Ide Temple

Nancy Stapp McCurdy

March 7, 2025

Sorry to hear of your loss. You and all of your families are in my thoughts and prayers. Steve was a classmate of mine and I remember him quote well.
Nancy Stapp McCurdy

Sarah Hetherington Kehlenbeck

March 6, 2025

Rest in peace, Steve. You had a wonderful personality and soul. You were kind to everyone, and definitely not someone we could forget.

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