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THOMAS COSTA Obituary
Age 80, passed away on August 19, 2019. He is survived by Carol, his loving wife of 58 years; Melanie and Melissa, his devoted daughters; and Brent and John, his sons-in-law. Tom was extremely proud of his beautiful grandchildren, Chloe (and fiance Dan Budd), Conor (and wife Christy), Lily, and Gracie. He grew up in a large family and is survived by two sisters, Nacy and Anita, and many beloved nieces and nephews. He was a graduate of North Catholic High School, Slippery Rock University, and the Dickinson School of Law. He was a USMC veteran. His career as a General Attorney at Alcoa took him and his family to London, England, Lausanne, Switzerland, and Washington, DC, before returning to Pittsburgh. Tom was a proud Pittsburgh native and devoted fan of all Pittsburgh sports teams. He was an avid golfer and member of the Alcoma (3 Lakes) Golf Course for many years. In earlier years, he loved skiing with his family and friends. At Tom's request, no service or visitation will be held at this time. A celebration of his life will be planned for a future date. Memorial contributions may be made to McCandless - Franklin Park Ambulance Authority, 9925 Grubbs Road, Wexford, PA 15090.
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Neil Adams
March 26, 2020
RIP. Tom, I wish we had kept in touch. I often think of the good times we had at SAPD.
Earl & Nancy Utz
August 27, 2019
Carol, we were saddened to hear that Tom passed away. Our caring thoughts are with you and your family.
Melissa Bell
August 25, 2019
Dear friends,
My heart goes out to your entire family. My favorite memories of Tom are from his cookie judging at Christmas Eve. I may not have always agree with his choice of winners but certainly enjoyed his engaging and often humorous decision making! I am so sorry for your loss.
May you all find peace in each other and through fond memories at this difficult time. With love.
Tom and Mary Jo Truschel
August 22, 2019
Please know Carol and family that Tom Truschel and I are so sad that your Tom has left us. He has left a void in the Thursday golf group at 3 Lakes but will not be forgotten.
He was a brave gentleman who, although he at times struggled with weakness during the golf rounds, he never quit.
He and all of you will be in our prayers.
Tom and Mary Jo Truschel
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Sailesh Kapadia
August 22, 2019
Our condolences to Carol and the Costa Family. Tom was a friendly and sociable neighbor and we had many interesting conversations.
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Josh Starr
August 22, 2019
I have always and will continue to cherish my wonderful memories of Mr Costa from our time skiing in Switzerland in the early 80s.
Brother Marine
August 22, 2019
Semper Fi Marine. Thank you for your service. R.I.P.
Judi Barbara
August 22, 2019
One of my favorite relatives. Deepest sympathy to all of the family. Love you Uncle Tom - Rest In Peace.
August 22, 2019
Melissa,
This bring me sadness to hear this. Father's play such a significant roll in our lives and our hearts are never the same after their departure. I am praying for everyone during difficult time. I know words are not enough but just know you are in my thought and prayers.
Love, Michele
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