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Rae Ray Obituary

Rae Ray, 51 ESCONDIDO -- Rae Ray died peacefully at her home in Escondido on Saturday, February 12, 2011 with her loving family at her side. She is survived by husband, John: three children, Zachary (Alona) Ray, Jordan (Marcie) Ray, and Hayley Ray; parents, Marvin and Ginny Will; siblings, Florice, Anne, Paul and Stacey. She fought a courageous, fourteen year battle with breast cancer, and we take great comfort that she now is at Peace with Jesus. Memorial service will be held at 3:30 p.m., Thursday, February 17, at Grace Lutheran Church, 643 W. 13th Ave., Escondido, Calif. 92025. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to Rae Ray Memorial Fund, c/o Grace Lutheran Church. Sign the Guest Book online obits.nctimes.com

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Published by North County Times on Feb. 16, 2011.

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Lydia Landis

March 11, 2011

I would like to be next to Margaret and hnag with the winner's. Thanks Rae Ray for sharing your life with me. See you another time another place. Love to you.

Margaret Alberts

February 28, 2011

Save me a seat. I would like it to be at the right hand of the Father! That one is taken. :) I love you. See you again.

Julie Jennings

February 27, 2011

I loved Rae's humor & spirit and will truly miss her. May she rest in peace.

Anna (Hoenecke) Kolander

February 27, 2011

Rae's Christian faith and strength has been and will continue to be an inspiration to me. I am thankful the Lord blessed my life with Rae's friendship since our college years. Rae was a true friend. May the Lord continue to comfort and strengthen you, her family, with His Word and His love. '"Thanks be to God who gives us victory through our Lord Jesus Christ." I Cor. 15:55

Melanie Schroeder

February 27, 2011

Rae was a great person and a role model. She was the strongest person I've ever known, but still knew how to laugh through it all. I will miss her great sense of humor and inspiring conversations dearly. She will remain forever in my heart.

Margaret McDonald

February 24, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May you take strength and comfort in knowing you will be with Rae again in heaven. Rae was the best college roommate and friend a person could have. She was such a strong person and a true inspiration. She will be missed.

Bethany Schroeder

February 21, 2011

When I think of Rae, the first thing that comes to mind is her laugh. We shared so many in the years we spent together. She was a wonderful aunt and a loving sister, wife, and mother. I will miss her so much, especially her phone calls. I love you, Aunt Rae.

Emily Schroeder

February 20, 2011

With how close Rae was to my mother and how much she cared about my family, she felt like a second mother. I will always remember her visits to MI and how she and I would drink coffee together and talk or just watch bad TV while everyone else was asleep or at work. She gave me insights into my own life when the pain of cancer was surely unbearable. She was a strong and amazing woman and I will miss her dearly.

Mom & Dad

February 20, 2011

Our precious daughter, Rae, was a very real blessing to our family. We have and will keep many happy memories of times past. She will always remain in our hearts and minds til we are blissfully reunited in the arms of Jesus.

Taylor Pollard

February 19, 2011

Ray Ray, I rember playing polly pockets with u while haylay was cheering.You have tought me how not to hive up and stay strong. I love you Ray Ray and you will always be in my heart!!! <3 Mr. Ray is the best husband anyone can ask for. He was the best teacher i have ever had!! I love you Mr. Ray and I will ALways love you Ray Ray..I LUVE U RAY RAY <3 Love Taylor Pollard

Geri Will

February 19, 2011

Rae was an inspiration to us all. She handled her illness with such dignity and grace. Her faith in Christ, her love of family with always be a part of what I cherish about Rae. I will miss her. To all of her family, know that you are in my prayers and thoughts.

Marcie Ray

February 18, 2011

I was very blessed to have Rae as my mother-in-law. She was the best there is, was, and will be. I thank you and your family for loving me in a way I never knew possible. And thank you for showing your love of Christ to me.
Marcie Ray

Dan Diebel

February 17, 2011

Rae was a good friend in high school and early college. She was a great lady and a class act then and I am sure even more so as she married, raised a family and continued to touch the people in her life. I am very sorry to hear of your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

February 17, 2011

Rae was my cousin. Memories from when we were young are faint, but I will cherish the last couple of summers when we reunited with Anne and Bunny at my mom's house. My thoughts will be with Rae's children and husband, and with Anne and Bunny. Rae will be in my heart forever. Love, Karen

February 17, 2011

Rae was my cousin. I have great memories of Rae and Anne coming to our house in Southfield. She and her sisters are beautiful women inside and out. Love to all, Sue

February 17, 2011

I am sorry to say I did not have the opportunity to know Rae in her personal life. But, As an associate I can say she was the optomal professional and always had her clients best interest at heart. What a pleasure to be around. All who knew her will have a void in their heart.
My Prayers and condolences go out to her family. Diane Hemelstrand. SD.

florice Boelter

February 17, 2011

Rae was my sister, my inspiration, my best friend. We were miles apart, but I always knew she was with me in my heart and still is. I miss your voice, your laughter and your sense of humor. I will always love you. Bun

Diana Sanchez

February 16, 2011

I was a friend of Rae's in high school, we had some great times together. She was a wonderful person, and will be missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family.

Diana Sanchez (Schnarr)

Rebecca Marti

February 16, 2011

May Jesus wrap his loving arms around your family as you grieve the loss of your wife, sister and mother. The Lord knows what it's like to grieve, to mourn, to lose someone you love. He gives us wonderful promises of a reunion in heaven someday. Jesus hold you all close. Love, Rebecca Schroeder-Marti

Liz Mullen

February 16, 2011

I have very fond memories of all the trips we took together during our girls cheer days. Such a beautiful and giving woman. My thoughts and prayers are with the Ray family. Love, Liz Mullen

Anne Schroeder

February 16, 2011

I will love my sister, your mom, your wife forever and miss her physical presence on this earth every day. Love you all, Anne

February 16, 2011

Dear Ray Family,

I’m so sorry for your loss. Rae, Anne and I were childhood friends and I treasure the memories and fun we shared. Even then, Rae faced life with courage, grace, warmth and unshakable faith. She loved you all so much and it was evident when we spoke how proud she was of all you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Shari Beardslee Cottrill

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