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Barbara M. Connolly

1928 - 2022

Barbara M. Connolly obituary, 1928-2022, Billerica, MA

BORN

1928

DIED

2022

FUNERAL HOME

Fay McCabe Funeral Home - Lowell

105 Moore St

Lowell, Massachusetts

Barbara Connolly Obituary

Lifelong resident of Billerica passed away on May 9, 2022 in her home surrounded by her beloved daughter Noreen and loving family. Born in Billerica on September 4, 1928 she was the daughter of the late Sophie V. (Kukulski) Oskowski and Theodore J. Oskowski.

Barbara loved to serve others and did so for many years through her work in the hospitality industry as a waitress and bartender. You could always find her with a tray in her hand and a smile on her face at places like The Bandbox, The Townhouse, The Red Mill and the Holiday Inn. Her congenial personality and friendly face afforded her the opportunity to purchase the home that she resided in for 61 years; the home she raised her daughter in and was so proud of.

She was a longtime past member of the St. Andrews Women's Bowling League. She also enjoyed gardening and bingo but her favorite pass time was basking in the sun. If you drove by her home on a sunny day, you were sure to find her sitting out on the front porch "catching some rays" year round.

Barbara is survived by her daughter Noreen (Connolly) Conway and her husband John (Jack) of Billerica, her Granddaughter Kelly (Conway) McCluskey of Billerica, her Grandson Sean Conway and his wife Carrie of Chelmsford as well as her six great-grandchildren, Christopher, Matthew, Molly and Jack McCluskey and Arya and Kit Conway. She is also survived by her sister Judith Sheehan and her husband Tom of AZ, her brother Dennis Oskowski and wife Sue of Maine, her brother in-law Willard (Bill) Beckwith and her godson Edward H. Fillmore as well as many nieces and nephews.

Along her with parents, she was predeceased by her twin sister Lois M. Fillmore, Charlotte Gearin, Robert Oskowski, Theodore Oskowski, Joan (Winky) Beckwith.

The family would like to thank Dr. Jessica Wieselquist who provided her outstanding care over the last several years and the comfort and dignity that was afforded to her in the last day of her life. As Barbara said, "good things come in small packages".

Family and friends are invited to Barbara's Funeral Mass on SATURDAY, MAY 21, 2022 at 11 AM at ST. ANDREW'S CHURCH, 45 Talbot Ave. N. Billerica. Barbara's family will greet people at the entrance of the Church, prior to the Mass, beginning at 10:30 AM.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that the next time you are out, be generous to your server in memory of Barbara.

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FAY McCABE FUNERAL DIRECTORS

978-459-9222 www.faymccabe.com



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Published by Lowell Sun on May 17, 2022.

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MaryAnn Oczkowski Bishop

May 21, 2022

Noreen & Family - I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your Mom. May all the wonderful memories comfort you at this difficult time. Barbara will be greatly missed by all.

Joanne Sweeney McNamara

May 18, 2022

Noreen and family, I'm so sorry for your loss. I know my mom was an only child and she and her mom had an inseparable bond. Your mom sounds like an amazing woman, and will be very missed by so many who love her. Our loved ones never really leave us, but stay in our hearts. Every day you will be going about the day and something will bring her to mind. That is her on the other side reminding you she's still with you. watching out for you. You were a wonderful daughter!

Anne Marie (Johnson) Rakip

May 17, 2022

Dear Noreen and Jackie, so sad to read this but smiling when I think of your Mom, Barbara. I remember her with fondness and after reading this, I tipped my server 100.00 for a 20.00 lunch. Rest in sweet peace Barbara; see you on the other side. ~ Annie

Harry & Nancy

May 17, 2022

Noreen,Jackie, Kelly, Sean & families,
So sorry to learn of your loss. She will be missed. Hope you can soon find a smile in the happy memories you hold dear, With our Sympathy .

Geri Penney

May 17, 2022

With deepest sympathy in the loss of your mother. She was a spitfire and a wonderful neighbor. I'll miss seeing her on the porch. Hopefully she and "Dickie" can catch up.

Rosita Santos

May 17, 2022

I'm sorry Noreen about the loss of your mother.May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Donna Scannell Richards

May 17, 2022

Dear Noreen, I am so sorry for your loss. What a lovely obituary ..... you certainly inherited her wonderful personality. With sympathy, Donna

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11:00 a.m.

St. Andrew's Church

45 Talbot Ave., Billerica, MA 01862

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105 Moore St, Lowell, MA 01852

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