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Steven M. Foote

1961 - 2019

Steven M. Foote obituary, 1961-2019, New York, Ny

Steven Foote Obituary

Steven M. Foote

New York, NY - On Tuesday, June 4, 2019, Steven M. Foote ("Bucky"), loving husband to Lynne (O'Connell) and father of six children, died at the age of 57 after a two-year battle with cancer.

The last of eight children, Steve was born on June 17, 1961 in Lansing, MI to Donald and Shirley (Utter) Foote. He graduated from East Lansing High School in 1979 (Trojans) and Dartmouth College in 1983 (Indians) but was always first a Spartan of Michigan State University. Steve did not attend MSU but was a devoted fan and would end every email with "Sparty on!"

On December 3rd 1983, Steve married Lynne in Hanover, NH. They had twins, Henry and Madeleine, followed 18 months later (!) by another set, Bailey and Mariah, followed by Elinor and, finally, Oliver. Steve is survived by his seven older siblings (Rhonda Judy, Cheryl Groenendyke, Barbara Shingleton, Susan Foote, Kenneth Foote, David Foote, and Frederick Foote).

Steve was in the securities business right out of Dartmouth and enjoyed success and many friends at Carr Securities, Mabon, Nugent & Co., Ingalls and Snyder, Morgan Stanley and JP Morgan Securities.

Steve enjoyed sports (playing baseball and football at Dartmouth), eating out, watching the Tigers, sharing beers with friends, and photobombing pictures with abandon. There was almost nothing he'd rather do than fly planes and talk about aviation. Travel, especially to visit his children and friends, was a passion. He also loved spending time on the porch or in front of the fire of his home in Onteora Park (burial place) and frequented the other Catskill parks, Twilight and Elka.

Steve was a devoted Christian. South Baptist (Lansing, MI), His Mansion (Hillsboro, NH), Redeemer Presbyterian (New York, NY) and All Angels (New York, NY) were some of his favorite ministries but there were dozens he loved. He also supported the arts and took great interest in Lynne's passions, including her pursuit of a PhD (University of Oxford) and the Harry T. Burleigh Society (New York, NY).

No one can think of Steve without a smile. He was brave, principled and serious when it mattered, but these were mere minutes among the playful hours when it didn't. He was revered but irreverent, investing in many people's lives over the years and opening his family's homes to friends and strangers alike.

Everything was more fun with Steve. Heaven will be, too, as he greets Jesus, Dad, Mom, his Uncle Jim and Aunt Shirley, grandparents, Lynne's mother, Vivian O'Connell, and Lynne's sister, Eva.

We thank the Lord for you, Steven, and we will cherish your memory.

Sparty on!

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Lansing State Journal on Jun. 19, 2019.

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Liam

February 6, 2023

Although I only got to know you for a short time, you left me with a lifetime of memories.

Rob Webb

August 2, 2021

I was Steve's neighbor in the village until 2006. I babysat the kids and shared the kind of intimate stuff that neihbors do. That being said, he and Lynne were the same loving and kind folks behind closed doors as they were at church or in public. You are greatly missed.

Bing-Bing D Villareal-Fernando

June 16, 2021

May God continue to bless you and your family. Was a student at ELHS as well.

John William Miller

June 13, 2021

Steve was a broker in the firm where we worked; the most down to earth high powered broker l ever met. I worked in operations and Steve NEVER acted like l was beneath him. He treated everyone with kindness and fairness. I worked with many brokers throughout my long career, but Steve was by far, my all time favorite. I only found out about his passing a year and a half after he passed, and was totally heartbroken. I had met his wife Lynn and nearly all of his kids, and got along great with them. I say to his family, l truly miss texting back and forth with big Steve. He would include pics of his travels to different sports venues along with Mariah, a big Yankees fan. Steve, l really miss you man, forever rest in peace.

John William Miller

October 31, 2020

Here it is nearly one year and five months later that l find out that my friend big Steve passed away. In fact, l texted him today to congratulate him on Sparty beating Mich today. I decided to look up his name at JPM, and see his obituary. I am so very sorry to learn of Steve passing. I will cherish the small gifts and trinkets he gave me from MSU and the Detroit Tigers. To his wife Lynne and his kids, l am so very sorry for your loss. Steve was a great man and l am so sorry no one told me about his passing. Big Steve, forever rest in peace. John Miller

Kay Mascho

June 20, 2019

I didn't know Steve that well, but he was always smiling when I'd see him at the First National bank where I worked. All of the Foote family are very nice and I highly respected them. Rest in Peace!

Andrew Sinadinos

June 19, 2019

I am probably not saying anything most have not experienced. Whenever I ran across Steve he always called me by name and had a friendly smile for me. The way he handled and Carries himself made it easy to have a great amount of admiration for him! Even though he was a very tough competitor, that never took away from me seeing him as a gentle giant. May God Rest his soul and bless the foot families.

Bing-Bing D Villareal Fernando

June 19, 2019

Prayers and condolences to the Family.

Brian Sainz

June 19, 2019

Condolences to Bucky's wife and children, and the entire Foote family.

Great friends and teammates, both on and off the field.


The entire Sainz family.

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