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Gus Kringen
November 25, 2023
Joe, who went to San Jose State my uncle, Cliff Aronson, practically lived at our house in San Jose, I´m told he changed my diapers. Anyway, he was great friends with my mom & dad, Evelyn & Gus Kringen, and we were in and out if his life, attended his Coconut Grove debut with Tony Martin in `61, spent the night at Falcon´s Lair, drove Joe to practice sessions with Teddy Edwards, and he & Doris to the airport, and drove his Mercedes 300SL to high school for a week, discovering huge but fleeting popularity. We lost contact with Joe around 1970 and dad died in `72. I´m sorry I didn´t keep in touch with Joe. I remember Joe as brilliant, funny, classy, charming, occasionally moody, with perfect white teeth and a smile that could light up a room. Just unforgettable. If his son´s read this I´d love to connect with them & share memories of Joe, to complete the circle.
Michael Distefano
December 13, 2022
Joe was the best. A phenomenal musical talent and incredibly kind-hearted human being. I remember him letting me sit up in the balcony with the orchestra during the Folies Bergere performances, and observe all the great musicians he recruited for that awesome ensemble! Miss ya', Pal. God Bless. Sincerely, Mike & Sam Distefano (of the Riviera Hotel & Casino days).
David Stampone
January 10, 2010
John C. and Family --
Sincere condolences; heard about your loss from recent contact w/ Devon, thought I'd look up some info/poss. contact approach -- found this opp'ty to send sympathy. Yes, never met your pop, but reading about him (and your late mom), wow -- fine people. (Devon actually did play me a number of Joe's records one aft. in Queens a few yrs ago, explaining you/dad/Vegas music bg to me, having asked.) And your parents passing on the gift of music, a (way of) life enriched by it, listening, playing, loving it -- a decidedly deathless and pretty incalculably precious inheritance, no?
Best,
David
Diane Panella
January 2, 2010
Dear John and Cynthia,
You remain in our thoughts and prayers during this time. I didn't get to know your dad but my heart was filled with honor and respect as I read the obit. (Billy Higgins...Dave Brubeck ...Wow!) Well , we both lost our excellent musician dads, both named Joe within the last month and a half...heaven's band just got finer.
Love,
Diane Panella and Eddie Haynes
December 27, 2009
John & Jimmy... So Sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad... He was a great guy with a real passion for his music. I learned a lot while playing drums for your Dad at the Tropicana Follies Bergere'.. There was never a dull moment ! My best to you both in this difficult time.
God Bless,
Tim Lienhard
www.myspace.com/timlienhardband
Alberto Trujillo
December 22, 2009
As John C’s friend I had the pleasure of knowing Joe. He treated me like a son even though I only had a few opportunities to spend time with him. He even hosted me in Las Vegas when John was not around or busy. He was very generous with him self and incredibly entertaining as a personality. He was the kind of person you actually wish you had more opportunities to spent time with. Peace be with you.
Bruce Harper
December 19, 2009
I will always cherish the memories of all the jam sessions, and parties at Joe’s house plus all the wonderful nights playing on "Loretta’s relief band" and subbing for the Follies!
Dick Eliot
December 19, 2009
Dear John, Jim, and family,
God Bless dear Joe in his new life with our Lord Jesus Christ.
I will always remember his warm smile, and personality that came thru in his wonderful gift of music.
My condolences and heart felt prayers are with you all at this difficult time.
Dick Eliot
www.dickeliot.com
December 19, 2009
I'll never forget the fun we had playing for Jim Bailey. Joe was a wonderful player and a good friend. I'll miss him. Santo Savino
The Stankiewicz Family
December 18, 2009
Jimmy, Lisa, John, and Cynthia,
We love you guys like we loved your parents. We are going to miss them very much. They have always been wonderful neighbors, friends, and family to us all. We miss listening to Loretta's stories and seeing her everyday when she would stop by, and we will miss listening to her singing and to Joe playing the piano as wonderfully as he did. The world already seems empty without them both, and it will be hard for us to accept that they are both gone. We believe that they together are in a much better place now, singing and playing with the angels in heaven. We all will always be there for you guys. God bless. We love you all.
Frank Reed
December 18, 2009
From the breakfasts Loretta made for us on our way to Howard Wasden to the crazy birthday parties for Joe and all the many years in between, your family has been an important part of my life. My thoughts are with you Jim and John.
Buddy Greve
December 18, 2009
Will always remember the times we had together in New York, Hawaii and Vegas. Over 50 years of a great friendship. Love you man,
Buddy Greve
Steve Poltz
December 18, 2009
Dear John and James,
I'm so grateful for the couple of times I got to meet your Dad. He was a charismatic fellow full of great stories. I was in awe just listening to him tell me about all the wonderful music venues he played. He was playful and had a zest for life and he loved your Mom very much. I hope to be as lucky. His legacy will live on in memories and musical recordings. He had a musical gift and he really let it shine and passed his knowledge on to both of you. I'm honored to call you my friends and you're in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. It's up to guys to carry the torch and live a life that would make your Father proud. Our time is so precious and short.
I love you,
Steve Poltz
Buddy Greve
December 18, 2009
I first worked with Joe in Hawaii and then New York at the Hickory House.We both ended up in Vegas and worked together often. He has remained my friend for over 50 years and will always be in my all time favorite "memory book".....I'll miss you old friend, and hope we meet at the "great jazz club in the sky" Aloha, Buddy Greve
Joe Locatelli
December 18, 2009
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Tom Hall
December 18, 2009
Joe and I go back to the 50's when he was with Anita O'Day & June Christy. It seems we would always end up on the same circuit, in the same towns, and many times after our gigs we would get together and jam all night in a frat house or some club. The next time I saw him was in Vegas years later. He came up behind me and gave me a great big hug, and that began another great,long term relationship. What a great person and a great player. We'll all surely miss him. That should really be one beautiful jam session up where he'll be. Bless him!
John, my Love to you and Yours!
Tom Hall
December 18, 2009
Joe Castro is a name I often heard mentioned in our house from my earliest memories. My father, Bruce Hamada, along with bassist Edd Shonk worked with Joe in his trio here in Honolulu. My dad was very fond of Joe and was very saddened to hear of Joe's passing. On behalf of my dad, our heartfelt condolences to the family. He will not be forgotten.
With Much Aloha,
Bruce Hamada Jr.
December 18, 2009
I love you dad, and will miss you more than you'll ever know.
John
Kim Lambros
December 18, 2009
While we will all miss "the dancing conductor", we celebrate a life well loved and lived. Our arms are around the family he so cherished.
With love and respect,
The Lambros Family
George, Sue, Kim and Katina
December 18, 2009
Dear John and Jim and your lovely wives,
I send my heartfelt sympathy to you for the loss of your Dad and your friend, Joe. What a fun time we had the few times we were around Joe and your Mom. My prayers are with you as you grieve for the wonderful and loving parents you had. God bless you both.
Your loving cousin, Jo Anne Haddad
Norm and Jo Anne Haddad
December 18, 2009
What a special person! Being around him as a cousin and as a musician was always a treat. Joe and Loretta were tow of a kind, and will be making great music together once again in Heaven.
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