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Joseph Whitehead Obituary

Joseph Whitehead, 36, died Thursday in Macon. Whitehead was an 11-year veteran with the Bibb County Sheriff's office,where he began his career in 1995. He joined the drug squad in 2002. He was also a member of the SWAT team. Whitehead is survived by a wife and three children. Funeral arrangements were incomplete Thursday afternoon.
Published by The Telegraph on Mar. 23, 2006.

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Tyra Lee

October 10, 2015

I love you uncle <3

March 23, 2013

Dear Son, Eternally On Watch, Today, March 23, 2013, seven years ago....Mom misses you so much, will remember you forever. Thank you for all the love you gave to me and showed me by every thing you did to make those 36 years we shared very precious. Just as this 7th year is spiritually symbolic of God's perfection, I still remember with smiles the special 2005 August birthday present of the beautiful white rose bouquet... now in my heart with new meaning. I Love you JT, My Only Son. You truly knew the meaning of Family and we shall see each other again in the rest and peace of Heaven with all of our loved ones. "Mumsy"

Fred Sellers

March 2, 2013

"J", you will be missed man. As your roommate and comrade while in tech school and on to our first base, you were an honorable person.

Fred Sellers

Asha Lee

August 11, 2012

I love you uncle! I'm doing sonething special in honor of you today. "my uncle my hero"

Althea

March 30, 2012

Well, you are still in our prayers as well as our heart.Your presence here was greatly appreciated you made an impact on all of the family.Love you Jay, Auntie Althea

Malcolm Jones

March 24, 2010

Jay,
Hey man I was thinking of you today and wanted you to know you are missed.

Malcolm

misty sellers hasty

August 4, 2009

to one of the best and greatest heroes of all, our batman. mr. whitehead iam leaving macon and moving hours away. I am very pleased to say that i have been heard by officers down, where i had commented on an officer that was killed in arkansas butt talked alot about you, my name is all over a web page getting the word out of how special you are your family and friends and your co workers.. I never thought my name would be posted over the world, butt if it meens telling the world the truth about you so be it. I seen that batman pillow on your grave thats where i come up with you being our batman, you passed trying to help save our lives from a terrible thing called drugs, its a nasty world out there, butt you still put your job first and your life was stolen and taken and it was not fair, I did not personally know you but i can only imagine what a wonderfull father and parent you are, your kids was just so precious, and so kind hearted to leave there pillow there batman pillow for you, thats what made me know what a heck of a man you are, a heck of a father, husband, and etc. mr. whitehead i am not running from still getting the word out that you died a hero the truth is i am a sick drug attic, i have got to get out of macon, if i dont do something and i mean quick,i am going to die this way and i want to get thru this and be something and somebody before i die, i want to help people in a way like you did, i will just have to help them in another way cause of my past, it is a ugly one.god bless you and god bless your family and friends and your co workers who are still trying to fight this ugly war against drugs and violence. god bless your wife as well, love always misty sellers hasty aug 2009. peace we love ya and you are missed hope to get to meet you oneday batman.. PEACE ...

Charlene Wims

December 5, 2008

Hi Cousin, A day never goes by with out me thinking of you. I think of you and my mom ( Aunt Wanda ) daily. R.I.P. I love you, always

Aunt Althea & Uncle John The Jonesess

June 2, 2008

Today is a special day, we miss you Jay,we know alot of your comrades miss you also.God has everything under control.Fret not......Love you Auntie

Anthony Price

June 2, 2008

Happy Birthday bro! Will never forget my #1 friend in the world. Thanks again for being a blessing to jersey,and macon,police force, air force, and just the world. Love you bro. Tony,

Noreen White

March 22, 2008

Hey Sweetheart, It's been 2 years, Resurrection Sunday, this year, since you were taken from us -- in that time you have been joined by other family members and I know you are rejoicing in the Lord's presence w/them as well-- miss your calls and wisdom but you are always present in our hearts - Always Aunt Reene

Anthony Price

March 21, 2008

It will be 2 years on sunday march 23, that my best friend went home to be with the lord. There is still not a day that i don't think about how you still touch so many people including me. I know what feels like to lose someone u truly care for and love. My mom was truly a blessing in my life and i thank her for making me who i am today. Just as u did. I thank god for your family (mom∧ lisa) for being there when i needed a sister and a mom. Always thinking about you jay best friends forever. Tony,

Keffany Wynn

March 11, 2008

Keffany,
this year has past very fast by u not being here with us a few days ago i woke up and thought of you constantley all day we was never really close but i no my stepdad was a very close friend to you(Herman Sampson)and i know he miss u alot more than ever you was his best friend and we will always have you in our heart!!!!< Love Sampson Family>

(Aunt) Wanda Wims

August 17, 2007

Nephew,
you are always on my mind. I can't help but smile when I think about
all the good times we had with you throughout the years. I wish those
good times never had to end. But I find peace in knowing I will see you
again if I live right, and I plan on doing so.We all miss you very
much. You are loved even more and more each day.

Henry Harmon

July 2, 2007

Wali was a trusted friend and mentor. He made RAF Bentwaters England tolerable. I'll miss you.

Anthony Price

June 17, 2007

Happy Father's Day Bro! You are always on my mind bro. Today was truly a good father's day with my wife and children made very special. The best part of the day came about 2:30! Jackie called me and wished me a happy father's day that made my day. also spoke to teavin and it brought a smile to my face.taisha,and tre' are also doing well. my niece and nephews know that i love them and they know i will always be there for them. Jay, jackie knows were her help comes from the man up above. She said that to me today and that is all i needed to here. Love you bro. Tony,

Akeim Fairwell

June 5, 2007

What Up Cousin I'm sorry I'm Late I didn't forget U though I think about u all the time. Hey watch out me down here u heard. Love always ya little cuz Ak-man!!
peace,J.T. Wali Whitehead.

Auntie Althea&Uncle John The Jonesess

June 4, 2007

This is in honor of my very special loving nephew.To remember his Birthday June 2, it is never to late to honor a Hero.We love you and miss you and proud of what you stood for.Love Auntie Althea&Uncle John

Charlene Wims

June 2, 2007

Hey Cousin,
Today is a special day, for this is a day of rememberance. You are
always loved and never forgotten.
Love You, Happy Birthday

Jaide Lee

June 2, 2007

Hey Uncle Wali,
Happy 38th birthday. I know your watching down on us and your very proud of everything we do. I miss you very much and I love you.
Love always & forever,
Jaide

Tyra Lee

June 2, 2007

Uncle Wali, Happy Birthday!! its so sad that you could not be here in the flesh, to celebrate your 38th birthday with us, but you will be in our hearts and minds as we remember your life. I love you so much and i will never forget you! <3

from your FAVORITE niece
Tyra

Asha Lee

June 2, 2007

Happy birthday Uncle Wali! I love you and miss you very much. I didn't forget about your rims. I keep you in my heart everyday you are my motivation to do well. I love you very much and happy 38th uncle!
Love your favorite neice,
Asha

Wanda Wims

June 2, 2007

Happy 38th Birthhday Nephew! I am here in Roselle as we are all gathering together to celebrate you. I just met your good and faithfull friend Tony, he came by. Next we are all going to meet down at Lisa's for a big celebration. We all love you and we think about you often. Until we meet again. Love forever Aunt Wanda

Anthony Price

June 1, 2007

Happy Birthday bro! This is the second b-day without you. Jay u r truly missed an loved by everyone. I look at tre',teavin,tiesha,they are all a reflection of you and jackie. The lord has truly been a blessing by showing me i have'nt lost a friend. I've been blessed with another family in your children, jackie,your mom and lisa. Jay knowing that u were'nt very big on bithday's because you were so stubborn. I will never forget june 2,and the day we became best friends. So happy birthday jay! I love you bro Tony,

nicole colvard

May 31, 2007

Jackie I am still praying for you and your family i know it is hard but God is control and he is going to keep you strong for those kids.

NOREEN WHITE

May 30, 2007

HEY JAY, THAT SPECIAL DAY IS QUICKLY APPROACHING - I REMEMBER ON YOUR BIRTHDAY,6/2/, HOW I GOT YOU GOOD!!!:0) BY SENDING YOU A PACKAGE OF KOOL-AIDE BECAUSE I SAID I COULDN'T AFFORD TO FEED YOU -- YOU ARE A "CHARACTER" BUT YOU GOT IT HONESTLY LOVE ALWAYS AUNT REENE

Malcolm Jones

March 29, 2007

Jay you are missed that is all I can say. I often just laugh at our times growing up In Roselle, NJ. Those were good times now we are all men and women now with responsibilities. Who you are and what you stood for can never be comprimised. Thinking of you often,

Althea Jackie Evans, Jones

March 24, 2007

Oh What a time the family had yesterday March 23rd 2007 as we honored and shared the sacrifice of our beloved comrade, friend,Grandson, nephew, brother,son, and of course a good husband.We were there in Macon.Georgia to give respect to our fallen hero.It is not to be forgotten this day March 23rd,2006 when you sacrificed your life.Your laugh, jokes,your smile, your understanding,your warm hearted kindness will never be forgotten.You were indeed a Trooper if I may say so myself,we will continue to honor your name and respect your wishes.you are gone but never, forgotten.We love you still and yet.Auntie Althea and Uncle John R. Jones

Mechaela Simmons

March 23, 2007

Hey this is Mechaela, I just want see how you all are doing. LOVE, Mechaela Simmons

Reather Waller

March 23, 2007

Tevin & Family,
At Rutland Middle School, we miss you a lot. Even though you have moved on to the 9th grade and getting ready to get promoted to the 10th grade, you are still in my prayers!

It is my prayer that God will continue to strengthen, bless and keep you and your family in His care!!!!!!!

Especially thinking of you today on the anniversary memorial of your dad.

Stop by to see us sometime! As I said earlier, you are missed at RMS.

(Aunt) Wanda Wims

March 21, 2007

JT,
It seems like only yesterday, I still can't believe you are gone. I often expect the phone to ring and for it to be you pulling one of your many pranks. I really miss talking with you, and by now I would be planning on visiting you after the long harsh winters here in NY. We talk about you often and will love and keep you in our memories forever. Till we meet again.
Love always,
Aunt Wanda

Aunt Reene White

March 20, 2007

JT - You are still a presence in so many lives- You have always been special - As the day of your memorial service is upon us I reflect on you as a blessing to our family. You are always about family and believed in working things out and not giving up - Even though you lost your father, my brother, at an early age it did not prevent you from being a great Dad to your children - I remember when you came to visit w/Grandma Whitehead and how she said you took care of Taisha (Rabbit) giving her a bath and even did her hair. She was so proud of you
I know you are alright and we will see you again -- Endless Love, Aunt Reene

Anthony Price

March 19, 2007

Jay, This will be a very trying week for everyone who loved you so much. Yes the 23rd day of march is when my best friend went home to be with lord. I thank the lord for his strength,time, patience,through this healing process. Jay i know i have become a better,husband,father,provider,man,because of your talks that we have had over the years. I want to thank you for everything that you have done for me and my family. No one can ever replace the friend of 24 years. Thanks for being a super great godfather to my son tony jr. Thank you for being the angel that god put on this earth for people who needed you. I love you bro and your family jackie,tre,teavin,teisha,lisa,delores,nanah, jahneen. Thanks to the bibb county law enforcement for being a blessing. You will always be New Jersey's hero. Anthony,

Fannie Moseley

February 5, 2007

It is coming upon one year since tragedy struck the lives of Mr. Whitehead's families and friends. I pray for continued strength for you all. I did not know Mr. Whitehead personally, but the goodness of his character expressed by those that knew him, touches me. I often come back to this guest book from time, and I am pleased with the loyalty of the expressions others have made. I hope I can learn to be as loving to everyone, not just to my children and family. I can tell this young man made a difference in life to a lot of people, that is why he will live on in memory. Mr. Whitehead, R.I.P.!

Malcolm Jones

February 2, 2007

Jay,
What's going on man. You were on my mind and I just wanted to say hello. I talked to Tony today and he's doing fine. I often still can't believe the reality of you not being here. But I trust that god has everything under control. I will talk to you later.

Charlene Wims

November 2, 2006

There's a song that comes to mind when I think of you "one sweet day" by Mariah Carey and Boyz 2 Men. I actually singed this at my High School graduation.The one verse that always make me cry goes " sorry I never told you, all I wanted to say". I never really thanked you for taking me to Albany (ga) for my fathers funeral, and just being there for me when I needed someone just to listen or just to make me laugh to keep me from crying.JT, you are and will always be dear to my heart. Even though you where one of the oldest grand kids, you still made sure that your little cousins are ok. Love always ChaCha

Anthony Price

October 14, 2006

Guess what today is? Your best friends birthday. There is not a year that goes by and you always called me on october 14th the same way i called you on june 2. I can't hear your voice but your memory lives with me forever. I was just thinking of all the good times we had together when my birthday came and you were in jersey. "Jay" i have asked the lord 2 forgive me for having so much anger and he has. The lord is truly 'amazing' he knows my pain,anger.happiness,guilt,but most important my love for him. Bro i love you and pray that i can be as good as father,friend,uncle,brother,godfather,as you were. Tone,

Tyra Lee

October 14, 2006

To my uncle wali. I really never thought i see the day when someone who i loved and cared for go so far away. i miss you so much, i think about you EVERY Single day of my life. i thought in time i would be able to cope with the fact that you are gone but its still hard even in the 7th month. Even though we lived so far away A huge part of me will be gone forever. i miss playing around with you about Buying you your "rims" and sound system lol . those were the good days . but i am thankful for the times that we shared together as a family and how you were the loudest person and made everybody jump everytime you entered a room! lol we all miss you alot and can never forget about your fun personality. u were always the fun one when mommy and gradmas' would be "boring". i just want to say I l0ve you and thank you for everything!

Charlene Wims

October 9, 2006

It's going on 7 months since you've been gone. Its still hard to face the fact that you're not here. In time my open wounds will heal. From the bottom of my heart I love you, and truly miss you. Your cousin.

morell whitehead

September 23, 2006

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

Anthony Price

September 22, 2006

It's been 6 months and i truly miss my best friend. The football season has started and there's no one as close as you to talk about the raiders and cowboys. I stop looking for a best friend along time ago there is no one who can replace you jay. I do speak to my nephew Tevin on the regular and will always be there for your kids and jackie no matter what. I love you bro and not a day go by that i don't think about you. My prayers are with your family and myself as well. The "Lord" will someday give me a friend ,brother,partner,dawg,ace, as good as you. Tone,

Asha Lee

August 25, 2006

To my Uncle Wali,

Its has been 5 months and i think of you every single day. I love you so much and miss you. We all still share memories of you and you will never be forgotton. You always told me to be confident in myself and to be careful in life,and that is just what i am doing. I LOVE YOU



Love Your neice,

Asha<33

Wanda Wims (Aunt)

July 24, 2006

This past Sunday has been 4 months since you've been gone. I was thinking about our last conversation just 5 days before you were taken, I called and you spoke to me and Akeim for 30 minutes. Before we hung up I told you we would be down to see you this summer. Your reply was "yeah, come on down, we'll be glad to have you". We (myself, Naheem, Akeim and Charlene truly miss you. And we will always love you and keep you in our memory. You are the Best.

Phyllis Whitehead Lea

July 20, 2006

JT, I miss you very much. I miss your phone pranks and your laughter. Our family reunion is coming up and you will be remembered and loved always.

I pray that our Family Unity with your children (my niece and nephews) will continue to grow and strengthen, this is the legacy that Mom & Dad ( grandma & granddad) instilled in all of us.

In God we Trust

Aunt Phyl and Uncle Larry

Noreen White

July 17, 2006

Jay, Truely you are missed by the family - We thank God for the time we had with you - in your living it was always your goal to keep the family first and now in your going away may this "spirit" be ever active - I thank God, in faith, for the Unity of the family - For God's heart is for the family and your heart, like the Father desires the same - So be it in Jesus' name

Love Always Uncle Donnell and Aunt Reene

Teavin, Taisha & Tre'

July 13, 2006

Daddy we miss you, no one can replace such a good father, no not one, but GOD, who lives inside of us. We Thank you GOD daily for the father you gave and whom you came to claim for your purpose not ours.

Cynthia BAGGS

June 26, 2006

FROM A FRIEND IN LAW ENFORCEMENT, BLECKLEY COUNTY E-911 HAPPY FATHER'S DAY

Auntie Althea and Uncle John Jones

June 19, 2006

Never to late to mention your thoughts of someone very dear to you.Happy Father's Day J.T I miss you so much and when you let me keep Teavin and Taeisha.John always will keep you good thoughts he loves you like a big brother.Love you always Auntie Althea and Uncle John

Anthony Price

June 16, 2006

Happy father's day 2 u my buddy! This is the first without you. I and the family miss you and love you always.Just remember your children tre,teisha,tevean,are mine as well. I love them like they were my own, Love u bro. Tone,

Felicia Franklin-Turner

June 4, 2006

Happy Birthday Jay T I attended your memorial service in New Jersey and it was just wonderful. You will truly be missed. And to the family I will be praying your strength in the Lord

Malcolm Jones

June 3, 2006

Happy Birthday, Jay

We had a memorial service for you last night here in NJ. It was really nice a lot of friends and family turned out even in the hard rain. I still can't believe you are gone, but your spirit is still as strong as ever. Peace my brother talk to you soon.

June 2, 2006

Happy Birthyday Jay!!!

Missing U!!!

Anthony (Tone) Price

June 2, 2006

Happy Birthday J! This is the day the lord has bleesed the world with you. Jay i truly miss my #1 best friend and can't stop thanking him enough for the time we spent together as boys. I think about you everyday I think about jackie and your 3 wonderful children and also your mom sisters and family. The lord will look over your family with help of me and a host friends always remember that. Jay they remember you as whitehead,or joe in georgia and they all love you down there and that's a good thing. But we remember u as J, or JT or crushbrother and we love you in new jersey also. I thank the people in georgia,and new jersey and all over for being so good to my buddy. Happy Birthday J! I love you bro. Tony,

Auntie Althea Jones

June 2, 2006

Truly a day doesn't go by without me thinking of you J.T .Well, it's your birthday today you would have been 37 years old.Happy birthday honey,Uncle John and I miss you very very much.Plan and simple your memory remains strong in our hearts.Love Auntie Althea and Uncle John

Anthony Price Sr.

May 17, 2006

It's been a almost 2 months. I am still in the praying and healing process. I truly miss my best friend and sometimes wish we could talk and bug out again! I have my moments and then i kneel,and thank the "LORD" for sending me a best friend. Things will never be the same but i have wonderful memories. Everyone in jersey is looking forward to the memorial service on your birthday june 2. Jay i know i will see you again in heaven. And i know you"ll still be wild and crazy! Jackie and my niece, and nephews, i love you guys so much and my prayers are with you all day everyday. Tone,

Anthony Carollo

May 12, 2006

God bless this officer Whitehead , a true american hero. He will never be forgotton.

Stephanie Quinn

May 12, 2006

Mr.Whitehead will be sadly missed by all. My love and prayers are with the family.

Lance Lenahan

May 5, 2006

Within all great societies stands and falls great heroes, and Joseph Whitehead was certainly a hero in every since of the word, to his family and to his community.

We see senseless tragedies take place daily on the 6 o'clock news

and yet seldom feel the impact left in the wake that befalls those left behind to carry the burden of life without both the emotional and financial support of their beloved lost one.

We as a community must pull closer together to help in these times of crisis and help provide for the families of these brave men and women that place their own lives on the line for you and I.

Joseph was a man of great courage, but so is his family, for he has now passed on to a greater glory with God,and they too must move on in a positive direction with their lives,knowing that his spirit is still looking over them, providing them with strength and fortitude even in these, the saddest of times.

Ray Gardere ([email protected])

May 3, 2006

JT, its been a while since we spoke or came in contact but i remember that infectious smile like it was yesterday. I remember that hop in your step. I remember us cutting up in class. I remember you welcoming me into your home when i was an outsider. I remember when you were visiting home from the military you proclaimed 'my jump shot is nice now', and i laughed hysterically. Most of all, I remember a friend. Thank You

Sharon Williams

May 2, 2006

Ms. Delores I met you on the train from Fayetteville. I will continue to lift you and your entire family up to the Father in prayer. May His peace surround each of you.

Althea Jones

May 2, 2006

Truly a day doesn't go by without me thinking of my Little nephew,although he was a great man of courage and honor, he still was my little nephew.He dreamed of playing professional football, getting drafted and all of that.I asked him Jay what team are you hoping for he said the 1st come 1st serve.Smile.Then to if you please I remmember J.T Whitehead going through his teenage years a great dancer.This too I asked him J.T how do you do that. He said you want me to show you.We were standing in front of the mirror in his Mom's front room.He was doing the snake and told me to watch him, well I got right in back of him still looking in the mirror.And learned how with his little help.Those were wonderful times we shared when he was growing up.He was a great leader then and grew up to be a hero.It's all right to cherish the great moments in his life I don't feel ashamed of it.Because I truly loved my little nephew J.T.Whitehead.God bless the whole family, Love Auntie Althea (Jackie) Jones

Gloria Moody

May 1, 2006

Before I retired from Bibb County I have the pleasure to talked with Joseph, and he always talked with a soft heart. Thank God for his parents, because I know he taught his kids the same. Joseph will be miss, but live on and do all things in Christ Jesus. Feed not loneliness on empty days, but fill each waking hours in useful way. Reach out your heart in comfort and cheer and remember that God will comfort you and hold you near. In the times of deepest grief, you can trust God. God will send some to give you a hug or lisen when you need to talk. We worship a great God who send miracle moments to give us bursts of joy in sad seasons of life. Watch for your miracle moments to arrive. Look to your memories for comfort, to your faith for understand and pece.

LISA GRACE

April 21, 2006

JOSEPH WHITEHEAD WAS A HONORABLE AND BRAVE SOLDIER,HIS GOOD DEEDS FOR BIBB COUNTY WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. I WISH JACQUELINE AND THE CHILDREN WELL.

Willie R. Davis

April 21, 2006

My sincere condolences goes out to all family, relatives and friends of Joseph Whitehead. In time God heals.

Mary Rowena & Val Evans

April 15, 2006

We would like to express our heart felt sympathy to all of you. Even though we could not be there, we were in spirit! I remember when we were in North Carolina, I was speaking with cousins JT and Garris and we were discussing our news and jobs. JT always had this fantastic smile and I will always remember that. Working from a former law enforcement background, I have learned in some departments what a wonderful and supportive community it can be. The Heavens have been rewarded with a fantastic protective angel!

Vanzetta Delores Evans

April 14, 2006

Some may ask why the Lord decides to take someone at such a young age. But in JT's case, 36 years was all the Lord needed to fulfill his purpose.

The last time I saw my cousin JT was when I was about 11. Many things can separate a family-- distance, time, walls,-- But it is the shared blood that flows through our bodies that will connect us always.

The last time I saw JT was when he was a teenage boy. After reading the many messages left here, I am glad to see that he grew up to be such a wonderful man. He touched so many in such a positive way.

Aunt Van

April 13, 2006

I heard this morning about the loss of J.T. and the rest of my day has been one of sorrow, pain, a need to shed tears and emotions that I am unable to express. I have essentially been paralyzed and the day has slowly passed. It is sorrow for a mother losing her child, sorrow for a young life cut short; especially a life that was doing so much to make the world a better and safer place for all of us. It is also sorrow for not having seen J.T. grow up to become such a fine young man. This morning I read all 14 pages of “The Officer Down Memorial Page, Inc.” I was unable to stop reading as I learned about the man that J.T. had become; the husband, father, Christian, and well-liked and well-respected public servant who gave his life in the line of duty. J.T. I am so proud of you! It has been a long time since you were in “Girlville.” Today I remembered your smile, your eyes, facial expressions, your laugh (cracking up), how you made us laugh with your silly little boy jokes; Shiera and Lisa laughing at, teasing and trying to find privacy without you (a little boy and teenaged girls), your occasional pout and whine as a result; and of course, your bad Aunt who did not realize how that little prank we pulled would affect you. I just looked at your picture here and was surprised to see your uncle's mouth, then his jaw, every resemblance except your father's eyes. What I remember most of all J.T. is all the delicious “gourmet” meals that I prepared, and finally one night you exclaimed at the dinner table, “Now this is the best meal we’ve had since I’ve been here!” It was beans and franks :-). To your wife and children, Aunt Dee, Grandma Evans, and Lisa, my prayers will be for and with you. We don’t understand why bad things happen to good people, but it is not for us to understand or ask why. God knows; He does not make mistakes, and surely some good will result from J.T.’s death because as I read today, J.T. touched so many lives in a positive way, and his work and his memory will continue to live and thrive in Bibb County and in places and hearts unknown. “Put your hand in the hand of the man from Galilee” and continue to “Hold to God’s unchanging hand.”

Aunt “Van”

Robin Randolph-Henderson

April 11, 2006

May God bring you comfort and peace during your time of loss.



My prayers and my deepest sympathy go out to the family and the friends of J.T. Whitehead. Those of us who met him will not forget him. He will surely be missed.



Robin Randolph (ACHS class of 87)

Robin Randolph-Henderson

April 7, 2006

Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

Paul and Karen Dale

April 7, 2006

My husband, my children and I were burglarized in 2001; it was the largest burglary in Macon's history in about 25 years. It was a very traumatic time for all of us, especially for my children who were 6 and 9 at the time. They were afraid to sleep in their own home. Investigator Whitehead helped in the investigation and capture of the criminal and he is now serving 15 years for his crimes. During this investigation, Lt. Whitehead remained calm and vigilant to help solve this crime and was a big comfort to me knowing he was working on the case diligently and at the same time had a great compassion for what our family and especially the children were going through. He touched my life in a quiet way, not wanting any celebration or recognition when the criminal was caught, but just grateful that once again he had made this world a safer place. He is still doing that job from another angle, still watching over everyone, and we are all blessed by that. He was a great asset to the community and he gave the greatest sacrifice doing what he loved and came natural to him. For those who knew him and those who didn't, the community has lost a truly great man. May he rest in peace and our sincere condolences to the family.

Uncle John Jones

April 6, 2006

To Delores Whitehead and family,I would like to express myself about Wali.He was great hero and a man who stood his ground on what he believed in.And was not scared to pertain his duty as Sgt. of Bibb Co. sheriff Dept.And this what makes him a great hero, and I personal would like thank God for the great times that he spent with me and my wife(Althea).I will truly miss him.Love always Uncle John

JILL CLARK

April 6, 2006

I EXPRESS MY DEEPEST REGRETS TO THE WHITEHEAD FAMILY.JOSEPH WHITEHEAD IS WITH GOD NOW.

Dawn Worley

April 6, 2006

I would like to send my condolences out to the family of J.T. May the Lord continue to bless and keep all of you. I hadn’t spoken with J.T. is years but the times in highschool that we all shared were good times. I will keep you in my prayers.

ACHS Classmate

Auntie Althea E. Jones

April 6, 2006

To Delores E.Whitehead(J.T"s)loving mother,to Lisa W.Thomas(J.T's)loving sister,To Nana(J.T's)loving Grandmother.I always think about my Nephew and his humor always joking with us and making us laugh.We haven't stopped Jay we are filled with the great memories you gave us the family.I just want to share one special one if you please.I was at his mother's house for a brief stay and J.T was growing up then I had just come home from work and sat down to relax.He looked at me went in the kitchen came back and asked me Auntie are you going to cook me something to eat? I said no you are not my Husband.(Smile) he got on the phone and told Nana I wouldn't cook him some food.Well, she said why don't you cook the child something he's hungry.You should have seen the smile on his face when I put the phone down,he knew he was going to get my good cooking then.I want to say to the Family cherish every moment you have with your children life is sweet and short.I'am glad to be the great cook for Joseph Whitehead that day he was such a sweet Nephew no trouble at all.Now you rest in peace Jay.Love Auntie Athea E.Jones

Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)

April 6, 2006

Rest in peace at your last post in paradise.

Wanda Wims

April 5, 2006

Joseph (J.T.) as we so lovingly call him, although he was a lot of onlys' an only son to his mother, an only brother to his sister and my only nephew, he was a very BIG part of our family and he will be very greatly missed by us all. Take your rest Nephew. God Loves you best.

Yvonne Keene

April 4, 2006

To the Whitehead Family

You and your family have my deepest condolence.

IRIS BONET

April 3, 2006

I am so sorry for your lost my god your son in his new place in life as an angel.

Janet Mura

April 3, 2006

Dee and Family,

Somehow 36 years have gone by very quickly. Jim and I offer you our sincere condolences and our heart felt prayers. God does watch over the good and JT will be missed.

With love and warm regards,

Jim & Janet

Alicia Beckham

April 2, 2006

I would like to express my heart felt condolences to the Whitehead family. May God continue to bestow his richest blessings upon you during this time and always.

JILL CLARK

April 2, 2006

MY DEEPEST THOUGHTS GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. MAY GOD BLESS YALL.

Rodney Henderson

April 1, 2006

My Condolences goes out To You and your family from the Henderson's family

Aunt Althea&Uncle John Jones

April 1, 2006

To the Whitehead Family,we are greatly sorry for the lost of our Nephew. And we will always cherish his good humor and respect towards us.And we are praying for God to bless the Family with healing.We pray that his wife and 3 children be blesssed at this time of their lost.We Love and pray for the whole family. Auntie Althea and Uncle John

Dolores DiLeo

April 1, 2006

Dee,

My thoughts and heartfelt prayers go out to you and your family at this most tragic time. With deep and sincere sympathy.

Bernadette Cormier Savoy

April 1, 2006

To Dee, Lisa, Jackie, and JT's extended Family:

How saddened I was to hear of your loss. Though I cannot say I know what you are going through, I do offer my heartfelt sympathy. In such a distressing time as this, words are hard to come by to truly express our feelings, so I would like to invite you to open your Bibles to scriptures such as Psalm 55:22, Psalm 46:1, and 2Corinthians 1:3-7--these scriptures were a source of comfort to me during a distressful period in my life and I hope they will serve as a comfort to you also. May the God of all comfort be with you at this time.

Bernadette Cormier Savoy (stepsister)

April 1, 2006

To the Whitehead Family,

Prayerful thoughts are with each of you!



Wayne and Elaine(GA)

Malcolm Jones

April 1, 2006

To the entire Whitehead family, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I still can't believe that this has happened. I have had the pleasure of knowing "JT" for over 20 years. We lost contact over the years but God works in good ways. This has brought me closer to our good freind Tony Price.I promise not to drop the ball anymore in keeping in contact. Jay your frienship is a blessing and will be missed, but we will see each other again. My love and respect for you as a man and true friend is unconditional.



Malcolm

Stephanie Davis-Williams

April 1, 2006

To the wife, kids, and family of Joseph Whitehead, Your good days will always outweigh the bad, but through it all, God still has his hand in your life. And God is the only one that can give you the peace and comfort that you need. Continue to trust "him" and he will see you through. You will be a witness to others.

Ingrid Betancourt

April 1, 2006

Dee, my heart goes out to you and your family. May God’s grace fill your heart, ease your sorrow and give you strength during this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you, my good friend, and with your family in this moment of profound sadness.

Peace and Light always.

morris gilmore

April 1, 2006

he will be greatly missed but he sucessfully completed his last great test amun

Johnny Miller

April 1, 2006

To my little brother J.T. whom I, Betty (my wife), John (my son & J.T's. God-son), Jonay (my daughter) will miss dearly. Jay has been apart of my life for over twenty-five years. I love him and I will see him again. Without hesitation he has been a faithful friend. No one compares to his dedication. As his brother I promise to look after his family, mom, nana, and Lisa and her family. They are my family. Always! God Bless my brother until we meet again.



Johny Mill (Sparky)

anthony cogdell

March 31, 2006

god bless all

Linda & Barry Jones

March 31, 2006

Dear Sister Delores, Mother Evans, and Family:



Our deepest condolences, prayers, and love are with you during this most difficult time.



From your sister and brother in Christ from Second Baptist Church of Roselle, New Jersey

John & Martha Sandidge

March 31, 2006

To the Whitehead Family



We are deeply saddened by your loss. We will continue to pray your strength in the Lord. Your dear son, husband ,and father will live on in the memories of all those that he touched.

Darrell Orr

March 31, 2006

To the Whitehead family, mother and sister Lisa,

JT will surely be missed, but memories of him will live on forever. My most sincerest sympathy and prayers for his entire family.

Juanita Egoavil

March 31, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

May God bless each of you during your time of sorrow.

With Deepest Sympathy

Juanita Egoavil

Merilyn Thomas

March 31, 2006

My deepest sympathies go out to the entire family for your loss. My prayers are with you.

Jeanne Moss

March 31, 2006

My prayers go out to you and your family. I didn't know your loved one, but I heard about him through a good friend. Please accept my condolences and prayers.

Paul Pattwell

March 31, 2006

To The Whitehead Family,

Your profound sadness over the lost of Wali is truly shared by the Pattwell family, here in NJ. We will keep JT and the entire Whitehead family in our prayers and daily petitions.

May God bless and bring comfort to you all.

The Pattwell Family

Michele Cappetta

March 31, 2006

Delores,



Please accept my deepest sympathy in the tragic loss of your son. As a member of the Newark Public Library family, your personal loss affects us all. Stay strong and continue to have faith knowing that you raised a wonderful man who became a loving husband, father and son, and a respected member of the community. You and his family remain in our thoughts and prayers.

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