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Andrew Flamm Obituary

SOUTH THOMASTON - Andrew Flamm, an artist, polymath, loving and steadfast husband, peerless dog lover, and great friend to many, died Nov. 23, 2018, in his home in South Thomaston. He had just turned 51 the day before on Thanksgiving. He died with his wife, Michelle, by his side. Despite Andrew's heroic battle with cancer and his 14 months in remission, he passed away unexpectedly from complications following treatment.

From his early days growing up in New York City to his very last in Maine, Andrew was an exceptional artist who was not bound by material or medium. His early work as a painter, interpreted and transcribed landscapes into abstract symbols and patterns placed on vast plains of golden and earth-tone hues. His work was exhibited in Philadelphia, New York and Portland, ME.

Andrew's artistic process, aesthetics and habit of research steered him to have success in a number of interrelated disciplines, from mushroom foraging to collecting vernacular photography. He became a successful folk-art dealer in partnership with Michelle, running Odd Fellows Antiques, which specialized in the material culture of American Fraternal Organizations. Together, they traveled all over Maine and the country collecting Americana. This shared experience spawned their most recent collaborative project, Meeting Hall Maine, photographing the network of meeting, grange, Masonic, and Odd Fellows halls throughout the state. The project is ongoing and being shared on instagram on @meeting_hall_maine. The two met, in fact, in a former Odd Fellows Hall in Mount Vernon, ME, "He came to visit Michelle (who had a studio in the former hall), and he never left" is how Andrew's father describes their meeting.

The couple moved from Kennebec County to Knox County in 2008.

Above all, Andrew was a true bec fin, a man whose quest for the perfect lunch was legendary. In the kitchen, his code was one of rigorous simplicity, and led him into yet another career. Baking bread became his forte. His pursuit of his culinary ideals led him to cofound Maine Street Meats, an emporium of international and local food in Rockport. Along with meats and cheeses, the store featured bakery items made from his own recipes. Andrew's vision for the store was simple, create a shop where he would want to buy food, restoring the traditional value of craft to food purveying, and by creating a source for reliable quality for everyone.

Mediocre food chilled him spiritually. "Bad food makes me feel alone in the world," he remarked to Michelle at a restaurant that will remain nameless. Food should never make people feel alone, he believed. It's a basic form of communication, and like all intimate talk should never be done carelessly or without feeling. Michelle notes that Andrew really loved his customers and the community he served.

The skill that might best explain his social gift was his specialty of retraining and nurturing Staffordshire/Pit Bull terriers. Frequently misunderstood, these dogs require moral courage as well as consistency in their owners. Three dogs in succession graduated Andrew's training program, earning their places at the hearth (and sometimes on the bed).

Can a dog, or a loaf of bread, be the measure of a man? Andrew would be pleased, we think, to be judged by his stewardship of such daily and ancient necessities. His qualities redounded to the good of his friends, human and canine, who always had a place at his table and in his heart.

Andrew Flamm, born in New York City, graduated from Skidmore College, and loved living in Maine for the past 28 years. He will be deeply missed by his wife and life companion of twenty-three years, Michelle Hauser, and also by his parents, Susan and Gene, his brother, Douglas, his mother-in-law, Loretta, his sister and brother-in-law, Renée (Michelle's sister) and her husband Tom Schweinberg, his very best friend, Reet, and Lucy, his five-year-old Pit Bull.

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Published by Central Maine on Dec. 6, 2018.

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wendy boe

February 26, 2022

I was Andrew's best friend at RCS in the 7th grade. My name is Wendy Prives Boe. I send my love and belated condolences. I lobed Andrew so much xoxoxo

Tom M

December 16, 2018

How sad. While it's a long drive from Southport, I'd try to stop in to his shop every time I passed by. Andrew had an impish grin and a wealth of knowledge - and was a joy to know. May he rest in peace.

December 15, 2018

Our wonderful neighbors the Flamms were important friends as we grew up on Lake Waramaug, Connecticut. Andrew is remembered with great fondness -- his spirit, kindness, creative ideas of how we could get in trouble, and his serious side, too. We never knew he could cook! (We miss our dad's bread too.) With great sadness over this terrible loss, we send love to Susan, Gene, Doug and Michelle. the Paynters, Brad-Cameron-Nat and Sally

Ken Kohn

December 14, 2018

I was extremely saddened to learn of Andrew's death. Much too soon for a gifted man. Early in his, and Michele's, antiques show career, we realized our common interest in the symbolism and folk art qualities of fraternal objects. There had been some prior interest in Heart n' Hand staffs but most other material was ignored.

I will always remember their visit to my home with their dog who likewise enjoyed exploring my basement antiques storage areas.

Such efforts has brought these types of antiques into other's field of vision.

Jeffrey Kenneth Kohn, M.D. (With All Due Ceremony)

December 10, 2018

My sincere sympathies to the family may your memories bring you much joy and your prayers to God will bring you much comfort and strength. Romans 12:12

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December 7, 2018

Losing someone that we love never comes easy. It is a truly heartbreaking. May God's promises in Isaiah 65:17 comfort and help you.

Alan Williams

December 7, 2018

Michelle, I was shocked when at 2AM this morning I finally got to read the paper and discovered Andrew's obit! I had no idea about his health problems. What a truly fine human being Andrew was. I never saw him when he was not upbeat and smiling. I was very pleased to see you both in Mount Vernon at Pam's celebration. We have lost a very good man of which there are far too few. Donna and I send our sincere condolences.

December 6, 2018

I am sorry to read about the loss of your loved one. May reflecting on all the good times you've shared together help ease the pain you feel. May the God of all comfort strengthen you during this time of sadness. (Hosea 13:14)

December 5, 2018

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Reet

December 4, 2018

"Flamm", my best friend of 30+ years...there are no perfect words that can transcend or encapsulate the void that I feel or my sadness for your parents, Doug, your amazing partner, Michelle, and Lucy the pitbull. Though all has been forever altered, I have daily reminders of you in many small ways as well as the memories of cooking in CT, traveling in India, time spent in your incredibly messy art studio in Portland, pitbull socializing, similar clothing and cufflinks, and countless other moments. I'm lucky to have met you and grateful for our friendship these many years. I will miss you. love, Reet.

Sarah Vokey

December 3, 2018

Andrew was such a sweetheart. So caring and knowledgeable and willing to share is knowledge with those around him. I already miss his smile and his ready laughter. Michelle and to all his family, I am so sorry for your loss.

Kathleen Florance

December 3, 2018

My deepest and most heartfelt sympathies to all - especially to Michelle. His beautiful smile will be remembered by us all.

Judith & John Tydings

December 3, 2018

We were lucky enough to live next door to Andrew and Michelle in South Thomaston. We will miss and remember many things about Andrew including his sense of humor and his kindness. I'll never forget when I asked Andrew to look around our downstairs and give me any suggestions he might have about furniture he said "Lose the Chinese chair!" And I did. To Michelle and others who loved Andrew, there are no words. We lost a son to cancer, he was 43. One of my last conversations with Andrew we talked about that, and I asked if he wanted friends in our neighborhood, who asked me why Andrew was ill, to mention it was cancer, or did he want it kept private. He told me to spread the word. The more people knew about cancer, the better. So I'm fulfilling his wish. Rest in peace Andrew. Judith

Peta K

December 3, 2018

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Stacy Hollander

December 2, 2018

Andrew was a joyous spirit, open, curious, and bright. He is in my memory and all whose lives he graced.

December 2, 2018

I'm so sorry for your loss. As you remember your love one, may your treasured memories and Almighty God ease your pain and comfort your broken hearts. (Psalm 147:3)

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