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Matthew Cote Obituary

Matthew Joseph Cote
1984 - 2018
OAKLAND - Matthew Joseph Cote, 33, of Oakland passed away in his sleep at home on Saturday, May 5, 2018.
Matt was born on May 18, 1984, in Lewiston, the biological son of Eileen (McRae) Cote and Joseph "Dana" Cote.
Matt graduated from Messalonskee High School in 2003, where he was a high school football player. He attended Springfield College and recently returned to school to finish his degree.
Matt was passive, sweet, funny, and giving. He will be remembered for his hard work ethic, and provided with everything he had to support his family. He was always there to lend a hand for anyone. Matt was a production supervisor at Huhtamaki in Waterville at the time of his death, where he was a highly respected employee.
On Oct. 4, 2014, Matt married the love his life and soulmate, Jessica (Corson) Cote. His entire world revolved around his wife and his children who he adored beyond words, son Elijah (2-1/2) and baby daughter Emma (6 weeks). Matt was an amazing husband and father. Matt was especially proud of his brother, Josh Cote, fondly referred to as "Little Cote".
Matt enjoyed camping, fishing, kayaking, hunting, golfing, gaming, wrestling with Elijah and beer.
Matt was predeceased by his biological parents, Joseph and Eileen Cote; his sister, Heather Cote; and his brother, Zachary McRae.
Matt is survived by his wife, Jessie Cote, and their two children, Elijah and Emma, all of Oakland; his brother, Joshua Cote, wife April and niece Charley Loo of Clayton, N.C.; his parents, Michelle McRae and her partner, Pete Silva of Oakland and Michael McRae and his partner Sue Berube of Sabattus; his mother and father-in-law, Jeff and Rita Corson of Skowhegan; his sister-in-law, Nikki Pratt and husband Lee, niece and nephew Colby and Maci of Gorham; biologically cousins, Caitlyn Gallagher and Shaughnessy Robitaille were his little sisters; many aunts, uncles and cousins around the world and so, so many friends.
A celebration of life will be held on Friday, May 11, 2018, at American Legion Post 16, Rt. 201, Skowhegan, 1-4 p.m., Words of Remembrance at 2 p.m. Burial will be at a later date.
An online guestbook may be signed and memories shared at www.lawrybrothers.com
Arrangements are by Lawry Brothers-Wheeler, 26 Church St., Oakland, Maine.

In lieu of flowers,
donations may be sent to the:
Elijah and Emma Cote
Scholarship Fund
c/o Key Bank
305 Kennedy Memorial Drive
Waterville, ME 04901




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Published by Central Maine on May 9, 2018.

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Colby & Kathleen Atwood

May 13, 2018

Dear Mike, Michelle and Josh: We are still in shock since Mike's call telling us about Matt. Just don't expect our kids to die before us. We are so very sorry for your loss. Matt was a great kid and we're glad we got to know Matt, Josh and Zach while they were growing up. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Love, Colby, Kathy and Ken Atwood

Joshua Juskewitch

May 11, 2018

I didn't get to work with you to often but you will be missed. My condolences to your family.

Karen

May 11, 2018

To the family and friends of Matthew J Cote, please accept my condolences. May you find comfort knowing that those who died, God keeps them in his memory. And at Psalms 116:15 they are precious in his eyes

Angela Curtis

May 11, 2018

May god be with all of you at your time of grief...Matt you will be very missed...

Tom & Angela Holmes

May 11, 2018

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Lori & John Branam

May 9, 2018

Josh,
We are so sorry for the loss of your brother. You are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Roberta Farrington

May 9, 2018

Condolences and prayers to you all; Jessica, Elijah and Emma during this difficult time. Matt will be fondly remembered by many.

May 9, 2018

Offering condolences to the family. May the god of all comfort give you strength and peace through this difficult time. mc
Rom.15:33

Michelle & Arvid Robbins

May 9, 2018

Jessie & Family - Its beyond words how sorry we are for your loss. Keep those memories close for strength and comfort for you and your children. You have great support in your family..... you are loved.

With Sincere Sympathy

Susan Randall

May 9, 2018

Jessie, I am deeply and profoundly sad for your loss. With comfort and solace from friends and relatives, I hope and pray you gain strength each day. Matt was an angel on earth who cherished every moment with you, Elijah, and Emma. With love and peace, Sue

Kari Saucer

May 9, 2018

The Saucier family sends our thoughts to your family at this difficult time. Jessie, please let us know if we can be of any help.

Nancy Cote

May 9, 2018

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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