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January 9, 2015
We would like to offer our condolences to old GHS/family friends Bonnie, Anita, and Connie, and also to the newer members of the Hayes Family whom we have not had the pleasure of meeting. You have our prayers and best wishes.
Steve and Cheryl Cough of Seattle, WA.
Teresa Cough Rizzo
January 8, 2015
Dear Anita and Peter, I am very sorry to hear about Philip. I have warm memories of all of your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Stella and Bob Cordes
January 8, 2015
We have thought of you often these last few years as you dealt with Phil's illnesses. We will continue to think of you in the time ahead as you deal with this loss. Bless you and your family in this time of grieving.
Deborah Skehan Cerami
January 8, 2015
Dear Anita,
I am very sorry to hear of Philip's passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and the family. It certainly seems that Philip had a very positive impact on many people. May he rest in peace.
Piper Macleod
January 3, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss. He will be remembered.
Debra Cote
December 29, 2014
Connie, so sorry for your loss. I did not know your brother, but certainly understand your loss. May Gd bless you and your family in this sad time
Heather (Titcomb) Draper
December 28, 2014
Jon and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. I remember you and your family when you lived in Farmington , my family living on Mosher Hill. Your dad was the assistant principal at the Junior High and a social studies teacher when I was attending there. I also had the privilege of having your dad as a professor and advisor at UMF when I attended there as well(1994-1998). He was a great teacher and person. He will bedearly missed.
Erin Towns
December 26, 2014
Phil was a stellar professor of mine. I will never forget a lot of the lessons that he taught me. He knew his students well. There have been many times over my 15 year teaching career that his words have come into my head. He helped to prepare me really well for the profession. Gavin and my thoughts are with you and your family Bonnie.
Priscilla Skaalen (Curtis)
December 22, 2014
Bonnie, So sorry for Philip's passing...he was always such a kind and concerned person and helpful to others.....May God be with you thru this most difficult time......My Prayers are with you and the family....
Paula Moore
December 22, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss of such a wonderful beloved person. This is an especially hard time of year for this as well. Blessings and prayers for all his family. He was a cutie. Love, a classmate of GHS 1961, Paula
December 21, 2014
Dear Bonnie and Family
As I read Phil's obit I couldn't help reminisce about his days at GHS and Camp Belgrade as well as Boston. When I think of him during those teenage years, it's with a smile. His sense of humor was infectious. I have many fond memories
Obviously he had a successful career and with you raised a loving family. I offer my condolences to you all.
Bob Nason
Fitz
December 21, 2014
12-21-14 Not being an accomplished wordsmith it is difficult for me to express how much my friendship with Phil meant to us.For now I will just say for over 50 years he was my best friend and that friendship had so much influence on me.The moments we shared,the things we did ,the places we went I will cherish always.Thanks Phil for all the things to numerous to mention here you did for me.
Mary Jewett
December 21, 2014
Dear Anita:
I'm so glad your brother no longer suffers. You were very loyal to him and he was blessed by all family members. My sincere sympathy.
Patrick Heath
December 21, 2014
I was just telling my fiance about the class I took from Philip Hayes. The best class I ever took (history and philosophy of American education). She said to me u were lucky u had him as a teacher. I said back to her that we were lucky to have him. He may be gone but he will never be forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Karen Mathews
December 20, 2014
Anita, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers. Karen Mathews
December 20, 2014
Bonnie and Family; Sorry for your loss. We have great memories of Phil. 4th of July, Uncle Wiggly, clothes auction, and trips to the Dump. His passing leaves a large hole in our hearts.
Love, The Levers
Pamela Hayes
December 20, 2014
He was a great father-in-law to me and a beloved Doo Dah to our boys and to Sam and Emily. We will miss him.
December 20, 2014
Phil and I went to school together from
K - high school. We were friends.
We lived our lives, retired, and then
reunited at a high school reunion.
At that time we joined in improving
neglected properties. It was a great
time of life, we were healthy and
vigorous, and thoroughly enjoyed our
projects. We revived ten different
places together, and made a modest
profit on all.
On a particularly lovely little hunting
camp, Phil said, "I would work here for
nothing." Fortunately, that did not
happen. We made a few dollars!
Phil was an excellent partner. He was
creative and could make useful
attractive things out of nothing. He
recycled everything. He was never
wasteful.
They say, people who make other lives
better, make people smile and enjoy,
elevate situations to positive
experiences, are successful. By those
measures Philip Hayes was a great Man.
Bonnie and family, I hope all the fond
memories are a comforting monument of
Phil's life with you. He was very proud
of you all.
Tom Allen
Connie Hayes
December 20, 2014
As Phil's kid sister, I am sad to lose a brother who was always interested in my growth as a person. Since he was ten years older than me I has the sense of him having the role of another parent or uncle in my life. To Bonnie, Mark and Jon, and all others close to Phil know that Phil's exit has him at peace now and that you guided him there with much love. Thank you for loving my brother so well. Connie
Beverly Bisbee
December 20, 2014
Mark,
I'm sad for you and yours...and all of us. The world has lost a wonderful soul. What a grand educator! Compassionate, fair, and inspiring....
May wonderful memories surround you and bring you comfort. May your faith sustain you, and may you see him in your children's smile and in your teaching. Imagine him in SUNSHINE HEAVEN at the great banquet.
Sending love to you and yours!
Mary & Dick Pierce
December 20, 2014
Dear Bonnie and Anita, May Phil rest in PEACE! His life was lived well. He surely sees the face of God. Peace be with you also. Mary and Dick
Barbie MacDonald
December 20, 2014
So sorry to learn of the passing of Philip. What an amazing and accomplished man. Having grown up next door to the Hayes' on Dresden avenue in gardiner, I have many fond memories of the Hayes family. I'll be thinking of you during this difficult time. Barbie
Pat Carpenter
December 20, 2014
Bonnie and family,
I am so sorry to read about Phil's death. What a wonderful man he was; he will be missed. It was an honor to work with both of you when you established the Hayes Family Scholarship at UMF; what a great legacy!
My heart goes out to all of you during this difficult time.
Paul Vaillancourt
December 20, 2014
During my junior year at UMF, I was a student in Phil's Secondary Social Studies and Multicultural Education class. I learned a lot of interesting and useful information from him! As a teacher, he displayed a perfect balance of humor and seriousness. The last time I saw him was about 6 months after I graduated. I mentioned to him that I hadn't been hired for a teaching position, but that I had been hired as a tutor. He provided encouragement by telling me that this tutoring job would provide me with some very useful experience, and he was right! While I was a student at UMF, I worked in the Technical Services Dept. at Mantor Library, and Phil's wife, Bonnie, was in charge of the Circulation Dept. I would like to offer my condolences to her and the rest of the Hayes family.
A member of UMF's Class of 1999,
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