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Jennifer Roberts
August 28, 2024
Jennifer Roberts
August 28, 2024
Jennifer Roberts
August 28, 2024
Still miss you in 2024 brother. Mom´s gone now so I am alone in this vicious life. Please be my guardian angel I need you !!!
Jennifer Roberts
August 19, 2019
Griff Im still so very sad .
I love you with all my heart forever
Diana Nomikos-Katz
September 22, 2008
Dear Yvonne,
Although I did not know Griff, he sounds to have been an amazing man. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
With deep sympathy.
Peter Holmes
September 16, 2008
Griff & cows?? I have yet to understand the attraction, but that is an abiding memory.
What was really amazing, at the event to celebrate Griff's life on Saturday 13th, was the serendipitous falling of a tree at the exact moment that Peter Dunne, singing the Leonard Cohen song "Anthem", sang "there is a crack in everything, that's how the light gets in". It was very special, leaving no doubt that Griff was there.
I will miss Griff a great deal, as the only honest voice that always advised with equanimity.
Yvonne and Amy did a magnificent job of organizing the "celebration".
Griff you will be missed.
Jim Sternberg
September 14, 2008
Dear Griff:
I smile when I think of you-
your contagious humor always made me laugh.
I am wiser then I think of you-
your genius solved difficult problems and sparked innovation.
I hear music when I think of you-
your compositions and jams filled so many of us with moving artistry.
I feel warmer when I think of you-
your kind and generous nature made me feel our friendship was special.
I am enlightened when I think of you-
your spiritual awareness was inspirational.
I know the truth when I think of you-
your outspoken voice of honesty and integrity was refreshing.
I miss you when I think of you-
the time was too short and we have lost a special friend.
Jonah Kramer
September 14, 2008
I am deeply saddened by the news of Griff's passing and my warmest thoughts go out to his family and friends. Griff was one of my closest childhood friends when I lived in Lincoln, Massachusetts and I have many vivid, fond memories of us creating our own games, tinkering with electronics and taking trips to his house in New Hampshire. It is no surprise that we all know him for his warmth and his imagination and creativity as he had this passion at a young age. Our friendship was re-kindled after he and I moved out to California. Again I was always struck by his creativity, now focused on music, and his ingeneous and passionate ways of thinking about things, and people and life. I know that some of who I am today is because of my time with Griff and am so thankful that this incredible human being was part of my life. I am sorry I wasn't in touch with him more recently but am warmed to hear about all the incredible people he had in his life and am so thankful to Yvonne for contacting me. To Yvonne, Shirley, Richard, Jennifer and all of his friends, I share with you the sorrow of Griff's passing, but know that he lives on in all of our hearts.
Marie (Yvonne's BFF)
September 12, 2008
Griff loved my best friend Yvonne. Griff made her smile, laugh, learn, sing, calm, feel, and be truly happy. It was always nice to know she had an angel living with her, protecting her. Griff, you are the angel. And I know you are up in the clouds of Fairfax floating around checking on things. Thank you.
Jen Roberts
September 10, 2008
I am undergoimg hypnotism for weight-loss amongst other things. During my first session a big part of it was for me to find a safe and peaceful place to go to in my thoughts. Of all places I've ever been Griff's studio was my automatic subconsious choice. Grif and I would lay on his bumpy fouton and talk and talk on my last couple visits. there was something so magical about that space.so personal,harmonious and tranquil. 28 minutes later when I was no longer "under" my therapist asked had I chosen the ocean, forest,etc. I said no, it was my brothers studio. My second automatin thought had been Yvonne's garden but because humming birds stress me out that didn't make the cut. My therapist cracked up told me none of her patients have ever chosen an indoor space.Even before the renovation that studio was so special because it was so Griff. i wish I could pack the whole space up and bring it home.All of us shared that space with Griff so you all will understand what I am saying. So every Tuesday during my sessions I get to go to Griffy's studio and chill out, remember the smells, half-eaten Heath bars, Moses in and out, Grif ignoring the phone because when you were with Grif you were important. He didn't interrupt conversations by answering the phone.I have never had a truly safe place to go in my mind and I do now and I'm thrilled. My brother is the only person who ever told me I was an 'awesome mother". That meant the world to me. HE MEANT THE WORLD TO ME.
Ella (Danielle) Lauser
September 6, 2008
Griff was a friend who came into my family's life when we needed a friend most. His humor and warmth were unprecedented as was his collection of musical tools and tricks. He was like an uncle to me and was part of many dear memories. Aside from being taught the ways of Yuker and cribbage, we made wickedly wild and wacky sounds in his homespun studio back on Eastman Lane where I discovered I had a voice. He will be missed and like all of you, I am grateful for the time he did share as it was beyond time well spent. Blessings and love.
September 5, 2008
Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.
David Lauser
September 4, 2008
Dear Griff,
I must say, I was very shocked and sad to hear of your untimely passing. I regret that we parted ways in such an abrupt manner...you will be missed.
You were a light in the storm for me at a time when life was pretty bleak...I'll never forget your kindness and generosity.
Also, those great card games and impromptu meals! ;-)
Your friend,
David
Jennifer Roberts
September 3, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, ""I welcome you.""
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......""My day was not in vain.""
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Tristan Roberts Huisingh
September 3, 2008
Uncle Griffy was the coolest Uncle in the whole wide world. I'm glad he gave me and Bryan our first guitars and his favorite tee shirts. I really loved Uncle Griffy and will never forget my trip to Cal to visit, my first plane ride, first canoe ride and playinging fun games in their cool house..and Moses.Love always, tristan
Bryan Huisingh
September 3, 2008
I love the tee shirts Aunt Yvonne gave us . I am wearing Griffy's guitar shirt today and thinking about him. Uncle Griffy was my favorite Uncle and Yvonne my favorite Aunt. I am praying for my Uncle Griffy to hurry to Jesus
Papa stones
September 2, 2008
Griff, I didn't know how much of the sky you were holding up.
Rest well brother.
Mr Curtis Bundy
September 2, 2008
ynonne, Jen , Mr Roberts and Mrs Franchi please accept my deepest sympathy.
Gayle , Jen's BFF Henniker
September 2, 2008
I met Grif several times, am old pals with Jennifer.She spoke of him often always bragging about his cooking, music and beautiful, amazing wife Yvonne. Have seen pictures and know how deeply in love he was with his wife. My deepest sympathy to the whole family. My husband Doug passed 8 years ago, a musician also and I know they're destined to jam and laugh together.
Melissa Selig
August 30, 2008
Yvonne- I love you sweetie and am so sad for you but know that Griff is in peace. Please know that I am thinking of you often and even though I can't be there in person I am there in heart and look forward to being able to have some time together to just sit and hear stories about Griff. He is a better person for having you in his life and you for having him.
Kathy&Wayne Harper
August 27, 2008
Griff will be forever by your side. The two of you danced, hugged, grew, and shared more together than most. We are thankful we were included in a small part of all that joy. We too shall miss Griff being on this earth, sharing his wit, his music and cat toys.
Know you are part of our love.
Hill taylor
August 27, 2008
Oh, so sad to hear of Griffs death.
My thoughts are with you all. I have great childhood memories of Griff. Very funny.
I send you all lots of love and will do a walk in the woods with him in my thoughts.
Take good care, Hill
Jessica Lagala
August 25, 2008
Griff you will never be forgotten - you're wit, humor and kindness are everlasting.
Stephanie Welsh
August 25, 2008
Yvonne:
Know that although I'm not close by, I'm thinking of you and sending positive energy for both you and Griff as you each begin a new journey. I love you.
Steph
Vicki Williamson
August 25, 2008
Griff, You will be missed on this side. God has called one of his best angels home.
Yvonne, You are in my prayers.
Michael Hodges
August 25, 2008
Griff, A great neighbor, the music was never too loud. You will be missed. Be at peace.
Jessica Norsworthy
August 25, 2008
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
August 24, 2008
Since moving back to California, we've gotten to know Griff better than we ever had the chance to do before. We loved having Yvonne and Griff at our Thanksgiving feasts. The games with Griff and the cousins were always the most fun. We'll never forget the night that Griff cooked us a fabulous meal. He was gone for a moment and then returned in this chef's jacket--so good, so fun! We will miss him, but every time we have kebabs or play Apples to Apples, we well remember our fun times together.
Uncle Tom and Aunt Leanne
Vik C.
August 24, 2008
What a beautiful tribute. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Yvonne.
love, Vik and Mark
Amy Heibel
August 23, 2008
Griff, you made me listen, laugh and look at familiar things in a new way. Peace in the ever-after. We will remember the love and compassion you showed us while you were here.
Glenn Hughes
August 23, 2008
Griff was like a brother to me. We hit the road together in his car in our teens, packing our musical belongings in the back, and heading off for adventure. Many hours of playing music, arguing, and exploring we had. A couple years later, we lived in a condo in Danbury CT. Cash-poor, we collected cans and bottles to scrape together money for food and beer, calling ourselves "The Condominium Bums." In our late teens we lived together, with other friends, in Hadley MA. A group of teenagers trying to set up house-keeping... What were we thinking!? In many ways, these years were the richest of my life, through many twists and turns, hardships and fun, we won a sense of ourselves and of life, that is rare. When Griff moved to California in the late 1980s, we lost touch with each other, at least externally... but, some connections can never be broken, not by space, time, or even the end of life. I love you Griff, friend, brother, mentor... be well, and loved, keep exploring, wherever you may go.
Grant Richardson
August 23, 2008
I didn't know you well Griff but you made an indelible impression on me the first time we met. You and Yvonne and Ginny and I eating breakfast on top of a hill in Sausolito just above that church on a sunday morning. What a breathtaking view. Breathtaking would be how you approached life i think. Drawing in a little bit of every sensation you experienced and sharing them with others you met along the trail of life. Then storing that away and applying it to your creative soul. I am certain you are one of a kind.
Breakfast is on me the next time we meet. Grant.
Stephanie W.
August 23, 2008
Our thoughts are with you and your family during this time of loss and transition. Know that you are loved.
Stephanie and Bob
Debra Sue Johnson
August 23, 2008
Dearest Yvonne,
You are in my heart and thoughts for peace.
OOXX
Deb
Eric van der Hoeven
August 23, 2008
Griff, You will be remembered by your colleagues for the warm, caring man you were to all of us. We will never forget your direct and razor sharped wit. When I look up at the sky, I smile, knowing they have surely gained some spark up there! Take care my friend..
Michele Martin
August 23, 2008
What a beautiful tribute to a truly amazing person. (I had forgotten about his fondness for root beer!) I am thinking of Griff every day...his smile, his humor, his warmth...and sending love to his family.
December 2007 with dear friends
Yvonne Roberts
August 23, 2008
I love you Griff and will hold you forever close in my heart. Thank you for the amazing warmth you continue to shower over me and those around me. As you frequently reminded me not to worry and said, "always something new."
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