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STEVEN HENDERSON Obituary

Steven Paul Henderson Age 65 years old, Auburn, CA, went to be with our Lord on Thursday, March 1st, 2012. He died suddenly at his new home in Auburn. Steve was born May 11th, 1946, in Washington, D.C. to Kenneth and Elizabeth "Betty" Henderson. Steve married Cindy Stratton on July 11, 1986 in Desert Hot Springs, CA. They celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary last year. He earned his Bachelor's degree from Muskingum College, Ohio; Master of Divinity from Golden Baptist Gate Theological, Mill Valley, CA; and Doctor of Ministry from Fuller Theological Seminary, Pasadena, CA. He spent 15 years working with K-Mart in various capacities, then left that career to go to Seminary to prepare for Christian Ministry. He served as Assistant Pastor to Rev. Kent Philpott at Miller Avenue Baptist Church, in Mill Valley, CA, then came to serve as the Senior Pastor of Lucas Valley Community Church, San Rafael, CA in 1987 where he continued until his retirement on February 26, 2012. Steve loved to golf, ski, and walk his beloved dog, Scottie. In his younger years he was a wrestler and quite the musician in a band in college, where he sang and played the guitar and did the same on the church's Praise Team for many years. Steve currently served on the boards of Watoto Wenye Nguvu, Kenya, and The Open Table, Phoenix, Arizona. Steve started many ministries at Lucas Valley Community Church and community focused programs. He brought the Divorce Recovery Workshop to LVCC in 1995 and that program still runs today. He brought GriefShare to the church/community a few years ago, which helps those through the loss of a loved one. He and Jeff Nichols coordinated efforts to start the Marin Co. R.E.S.T. (Rotating Emergency Shelter) program for the homeless and it's been running for three years now. He was actively involved with the Marin Cursillo Movement, which he loved. His most recent venture was to assist folks out of poverty one by one through The Open Table program based in Phoenix, AZ. He traveled to the Ukraine to teach a Bible class in the mid 90's, took two tour groups to Israel, and visited two orphanages in Mexico City, Mexico to see how the church could help. People loved him for his care, compassion, sensitivity, hard work, dedication and most of all, faithfully leading by example and vulnerability as he experienced God's grace in his own life. Steve is survived by his wife, Cindy Henderson of Auburn, CA, daughters Julie Park and her husband, Troy, from American Canyon, CA, Jamie Henderson, Bakersfield, CA, and step-daughters Jennifer Guinn and her husband, Rick, from Fairfield, CA, Melanie Stratton, from San Rafael, CA, and their grandchildren: Samantha Guinn, Cooper and Logan Park, and Emilie and Madelyn Dorkin, his sister Lynn Henderson of Connecticut, and nieces/nephews: Heidi Henderson, Ken and Jennifer Rosen, Tom Henderson and his wife, Jennifer. He is preceded in death by his parents, Kenneth and Elizabeth Henderson, and brother, Scott Henderson. A memorial service open to everyone will be held on Saturday, March 10th at 1:00PM at the New Life Christian Center, 1370 So. Novato Blvd., Novato, CA 94947. Contributions in memory of Steve can be made to the Missions programs at Lucas Valley Community Church, 2000 Las Gallinas Ave., San Rafael, CA 94903. He was so loved and will be missed dearly. See you in heaven, Steve.

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Published by Marin Independent Journal from Mar. 8 to Mar. 10, 2012.

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Kathy Wiedt fullen

December 28, 2024

Steve was a wonderful boyfriend of mine. He lived next-door to my grandmother. We went to the same high school and he was spiritual and kind always he played the guitar and we could sing together. The song I think was love one another.
Love you, Steve
Kathy

Jamie Wright

June 16, 2020

Im missing you, Daddy. You were the most amazing man. I hope to continue your legacy of grace. You would LOVE how beautiful all six of your grandchildren are! They remember you and cherish the time that they had. I have written six childrens books, four of which have been published.
I just miss you.... wanted to tell you that your legacy lives on.

Jamie Wright

March 20, 2019

My sweet daddy,
Its been SEVEN YEARS without your hugs. I remember everything about you; your love for others, the grace that you modeled daily and most of all, the way that you loved our Jesus.
Thank you for being my dad. Thank you for the lessons taught and for never giving up on the power of grace.
I remember one time, we were on a family excursion and you stopped to shake a homeless mans hand. You asked him what his name was, gave him some money and just chatted with him for a bit. Memories like this, will always be in my heart. You made everyone feel like a treasure. But daddy, YOU WERE MY TREASURE! And Im thankful... and Im honored, to continue your legacy of light. To shine the love of Jesus EVERYWHERE that I go. ❤
See you in heaven, my Daddy.... Guatemala......

Me, Pastor, and Cindy at VBS

Jeff Overby

March 29, 2012

Pastor Steve invited our church (First Baptist, Hendersonville, TN) out to LVCC to do Vacation Bible School for the community children. It was a great experiance and a chance to make new friends, share God's promises, and love others. My family will never forget those two weeks and Pastor Steve's kindness toward us. He will be missed.

Joan Johnson

March 16, 2012

Blessings to Cindy and the Henderson Family. We were so fortunate to know them when our Son Todd Berg attended Lucas Valley Church. My Dear Friend Cindy I will be seeing you during Easter Week - Will be in CA and leaving the AZ Desert.
In Christ Jesus Our Savior!!

Gmeiner Family

March 13, 2012

To The Henderson Family, Although we were not members of Lucas Valley Community Church we are forever grateful for Pastor Steve's kindness during our fathers passing. Your neighbors,

Pastor Steve Dedicates our first child 10 years ago

Melanie Bafford

March 12, 2012

We met Cindy and Steve 15 years ago when we were looking for a church home. They welcomed us with open arms. Steve married us and dedicated both our children. He was a gentle, caring and grace filled man. He was a large part of our lives together and an on-going inspiration. We miss you and will miss our times together. Welcome Home Steve - we love you.
Sean and Melanie Bafford

Karen & Wally Boswell

March 11, 2012

We will forever miss you when there are get togethers, but will look upwards to you knowing your with the lord, and know you're keeping tabs on us.

Jeanie Shelton

March 10, 2012

We met Pastor Steve & Cindy through our Daughter Sydney. During our visits to LVCC Steve welcomed us and all visitors with a big smile & warm handshake. So sorry for your loss. Ron & Jean Shelton

Patrick Lucrezio

March 10, 2012

My condolences on Paster Steve's passing. I am so glad that I was able to get back to Lucas Valley to see him at his last service. He will be missed but he is home.

Mary Jean & Bob Boyden

March 9, 2012

Our heartfelt condolences to Cindy and all Steve's family. He was the spiritual "door opener" for my children and shared his caring heart with them and many others. I know his memory will continue to bring comfort and inspiration to many people.
May you rest in peace, Steve.

Clare Bauer

March 9, 2012

Pastor Steve was a man who did not shoot wounded soldiers. Instead, he took the in and nursed them to health! You will be miss here

Barbara Douglas

March 9, 2012

Pastor Steve was a caring, compassionate minister. I met Pastor Steve thru my grandson Terrell Douglas-Bland and The Open Table program. My sincere condolences to Mrs. Henderson and family.

Greg Mackie

March 9, 2012

Pastor Steve was a great teacher of faith which could be applied to our every day lives. His father like friendship was warm and sincere. He helped me through low points and encouraged my personal growth, for which I will be forever grateful.

Dave Dumont

March 9, 2012

Dear Steve,
Thank you for helping me to become the brother in christ I am today.

Robert Hirni

March 9, 2012

Steve was one of the wonderful people. I am grateful that I got to know him, even if it was usually while attending a committee meeting.

Geri McMurray

March 9, 2012

I still cannot believe that you have gone to be with the Lord. Tomorrow we will not say good-bye, we will say see you later. You will be missed down here. Say hello to my dad<3

John & Katie Pidge

March 8, 2012

Dear Steve,
Thank you for sharing your life with my wife and I. From the premarital counseling, then performing our ceremony, to the night playing Settlers of Catan at your place. You truly helped plant my feet in the Lord. You will be missed here on this earth. Our prayers are with your family.

Diane Sampson

March 8, 2012

My heart aches for Cindy, who was an incredibly loving spouse to Steve, as he was to her. Steve is happy and at peace now, but he has left behind many people who loved him with all of their hearts. We will support each other as we grieve the loss of his physical presence. Rest in the arms of Jesus, dear brother.

Michael Ham

March 8, 2012

We went to Lucas Valley Church for many years. Steve was a nice friend and a great guy. He was easy to talk to, caring and insightful. We went on trips to his cabin in Tahoe and worked together as the church grew. Steve drew on many personal experiences in creating his sermons and stories which were always enjoyable. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Cindy, his daughters and the rest of the extended family.

Cordie Traber

March 8, 2012

There are no words to express the shock and grief of Steve's passing. He will be missed. But to know he is with our LORD and that we'll see him again is a great comfort to his family and all of us at Lucas Valley Community Church.

Jennifer Guinn

March 8, 2012

Retire in peace, my Papa. I know you will enjoy yourself more in Heaven, than anywhere else imaginable, but you will be missed greatly. You were the best Papa I could have ever asked for. Thank you for being you! We love you - always and forever.

March 8, 2012

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