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Bethany Shaffer Obituary
Bethany Louise (Chomitzky) Shaffer, age 33 of Little Elm, TX passed away on January 10, 2013 at her home. She was born on February 25, 1979 in Allentown, PA to Ellen L. Lantzy and David Y. Chomitzky. She worked in retail as an Assistant Store Manager. Survivors: Bethany is survived by her son, Brandon Shaffer of Little Elm, TX; father, David Chomitzy and Ellen Ward of Little Elm, TX; two step-sisters, Erin Gruver Huff and her husband, Tom of State College, PA, Briana OConnell and her husband, Dr. Bryan of Glenside, PA; grandmother, Joan Lantzy of East Greenville, PA; and several aunts, uncles, nieces and nephews. Bethany is preceded in death by her mother, Ellen L. Chomitzky. Services: A Funeral Service was held at Rejoice Lutheran Church, 12000 Independence Parkway, Frisco, TX 75034, on Monday, January 14, 2013 at 10:30 a.m. with Pastor Peter Rupprecht officiating. A visitation was held one hour prior to the funeral service. To convey condolences or to sign an online registry, please visit www.tjmfuneral.com.
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for Bethany Shaffer
Wendy Knutsen-Hess
January 9, 2022
I miss your smile, your energy and always thinking about Brandon. You were our neighbor for such a short time but we became friends quickly. I will never forget the sleep overs Brandon had with my boys. He would wake up early and say he needed to see his Mom. Miss you.
Joan & Art Wolfe
January 9, 2021
I can hardly believe that so many years has passed since I last talked to you. I still can't believe you are gone. So many memories from March of Dimes WalkAmerica's and Haunted Houses to Northampton CC basketball. Rest in Peace Bethany say a prayer for us.
February 9, 2013
My guess is that this will be the last entry in your book. Bethany, I love you always have since the first time I saw your tiny little face when you were born and I will until the end of my time. You were the twinkle in my eyes. You are my incredible little girl. Heaven must be just a little brighter having you there. I love you. Daddy
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Kristy Emberger (O'Connor)
February 2, 2013
I'm so sad for the loss of Bethany. She was such a great person and a good friend growing up. We had lots of laughs, and that's what I'll always remember about her-she had the greatest laugh. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and child, and I'll always remember her vivacious spirit.
Donna Jany
January 21, 2013
To the Chomitzky family,
My sincere sympathy to you. I got to know Bethany when she was in the marching band with my children in high school. I would also see her at BB&B and Buy Buy Baby. She was a wonderful, bubbly, beautiful woman who will be missed terribly. May you find peace in your heart that she is watching over all of you, and may Bethany have eternal and everlasting peace. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Ray and Fran Barner
January 19, 2013
Dear Dave and Family, We were so sorry to hear about Bethany. Every time we went into BBB, she was there to greet us with a great big smile. She was a beautiful young woman. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during such a difficult time. God Bless.
Ron and Lisa George
January 18, 2013
Dave and family,
We knew Beth through our daughters and what a delightful young woman she was. Her son was the light of her life. We were always happy to see her and Brandon when they would stop by to say hello. Our deepest condolences are with you and Brandon.
Dave & Debbie (Steigerwalt) Jones
January 17, 2013
I've been struggling with what to write since hearing of your tragic loss of Bethany - words just don't seem adequate. May God give you comfort and peace. You are in our thoughts & prayers.
Pat & Ishie Abraham
January 16, 2013
Dave, I pray that Bethany's precious little boy will help to give you peace and comfort. You will be in my prayers.
Joyce Henry
January 16, 2013
Sorry to hear about your tragic loss of Beth! Bethany was a Awesome person and could light up the room with her high energy and grace! We became great friend and basketball teammate at NCC! Beth Thanks You for the great memories!You will be missed!!
Kim Schlonecker
January 16, 2013
So sorry for your loss. I played basketball with Bethany and enjoyed playing with her. She will be missed. Praying for you all.
Tara Smith-Mutarelli
January 16, 2013
Dave,Briana,Erin and Brandon~
I am so sorry for your loss. Bethany was a beautiful young woman who touched so many lives. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family during your time of need. May angels watch over you and always keep her close to your heart with all the memories you all shared together.
Sincerely,
Tara Smith-Mutarelli
January 16, 2013
Dear Dave & Family - So sorry to hear of your terrible loss. Cherish her son Brandon and know that Bethany and her Mom will be helping you with every step. Our thoughts & prayers are with you all in this very difficult time. Fondly, Liz & George Kane
Alice & Ray Dankel
January 16, 2013
Dave and Family, We remember Bethany being in the band with our daughter Anita and having to load all the equipment on the truck. Our thoughts and prayer are with you all.
Sue (Litsch) Kapun
January 16, 2013
Dear Dave and family,
Although it's been years since we have seen each other, I feel your loss as if you still lived next door to me. Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family. We will keep you in our prayers.
January 15, 2013
Condolences to the family and may Beth be an angel to forever watch over her young son. Her life tragically taken far too soon.
Noreen Miller
January 15, 2013
To the Chomitzky Family, We just want to let you know we have been thinking of you and so upset about what happened to Bethany. We remember her as a sweet young girl who lived up the street and came to our house to visit and play with our kids. May God give you the strength you will need to get through the next few months. Noreen, Bruce, Josh, Heather and Jairus Miller
January 15, 2013
Dear David and family
We are devastated in learning of Bethany's tragic death. Please know we feel your sorrow.
Cousin Jack and Judi Tockston
cathy bretzius
January 15, 2013
i would just like to pay my respects to the family and bethany my heart goes out for you rip sweetheart and god bless
Wendy Knutsen-Hess
January 15, 2013
We are very sad at the loss of our good friend. May God take care of her and give strength to her family. We hope Brandon will have many wonderful memories of his Mom and know she loved him very much.
Lois and Jack McAllister
January 15, 2013
Dave, Erin and Brianna
So sorry for your loss. You all were such a lovely family. Our prayers go out to your family.
God bless you
Lois and Jack and families
joan john
January 15, 2013
may u rest in gods loving arms. may he look over your family and that beautiful baby may u find peace at this difficult time. praying for you all. the john family
January 15, 2013
Brianna and family,'
so sorry for this to happen, prayers go with you all , mrs Dove
Matina Oswald Rabert
January 15, 2013
Dear David and Family,
My heart and prayers go out to you and family. I remember Bethany in my second grade Sunday School Class at St. John's. She always had a sweet smile and a happy face. With deepest sympathy,
jerry helfrich
January 15, 2013
dave: very sorry to hear of your loss.
Holly Miller - Dolan
January 15, 2013
Dave, Erin, and Briana
My heart goes out to you. This is such a horrible tragedy. I was so sad when I heard the news. My prayers are with you always. God Bless and take care.
Joan Wolfe
January 15, 2013
Dave,
We were so saddened to learn of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We have many fond memories of Bethany from March of Dimes to her playing on NCC's basketball team. She was a pleasure to coach.
Joan & Art Wolfe
Lisa Luciano
January 15, 2013
I knew Bethany from BBV. So sorry for your tragic loss. Brandon and the entire family and friends are in my prayers.
Christine Groh-Gicking
January 15, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this most difficult time.
karen kuhn
January 15, 2013
Dear Erin,
Roberta P shared this tragic news with me this morning and my heart aches for you and your family. There are no words to take away sadness when you lose someone you love. I simply wish you all strength and comfort in the days ahead.
Judith Cohen-Roberts
January 15, 2013
I was so sorry to learn of your loss,Erin, and our entire family sends our deepest sympathies to you and your family in its time of grief.
Tracy Bortz
January 15, 2013
Dave, Erin and Brianna.. My prayers ansd thoughts go out to you. The loss of Bethany is a tragedy. She was a wonderful woman, friend and mother She will be greatly missed.
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