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Justin Hilbert Obituary
Justin H. Hilbert, 14, of Emmaus, died May 26, 2006 in Lehigh Valley Hospital of complications from surgery. Born in Allentown, he was the son of Robert P. and Joan M. (Eisenhard) Hilbert. He was an 8th grade student at Eyer Middle School. He was a member of St. Johns U.C.C., Emmaus. Survivors: Mother; father; Brother, Kyle E. Hilbert; sister, Ashley K. Hilbert, both at home; paternal grandfather, Kenneth D. Hilbert Jr. of Emmaus; maternal grandmother, Doris A. (Gower) Eisenhard; maternal aunts and uncles, Bonnie and Carl Lagler, Robert and Sandy Eisenhard and James Eisenhard; paternal aunts and uncles, Lori and John Warmkessel Jr., Kenneth D. Hilbert III, Pam and Jim Kercher; 12 cousins. Justin will be sadly missed by his family and friends, especially Beci and Chris. Services: 2 p.m. Wednesday, May 31, 2006 in St. Johns U.C.C., 139 North Fourth Street, Emmaus. Friends may call noon-2 p.m. in the church. Interment in St. Pauls Cemetery, Trexlertown. Schantz Funeral Home, Inc., Emmaus, is in charge of arrangements. Contributions: may be made in Justins memory to the funeral home to help the family during their time of need.
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Abbi
May 26, 2024
R.I.p Justin
Never forget you.
I'll always miss you.
You will never be forgotten. You'll Always be missed.<br /> this is for you,see you tomorrow. From..Abbi
abbi kratzer
June 30, 2017
You'll always be missed justin. This is for you. Ill see you tomorrow rain or shine because you still matter to me. Love you justin as a friend.
abbi kratzer
April 24, 2017
I remember you after all these years. I still have the note book i made of you.it hit me really hard.for days i couldnt stop crying. I think of you often. At my times of depression you were the only one that made me smile. Its werid how my son was born on may 26th. I guess god and you wanted me to be happy . I remember all the little things too like in school you drew pictures whiling doing math, or in fcs you put lemon juice in your hair or purposly said things like meatballs in a werid voice. Justin thank you for that one dream. Made me really felt how you felt before it happened. I will always miss you justin you truely are a speical funny person.
Cassandra n Diane Gaumer/Krier
September 24, 2015
We always remember him. I still remember the good old kickball days at Lenepe Park.
Joan Hilbert
September 23, 2015
It's been a few years since I read the condolences on Justin's guestbook. The pain his death and the impact it made on his family and friends has brought so many feelings to my heart. The tears flow. I don't know if anyone will read this but know if you do you are special to us. I know there are so many people that still think about Justin. If you do he is truly in your heart. He was an amazing son. If you knew him you were loved by him.
Holly
June 5, 2010
Critter:
I miss you more than words can describe. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you. I love you.
Jessica Klein
January 29, 2010
Well, I have been thinking about Justin a lot. I have been searching for his myspaces and tried to look for Joan's myspace or anything just so I can get in contact with you. Gabby and I want to come visit you. We were planning on going to the cemetary to visit Justin's grave. It's going to be exceptionally hard because I have not been there since the funeral. It's going to be one of the hardest things to do in my life. But I just want him to know that I'm thinking about him. There's not a day that I go without thinking of him. He's always in my thoughts. He's in a better place and I know that he is always watching over us. I'm not sure what else to say anymore, but please email me or call me. [email protected] or 484-538-9186
Melissa Hoch
July 7, 2008
Hilbert's:
Today i don't know why i have just been thinking about justin. I came to my e-mail and i got an update about people signing the guestbook. And i just went back and read all the stuff that everyone has written. It makes me very sad to read all of this knowing that he is gone. I really miss him. He was a very great person and a wonderful friend. I would seem him at the pool once in a while when i would go. and i could always count on him for a very great laugh. He was the best person i had ever met in my life. Next school year he would be a junior like the rest of us and it is very hard thinking and knowing he has not gotten to experience high school at all. He is in my thoughts and still deep and held close in my heart. You and your family are still held dear to. Best wishes and much love.
LOVE
Melissa hoch
Sandy Eisenhard
April 22, 2008
My prayers are with you and your family.
Melissa HOch
April 21, 2008
Hi i just wanted to say that it is really sad coming here and revisiting all that has happened. I miss justin, it is sad going through highschool knowing that he didn't even make it there. This all makes me so sad.
I hope that you guys get through all that is going on in your lives right now. Please know you have all my prayers with you.
Love always
Melissa Hoch
Joan Hilbert
April 13, 2008
I don't know if anyone even comes to Justin's guest book anymore. I just had to update anyone who cares. We continue to try to go on. It hasnt been very easy though. Ashley continues to suffer from hives... It has been since November 10, 2007. It is a daily problem. She takes 3 medicines a day to keep them at bay. We have seen many doctors and had endless bloodwork. They have tested her for cancer and more. We are going in for a new series of tests this week. Kyle will be going to Childrens Hospital in the next 2 weeks for a biopsy to diagnos Celiac disease. Ashley and I have it. He has lost 40 + pounds in the past 6 months. The Gluten free diet is going to be especially difficult for him. Being Autistic he only has a handfull of foods he eats. All of which contain wheat. It will be hard for him because he knows what his favorite foods taste like. Ashley doesnt remember because she was 3 when she was diagnosed. I dont have a problem the thought of wheat makes me remember the horror of my life with gluten.
It is a rough life Bob and I live. Our 21st anniversary is April 18. The past 2 years have been so terrible I dont find anniverseries pleasant anymore.
Bob spends his weekends improving a home we dont own. We hoped to purchase our mothers home but there is no money. We are having the same trouble like everyone else just filling our gas tank.
I think I am having the toughest time with our loss. My heart aches for Justin. I think of him 24 hours a day. I cant sleep. I wish I couldnt eat. I cry too much. I never thought I would make it this long without him. He was my life.
Melissa Hoch
November 19, 2007
Hi Hilbert's
It is so sad to know that it will be almost 2 years since Justin died in less then a month. I miss him deeply and going threw highschool knowing that he didn't get to experience it at all is very hard. I am so sorry still for your loss and i am so sorry for the problems that you have been dealing with. I hope Ashley gets better. You still have my sympathy and dearest thoughts.
Forever
Melissa Hoch
Joan Hilbert
November 17, 2007
Our lives continue to be challenged. In the midst of our greif our little Ashley has had to test Justins wings. She has had severe hives since last Saturday. We spent hours in the Emergency room twice this week while her little body swelled and the itching has been unbearable. She has tried numerous medicines to bring the pain and itching to a halt. She is doing a bit better but just when Bob and I feel confident she is doing better the hives turn her red and blotchy and so uncomforatable. As a mother I feel helpless. We have been taxed mentally, Physically and financially. But as long as I can see her truely smile at us it is all worth it. Both Kyle and Ashley have moved to a new step in their grieving process. They both now feel their loss and pain. It is hard as a parent to see but it a step toward a new life. One we dont want but are forced to live. I thank all of those who dont turn away from us and stop to say hello. Kyle is now 14. It isnt easy to face that age and not compare him to Justin. I never have been able to do that due to Kyle's developmental delays. But kyle has grown physically and I chuckle to think of Justin's reaction to Kyle being bigger than he. We miss him We love him ALWAYS......
Lynn Knauss
September 15, 2007
Hi Joan,
I just read your message in Justins guest book. I think of you OFTEN! My heart aches for you , no one or nothing will ever take that pain away. He was your baby and always will be. You know where to reach me , I will always be here for you. I am so glad to hear that you are going to compassionate friends, that is so wonderful to know that you have people that have gone through the loss of a child and can relate to all the emotions that you are going through. PLEASE call me Joan. Love Lynn
Joan Hilbert
September 10, 2007
The kids are back to school. Life moves on. My pain is so deep. I miss the child I gave birth to. His smile his humor his heart full of love. Thank god for the compassionate friends. We meet once a month to vent the pain we feel in our lives every day. Only a parent who has lost a child can relate to the life we now have. Family and friends tip toe around us and never bring up our children. My greatest fear is the thought that Justin has been erased. I see his face day and night with my eyes open or closed. Oh how I miss him. How can I feel whole and support my husbamd and children when I grieve so.........
Betsy
May 11, 2007
Justin-Thank you for watchin over Beci last week. We knew that you were with us.
patty kehs
February 5, 2007
Joan and family,
It has been a while, but you know you are always in my thoughts. Justin will always be in our thoughts. He will be always missed by all who's lives he touched. I can still see him standing on my front porch with that big smile on his face looking at me and saying you know you love me Mrs. K and I would say yea Justin you know I do.
Mary Dreisbach
January 7, 2007
Hi Hilbert Family,
I was thinking of Justin and decided to write in the book. He is in our thoughts everyday, Mine and Steven's especially...Steven made a really neat black t-shirt with Justins pictue on the front...He wears it on all occasions that are Justin related. I think it makes him feel closer to him. Every time we go to Wal-mart. I think of the kids running up the HUGE snow piles :-)),going to the electronics dept. and at that time DREAMING of getting cell phones. Every time we pass the corner of Cedar Crest Blvd. and Briarwood Rd. I think of the time Joan took the guys out for a drive cause they were bored and just wanted to go somewhere...I guess as the story goes...they stopped and investigated this little old run down shack...I guess all they found was abunch of junk and a really big hole that they, in thier boyish imaginations maybe was an opening to another world. Well I was just thinking aout it and thought I'd write it down...We miss you J...and though we can't see you...you are never far from us.
Lauren Kammerer
December 22, 2006
you were very much remembered today in spirit. I am so sorry you could not see your 15th birthday. you will always be very missed.
Jes Klein
December 22, 2006
Today is Justin's 15th birthday, and today did not feel right at all today, I just wanted to tell you that I am still thinking about you and your family.
Love always
Jes Klein
Mary Dreisbach
December 22, 2006
Dear Joan, Bob, Kyle , and Ashley,
We're thinking of you guys today, Justin's 15th birthday. Though he is not physically with us...He is definitly with us in thought and spirit, and He will forever be carried with us in our hearts. Your family is in our prayers today and every day. We Love you guys and will be celebrating Justins Birthday with you today in spirit...and I'm sure that when you send those balloons up to him in heaven He and all God's children will be celebrating his birthday too. God bless you all!!
Joan Hilbert
December 17, 2006
My beautiful child would have been 15 on December 22. Justin loved his birthday. We always tryed to make it a special day even though it was three days before christmas We loved to decorate the house with red and green balloons that filled the house until after christmas. It is our hope that his headstone will be in place by then. We plan on spending time on Friday at his resting place and leaving red and green ballons go up to heaven in memory of our boy. We all miss him so much it hurts. Real pain that will never go away.
Jes Klein
November 3, 2006
i heard about how they had put a tree up for justin and i really want to go see it, it is just really hard thinking that wow, he's gone and how much i wish he could come back to life, but it isn't going to happen and that's what makes me so sad everyday, and people look at me and always see me as a very depressed person but some of them don't know what had happened and that's what make's me so sad. I miss Justin so much, I really wish he could come back but I know it won't happen, I miss him so much, he was always fun to be around, I miss him, please email me at [email protected] your always in my heart love always
Jes Klein
Melissa Hoch
October 30, 2006
this is the first time in a while that i am writing in here. I really miss justin i wish that i would see him in school but i know i can't because he is gone.he would've been in one of my classes he would've been in my homeroom and that would've been great. I tried to make it to the tree memorial in emmaus on sunday but i couldn't and if i would've gone i would've cried so hard with knowing and facing the fact again that he is really gone and none of us are ever gonna see him again i really miss him if you and your family ever need anything e-mail me @ [email protected]
pam kercher
October 29, 2006
This is my first time writing in justin's book. It's been so hard thinking about all that has happened that writing hasn't been a possibility. But..last night I went to DORNEY with Ashley and she rode STEEL FORCE for the very first time. I remember taking justin to dorney when he was younger, and ashley had the same reactions as justin. She was afraid to go on the very intimidating ride but finally we got her on and she LOVED IT. Justin was the same way. He was so cautious with everything he did and he was always so generous and loving. I miss him so much it hurts. Just writing this is putting such a weight on my heart. Last night I was riding in the front row of TALON and the whole ride I kept thinking "Justin~here we go..hold on" It was so exhilerating. I truly felt his presence with me last night. LIfe has been changed so much for me the last few years, I just keep thinking I have to take it day by day. Spending time with all of my nieces and nephews makes my life happier. They are all so loved I hope they all realize how much they are loved ALWAYS.
Joan Hilbert
October 26, 2006
I miss his smile. I miss his hugs.I miss the humor and fun. I miss his presence in our lives. I keep looking for the answer WHY. My heart aches....The Emmaus Youth Association is dedicating a tree in his honor on Sunday October 29 at 12:00 at the Williams street playground. As my love for my son grows so will the tree that will be forever a sign that life goes on. Please if you can share your memories of Justin so I can give this guestbook to my children to remember the happy times. To forever hold Justin in our hearts.
Diane Frederick
October 15, 2006
Joan, there is no better mom than u were and are. You amazed me how u always had Justin and his friends with u all the time. Most parents are pushing there kids out the door. You on the other hand, always had Justin and his group of friends in the van with u. That is amazing that a teenage boy would want to hang out with his friends with his mom!!! That shows u what kind of mom u are.... i always was amazed how u were just always together with his friends,,,, that thats right where u wanted to be! If only we all could have that bond with our kids like you. I cant even begin to imagine the void u have in your lives..... but u know im here for u always,,,,,,day or night,,, our door is always open to u,,,,u know that,,,,,,
we will never forget jus....never,,,,
matt and mike will not either....
love u always....ur my best friend forever....my forever friend XOXOXO
Lynn Knauss
October 11, 2006
Joan and Family,
I want to let you know there is not a day that passes that I do not think of you and all the sorrow and hurt you are feeling. You are such a wonderful person and your life was shattered. We will always love you and keep you in our thoughts and prayers. I am always here for you no matter if you need someone to cry, talk or just someone to share your emotions or feelings with.
steve dreisbach
September 20, 2006
It is now September 20th 2006, and everyone is concentrating on school, and sports, and other activities. Well I am not everyone. I printed out a picture of him, and put it in a frame, for when i miss him, I just look at the picture. I am wishing that he was still here, to make me happy, to make everyone happy, especially beci. she is very lonely in school without him. lord please bless beci with your power, to help her gain back happiness...
steve dreisbach
September 2, 2006
i can barely mow my nannas lawn, cuz i stepp into his old yard, and i get the chills ya kno.... and i get the tears in my eyes, of all the good times we had together... ya kno... life moves on, but i have not, hilberts, i love them dearly, and if ya reading this then im sayin im here for ya alwayz and forever.... love,
steve
Sandy Eisenhard
August 23, 2006
Dear Joan, My heart is sad for you.I pray for you always. Love, Sandy
Joan Hilbert
August 23, 2006
Hello all,
Everyone is winding down their summer and getting ready for school. This is just another time for me to miss my son more. My heart is empty. I dont know how to go on without my baby. Justin was a large part of my life. I miss him every hour of every day. Ashley does to we all do. I miss his loving caring heart. His hugs. The love in his eyes. Our life has changed and we still havent figured out how to start over.
Our friends and family treat us different. Nobody knows what to say. We dont either. We will never understand why our world was turned upside down. The black cloud continues.....
Jessie Klein
August 15, 2006
Well another day has passed and i am missing Justin alot. Its not going to feel the same the first day of school. I really wish I could see him walking down hall. Its going to be different that is really want I want to say. Its hard to know that something like this would happen. I was in such shock when I found out what had happened. I didnt know wat to do or say or even how to react to it. Well I said what I needed to say. And If you have anymore to say to me please email me at [email protected]
Love Always,
Jess
Robin, Matt & Mark Wieder
August 14, 2006
Bob, Joan & family,
I didn't know Justin except for seeing him at a birthday party at Bryandon's house. He was a very nice and polite young boy and you could be proud of him. I can't even imagine what you are going thought because that is every parents worst fear. May you find comfort in knowing that he is with God now and he will take good care of him. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
May god bless,
patty kehs
July 25, 2006
Joan, I just wanted to thank you for all the time you take to still make Ellen feel welcome in your home and your lives. We talk about Justin everyday and miss him very much. Just thinking of his smile makes us smile. You know we are here for you if you ever need anything.
Luv,
The Kehs family
Diane Coleman
July 24, 2006
The Hilbert's,
Just wanted to let you know that I think of you often. I can only imagine how hard each day is for you. I do check his guest book from time to time and I smile at the impact that Justin had on all the people he came into contact with. You should be proud! It's ashame that more people are not like your son. Take care and stay strong.
Melissa Hoch
July 21, 2006
It is now like july 21st and not a day goes by where i don't think about justin last night all i could think about was all the times in school we were together and how he made me laugh it just won't be the same next year going to high school without him knowing he isn't here i miss him so much!!!!
rose kraft
July 19, 2006
i should have wrote along time ago but never got the chance. Last night i was up for hours looking at justin's picture and just cried. i wasnt that good of friends with him this year but last year i was friends with beci and him. i miss him so much even though we didnt talk. just being around him made me smile. he was a wonderful person. the thing that helps me remember him the most is when i went to goodwill with my dad. i walked in and was talking to my dad for a minute then justin walks up with his eyes closed and an umbrella acting like he was blind. he went up to an older lady and asked where the bathroom was. that was the first time he talked to me since last year and the last time he talked to me. he always knew how to make people smile and thats what i loved about him.sometimes i wish this wasnt real and its just a big joke and justins really fine. then i relize hes really gone and i just cry for hours. he welcomed me when i came to eyer in 7th and i moved at the end of this year. i would like to go to his grave but since i moved i dont know when ill make it back up there. i will always remember justin hilbert and i will see him again one day
Emily Becker
July 18, 2006
i never met justin, but i learned from Diane Fredrek that he was a wonderful person. i belive that if i had gotten to know him that, well i would've been his friend. Diane said that one day, when he came to her house (since i lived just down the street and went there almost everyday) that i would meet him someday. and someday i will, it just wont be at Dianes house, it will be in the house of the lord. you are still in my prayers.
steven dreisbach
July 13, 2006
at church on last sunday, the one kid in there mark laube, said something about a kid at his camp thingy wich his father died, and it made me feel like sad because of justin dying, and i started crying out in tears, and really sad... this one girl ( yay ) tryed to cheer me up, then she got mrs. laube to get me to go pray on my knees, and i didnt know how to but it helped me a little bit... i just wanted to tell you about that... much love
steve
Bob Hilbert
July 12, 2006
Well its now July 12 only 16 days to the opening of Eagles Training at Lehigh it will not be the same going with out Justin. We would go early in the morning and stop at the Hellertown McDonalds for breakfast and then head over to training camp to get any freebies that were to be gotten maybe buy a somthing from the gift shop and then spend three hours watching practice and then try and get autographs of some of the players as they walked off the field. So this year Ashley and I will go instead to keep the tradition alive and to remember how much Justin loved to go to training camp. Its going to be real hard to go but Ashley and I will still go.
Steven Dreisbach
June 26, 2006
all of our memories of childhood and teen age yrs, will stay in our hearts... the one memory dat will always stay in mah heart is wen he tought me how to flirt and meet da ladies... i am listinin to slipknot right now at this very moment ( surprising )lol... but ne wayz, good times ridin round A-town, shoppin everywhere, fallin out of your tree, runnin into your trees, getting injured off dat lil jump infront of your driveway, havin sleepovers like practically everynite... those were the good times... not lettin him talk to beci wen he was ova and i was on da fone wit her, yelling at him, and making him sad, hurting him and his family, ditching him before 5 o clock, these were the only bad things taht i remember about me and his childhood and teen age memories... still keeping them in mah heart and always will be... Bre custodio and Corinne custodio, wished dat they coodve been at the funeral, becauze justin made them laugh and was halarious, and they are wishing you still to heal faster then you thought... people dat new i was frends wit justin, came up to me and sed " we are keepin his family in our prayers, in youth groop, they are keepin you in their prayers.... everyone dat you kno and dont kno love you guys so much, and shood be proud of it, so dont let all of this sympathy and sorrow build up inside of you...
love,
steven dreisbach a.k.a big dude, sed
betsy mohr
June 24, 2006
joan
slowly we are healing, little by little. there are pictures of justin laying all around the house. i see him and think how he was such a funny, and happy kid. i see chris and beci trying to stay strong, but everyday is hard for them. they talk alot about the funny things that justin did and we laugh. but silently we are fighting our heartache. we miss him so much. i can't imagine how eveyday you have to go through so many emotions, and try to stay strong. i am at a loss for words. love you
Bob Hilbert
June 24, 2006
One day while fishing at furnace dam with Justin. Justin was goofing off and got his line tangled on the wires but was able to get it off while he was getting untangled I was bringing in a sunny then my rod bent in half as I reeled it in out of the water came a large mouth bass it then spit my sunny out. When justin saw that he decided that he was going to use the next sunny as bait. Which happened soon then he started casting the poor fish out and reel it back in for about twenty minutes just trying to catch that bass with no luck.
That is what Justin, Ashley and Kyle and I would do on Saterdays before I would have to go to work.
It is so hard to go fishing with out Justin.
Lori Warmkessel
June 21, 2006
Justin I think of you all the time. I find so much fonfort in reading everything everybody writes about you. But the thing I read the most is the Poem that someone wrote in your book and that you are doing okay and that we will meet again. Life is not easy without you and I know you know that your family loves you so much. I don't think I will every forget the first time I went shopping with your mom and you and your bud Chris was along, you drove me nuts. Then when your mom dropped me off to pickup my car from getting tires and you guys were shooting that dart gun at me, you guys were to much. Well this year Chelsea's b-day party will not be the same , but you know we all are always thinking of you.
Joan,Bob,
I know there are any words to confort you but you know I am always there for you, and I love you guys so much. I am so glad that someone anonymously maintained the book for a year. So don't you forget that you can always call me and I will always try to do what ever I can for you.
Melissa Hoch
June 20, 2006
Everyday i go by thinking that i will see justin somewhere but it's just my memory thinking of him i really wish he was back. I am going to go to dorney on friday and ride steelforce for him cuz i know he loved that ride. I want to visit his grave sometime and that is gonna be soon. You are in my thoughts and prayers still and will always be until the day we all see justin again.
Please e-mail me sometime @ [email protected]
Joan Hilbert
June 18, 2006
Well another rough day coming to an end. Fathers day marks a day of loss for us. We had a nice day. But my thoughts of Justin were so strong. Watching Kyle and Ashley with their cousins and knowing that Justin was missing was just to much for me. Justin would have loved a swim in Kristens pool. I miss my boy so much it hurts.
I want to thank all of you for your thoughts and prayers. We still keep reading the guest book. And thanks to an anonymous kind soul. We have another year to have Justins guest book online. So keep your memories and thoughts coming in this will be a great way of keeping that wonderful kid alive in our hearts.
steve dreisbach
June 17, 2006
dear joan and bob and lil ash and kyle,
i am still gettin ova his death, and that is y i am goin to church. so i can get my spirit and ur spirit back to normal. as u guys kno already that i am here for u, either itz yard work, movin furniture, or goin shoppin, im here up the road a lil bit, or juss a fone call away... sleep well, or have a nice and relaxin day... love,
steve
Bob Hilbert
June 15, 2006
The memoires every one is sharing are wonderfull. One of Justin's favorite things to do was ride Steel Force at Dorney. There was one time when we were their with Joans one Friend who son Mike is autistic he and Justin both loved riding Steel Force together. When i would ride with Mike he would just laugh the whole ride but when him and Justin where to gether Justin would get mike to raise is hands the whole way and Mike would laugh leaven harder. We new that when Mike was with Justin everything was fine he acted like he was Mikes's big brother. Thank's for all the memories everyone and please keep writing more memories for us in this book.
Diane Krier
June 12, 2006
Joan & Bob And Family,
I just wanted to let you know that I and my Grandchildren visited Justin's grave today...we were thinking of him over the wkend and wanted to drop by and see him to let him know he was in our thoughts and that he will be always...Hope you are all surviving well and to let you know I am here for you...Take care....Diane,Cassandra,Brandon & Dyann
Diane Krier
June 8, 2006
Joan & Bob,
I just wanted to let you know that you and your family as well as Justin are in my thoughts daily. Know that you all are cared about very much. I come to read this book everyday, as some parents lose a child in many different ways,You know my situation and this is why I say this...Take care and know that I am always here for you.
Rachel Meadows
June 8, 2006
Dear Joan, Bob, little Ashley and Kyle,
(Joan & Ashley) I have known you for a short while from preschool acquaintances and live just up the block from you. I would like to extend my deepest sympathy in your time of need. I know the great pain you are experiencing as I have lost my sister many years ago quite suddenly too. May you always take comfort in your family and many friends who share Justin's great memories. As we all may do at this time to try to search for the right words to say to you, I think this poem written below is absolutely beautiful and says it all. Take one day at a time and don't be afraid to accept the support from all these great people. God Bless you all!
Betsy Mohr
June 8, 2006
Dear Joan & Bob-
I think about you every day. I hear the phone ring and i think it's Justin calling Beci, or when I come home from work, & think I will see him and Beci at the computer, as they both go "Hi Mom". But it's just me hoping. There is such a void in our lives, because Justin was so much a part of "everyday life". I cry for my pain, your pain, and Beci, Chris & CJ's pain. He was so full of great things & not afraid to live life. What a wonderul reflection on you, that he was such a wonderful person. So loving & caring. I miss him so much, he was my "other child". I am touched by the kind words of many who barely knew him, but were compelled to tell you they really liked him, from their limited encounters with him. I am always here for you, & I love you.
Michele Gehris/Sanchez
June 7, 2006
Bobby & Family,
It's been a lot of years since I've even seen or spoken to you, but the loss of a child hits the heart. Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Diane Bachman
June 7, 2006
Joan and Bobby: I just wanted you all to know you continue to be in my thoughts daily. I check this guest book just about every day and am so happy to see that people are still writing in to let you know they are here for you. Justin is and will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. With love to you all. Bundi
Lora Feinberg
June 7, 2006
I did not know Justin but I have heard about him through my daughter and Justin's Aunt Lori. I have seen in previous entries that you read the guest book daily and I am sure you find some comfort in knowing how much Justin was loved and how greatly he will be missed. From another young man's guest book I read a poem that I thought was very touching and true and I wanted to share this with you and your family incase you didnt read it yourself. God bless.
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2005
Nikki Henry
June 6, 2006
Hilbert Family,
My name is Nikki Henry. I am involved in EYA basketball. I did not know Justin, but have heard many wonderful things about him and your family from others in the organization. I feel your pain so deeply. I've worked with many families who have lost a child. There is NO greater anguish, but please don't think of a child lost, but an angel gained. Always keep your eyes, ears, and hearts open and you WILL see him again, often! When you notice things that may seem odd or out of place, the wind suddenly changes, or an ornament falls off the Christmas tree...take those moments to let Justin know that you know he's there. Kyle and Ashley now have a guardian angel that loves and cares more than any other could. Please take comfort in that. Live and love everyday and smile as much as you can. He will smile with you as he always has.
Alissa Baker
June 6, 2006
To the Hilbert Family,
I know there are no words to take away your pain. Take comfort in the memories you have of your son. He will always be with you in your hearts. If there is anything that I can do for you, please don't hesitate to ask. You and your loved ones are in my thoughts and prayers.
Tom & Steph Fenstermacher
June 6, 2006
Dear Bob, Joan and Family,
It's been years since we've worked together Bob, but some days when the memories hit, it feels like yesterday. The Justin we remember is still only 5 years old! We want you to know that your family is in our thoughts. Our hearts go out to you during this difficult time.
Tim & Bridget Reinert
June 6, 2006
Joan, Bob and family,
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you.
Fran Scheetz
June 6, 2006
Dear Hilbert Family,
My sons, Brent and Arick, knew Justin. I am so very sorry for your terrible loss. I pray somehow you all find strength to carry you through each day without your beloved child. There are truly no words for the loss of one's child. Many are praying for you, and for your Justin.
Brianna Gessner
June 5, 2006
Dear Hilbert Family,
You may not have any idea who I am, but my little sister [Alyssa Gessner] was real good friends with Justin, and I knew him as well when I was younger, as he would always visit and hang out with the kids in my old neighborhood. I had the pleasure of hanging out with him back in the day. Although I haven't gotten to see him in quite some time, I will always remember him. Justin had a great personality and an extraordinary spirit. He was just such an awesome kid, and it makes me so sad that he's missing.
I know how hard it is to lose someone you love with all of your heart. I've lost several loved ones, and a best friend. I feel there is nothing in the world I would not give up to see them again, and although I know I never will, their memory lives on in my mind forever. Justin truly was an awesome kid, I can't even express to you in words my sorrow for this loss. If you ever need anything at all, feel free to contact me. Justin is in heaven now, watching after us all.. never lose faith in that. God be with you.
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Joan Hilbert
June 3, 2006
Well our family made it through another day without our loved Justin. Today is Ashleys birthday. She is now 7. Her only wish today was to have her brother back. We got her a new Barbie bike. It is our hope that she learn to ride 2 wheels this summer. It will be hard without Justin's motivation. But she can do it for her big big brother. I hope he will guide her as she petals her tiny feet.
God bless all....
Bella and Jenna Estrada and Robert
June 2, 2006
I'm really sorry for you loss Justin will never be forgotten. I didn't really know justin but i used to always see him and beci walking together in the halls and he was so nice.
<3
Amber Hinkle
June 2, 2006
im sorry for your loss!
take care
James Krier
June 2, 2006
Joan & Bob and Family,
I am truely sorry for your lost. Justin was a great kid...I remember all the times I would watch him play kickball and how he helped Kyle and my granddaughter and how he just made the team a happy one with his smile and laughter ...and boy could he kick that ball !!! I am greatful that I got to know him and you Bob and Joan...My prayers are with you all.
Katie Bernhard
June 2, 2006
Joan, Bob, Ashley and Kyle. I just wanted to see how everything is going. I still can not believe Justin isnt here. If you or anyone needs anything, please let us know. Email me back and let me know how you are doing. [email protected]
Devon Wentz
June 1, 2006
Dear Hilbert Family,
I just wanted to say I am very sorry for your loss we all loved Justin and I know i wasnt a close friend or anything but we will all miss him very much. No matter what he was always happy and you could never get the smile off his face.
Gabby Crouthamel
June 1, 2006
Hilbert Family,
You said to tell a good memory that we had with Justin, well a good memory that i had is the bus ride! He would sit with me everyday and in the morning when everybody was still a little bit sleepy, he and I would be talking and laughing, we would be the loudest ones on the bus. I miss not having him sit with me anymore, the bus ride is quiet and nobody is talking. Another memory I had with him is Trick-Or-Treat night, my friend Chelsey Wilfinger and I were passing out candy and listening to music and the type of music we were listening to wasnt Justins type of music, so he shut it off when we werent looking so as Chelsey and I were trying to turn it back on he stole some candy *i didnt care* but as he was walking away with Beci and Steve I yelled "you owe me candy!" and the next day in homeroom he brought me some. he was really nice 2 do that but he didnt have 2, I miss him so much. I've known him as long as I can remember and its weird to know hes not there anymore. Me and my family are right up the street if you need anything. like babysittin or something, anything....
Tami Fenstermaker
June 1, 2006
Bob and Joan,
I don't know how to express my deepest sorrow to you and your family. I wish I knew the proper things to say or do. I can only tell you that you are thought about daily and are in my prayers. Justin had a contagious smile. Toni just adored him. She told me he was always happy and stuck up for her many times. He will be greatly missed.
Melissa Hoch
June 1, 2006
Mr and Mrs Hilbert,
I remember the first time i met justin i think it was in school or at the pool and it was just so fun because we would always laugh and talk about things and just goof off and i will miss that much this year with him i missed him being in my pod this year and not being able to see him often and i am deeply sorry for ur loss and i hope we can all get through this i know i cried so much yesterday and today even i will always miss him i even dedicated a wall in my bedroom to him.. I loved him as a friend and love you and bless your family rite now. HOPE to get through this ruff time.
JUSTIN,
i will miss you so much and i know we will all see you again someday and be together but till that wish you much luv ya
Lynn Knauss
June 1, 2006
Dear Joan, Bob and Family,
I am so sorry for your great loss of Justin. He sure was a great kid and has a great family who loved him deeply. No words can make you feel better or take the hurting away. You have alot of people to love and support you. We are all here for you whenever you need someone to talk to or whatever you may need. My heart aches for you! Love Lynn, Kerry and Derek
Joan Hilbert
June 1, 2006
Well we made it through Justins funeral. Thank you to all who came to say goodbye to him. We are so amazed at the turnout. I just wanted to say thank you for your thoughts prayers and contributions to his funeral expenses. We read this guestbook daily and appreciate everyone letting us know that they share our sorrow and fond memories. My son loved life, his family, our pets, his friends. Ginger our dog is deeply depressed right now. Everytime someone walks in the door she is there looking for him. We all miss him. If you have any stories to share we would love to read them.
Justin loved cereal. When he wanted a snack it would be a mixing bowl of cereal. His favorite snack was doughnuts and Dr. Pepper.
Audrey Garges
June 1, 2006
Joan,Bobby,Kyle, and Ashley,
I am so sorry that I did not make it to Justin's funeral. I just wanted to let you know that you were thought about alot.(I know you probably already know this)I just wanted to let you know this again. It is funny when I think of you guys I still remember when the boys were little and how many toys you would bring with you to the family reunions. It is hard to believe how old our children are now. Love always, Audrey ,Will and boys
Glenn and Shelly Schlegel
June 1, 2006
bob,joan and family
there are no words that i can say (or write) to ease your pain. i am truly sorry that you have to endure this. i remember justin as a little boy at company picnics full of happiness. i remember how he would wave goodbye to me and say "bye glenn" and i would gladly wave back saying "bye justin". i always knew he was a terrific kid, friendly and warm. i heard stories from bob about youth soccer and other sports. later those conversations turned to music and amusement parks. as justin grew up i felt as if i was growing up with him. he went from baby to child to teenager right before my eyes. i spoke to bob in the last few days and did my best to express how i felt. as i struggled for words to console bob, bob told me that "justin always liked you". here i was trying to help comfort bob (and his family) and bob was comforting me. i just want you to know the feeling was more than mutual, i will miss your son. god bless.
after all these years we have become more than just coworkers. our (shelly and i) thoughts and prayers go with you in your time of need.
lucas wolk
May 31, 2006
Dear Hilbert Family....
I just wanted to tell you how deeply sorry i am. Your son was loved so much and it is so hard to let him go. Even though i wasnt a really good friend of justin i will still miss him dearly...and so will many other people. Once again i am sooooo sorry for your loss but i just wanted to let you know how much everyone loved justin.
love,
Lucas Wolk
[email protected]
Meredith McNelis
May 31, 2006
Justin, you are in my thoughts and prayers. May peace be with you. I know someday I will see you again. I miss you.
Mr. and Mrs. Hilbert, I am very sorry for your loss. I remember the first time I met him, it was in art class and we were paired as partners we became somewhat friends. Even though I only know him from that he will be in my thoughts and prayers. He will never be forgotten.
Lizzie Reichard
May 31, 2006
Justin you are missed so much. You were the one who made silly jokes in homeroom. Who always made me laugh about stupid stuff. I've known you since 1st grade. It's so hard knowing you are gone.. There's an emptiness inside that can't be cured. I still can't believe you're gone..
Hilbert Family..
I'm very sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you are going through. The only way you can get through this is to remember the good times with Justin and don't think about him being gone. He's in a better place now. Take Care..all of you.
Nick Sell
May 31, 2006
Dear Mr+Mrs. Hilbert
Im sorry for the loss we'll all miss him =*(**
Mike, Kim, Mike and Kenny Kotch
May 31, 2006
Dear Hilbert Family,
We were so sorry to hear the loss of your wonderful son Justin. Words cannot express how difficult this must be for your family.
I remember several years ago Kenny and Justin spent alot of time together. Kenny really enjoyed playing with Justin.
We will always be here for you if you need anything. You are all in our prayers.
Love,
Mike Kim Mike and Kenny Kotch
erika
May 31, 2006
so sorry to hear of your recent loss. always remember to pray for strength in your time of need. may god bless you and your family.
Ashley mohr
May 31, 2006
To the Hilbert family
Iam so deeply sorry for your loss. iam chris mohrs sister when i heard about justin being in the hospital with the bad news my heart dropped. i was wit my boyfriend at the time i went straight home and i sat wit chris crying. he would tell me that they were like brothers. he also cares about beci and wants to look out for her. i never saw my brother as happy as he was hangn out wit justin. he would always tell me how much fun he had. again iam sorry for your loss. justin will always be loved and nevr forgotn
Ann & Bill Pedrick (Nicole's parents)
May 31, 2006
To the entire Hilbert Family: Our sincere sympathies to you in the passing of your beloved son, Justin. I didnt know Justin, but Nicole kept me informed every day of his status in the hospital. Our hearts go out to you at this time of grief.
Marcella & Brianna O'Sullivan
May 31, 2006
To the Hilbert family;
We live near you and my daughter Brianna is at school with Kyle and brought home the heartbreaking news yesterday. Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you during this painful time and we will keep you and Justin in our thoughts and prayers.
Bryandon Johnston
May 31, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Bryandon Johnston
May 31, 2006
Dear joan and bob it's bryandon just wanted to help you get through this Justin was a great friend and was always there if you needed him. he and i have split over time but i just wanted to say how sorry i am for your loss it's a loss to all of us
Gweltas1 ( Anne) Kennedy Truscott
May 31, 2006
May God bless and console you in this time of sorrow and give you the strength and courage to get through this incredibly awful time. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
randy moyer
May 30, 2006
He is loved more than words can tell.
So sorry
Suzy Zurecka
May 30, 2006
Dear Justin's Loved Ones,
I have known Justin since elementary school and still remember when sitting next to him in 2nd grade, he could always make me smile. And when we moved on to middle school, I would frequently see him in the halls. I know that there are no words to express your grief, and that nothing anyone can say or do will help make the pain go away. Justin is in our thoughts and prayers now and will always be remembered.
Cathy,Bob and boys Elliott
May 30, 2006
Rest in peace Justin, You are with the angels now! Our deepest sympathies to Justin's family.. God Bless
Melissa Hoch
May 30, 2006
Long lost of a friend and dearest class mate i will miss him and you are in my thoughts during this hard time and i think i only met you once but i wil always remember you guys justin was one of my close friends he always made me laugh. I will be there tommorrow to support you and everyone cuz i will need support to justin was so cool and i will miss him alot and i hope you and the rest of your family can get through this hard time. See you Soon
Sue Reppert
May 30, 2006
Dear Hilbert Family,
While I don't know you personally, we are sending our deepest sympathy for your loss. Our son, Jaeden, rides the school bus with Kyle.
Sincerely,
The Reppert Family -
Bob, Sue, Jaeden and Jakob
Dylan Moyer
May 30, 2006
Dear Hilbert family,
I am very sorry for your loss. I remember all the great times we had together when we played soccer together. Also the Victory Valley Bible camp. Justin is one of the coolest easy going kids I knew. Now without Justin Language Arts class is going to be pretty boring. And every other class we might of had together. Once again I am really sorry for your loss.
chris Mohr
May 30, 2006
To the hilbert fam
Justin was everything to me he wasnt a freind he wasnt my best freind he was my brother and he will allways be missed by beci and me i will allways have a place in my heart for him he was the only reason i woke up in the morning knowing i would sleep over on the weekends and knowing i would have a good meal from his mom that was a second one to me I will remember all the good memories with the scooters and eating donuts and drinking docter pepper
Dawn R
May 30, 2006
Dearest Hilbert Family,
I have never met you or Justin, but I want to offer my sincere condolences. He was a very beautiful boy, who I can tell was greatly loved by many people. It's so VERY hard to lose a child, and I know that mere words can't take away the pain. Please know that Justin will always be close to you,and even though you can't see him physically you will feel his love for you. When I was in first grade I had a dear friend who passed away from a brain tumor, at age six. Today fifty years later I can still see his face as clearly as I did then, his curly blonde hair and blue eyes, I can hear his laughter and see him playing on the swings. I feel he has been close to me all these many years, at times I actually think he's standing beside me, and I tell him that he will never be forgotten, and I am so glad to have had him in my life, I wouldn't have traded those memories for anything. I guess I will never understand why children have to be taken so young, but I do know that their love lives on, and you will feel that love forever and ever.
Claudia Risi
May 30, 2006
Dear Hilbert Family:
We live up the street from you and our daughter goes to Macungie with Kyle and brought the news home to us today of your profound loss. We are truly sorry and can't imagine losing a child. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. May God bless you and Justin.
Chris, Claudia, Allie and Gabriela Risi
Cassandra Gaumer
May 30, 2006
Joan,Bob,Kyle and Ashly,
Please know that I will miss Justin and will always remember the kickball games where Justin and Kyle and I were on the same team,and how I use to play with Ashley when she was little. I am thinking of you all and sayin a prayer for you too...I now have another angel watching over me.
Diane Krier
May 30, 2006
Joan & Bob And Family,
Please except our deepest sympathy at this time. I was schocked to see this in the paper as I just saw Bob at the Upper Milford picnic...I have known you guys since my grandaughter Cassandra went to school with Kyle and Justin,and played on the same kickball team for U.M. Youth Assc. Cassandra often said how she would pass Justin in the halls at Eyer,and always liked him for making her laugh when they played on the same team...Know that our prayers are with you always and that you will always have your memories to comfort you...
Nicole Swartley
May 30, 2006
i know you are in a time of grief but you need to know that Justin is in a much better place now. He may not be here in person but you know he will always be in your hearts forever. You will see him again in the future. I am very sorry for this loss. Just think of all of the good memories with him and think of how he is now in heaven looking after you. All i can do is pray for your family that time will heal these wounds for you.
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