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Nikita Merriman
January 12, 2020
Tameka you will always be in my heart. You taught me so much. Freshman year at Howard University the last thing I wanted to be was your room mate. Lol You were Cali and I was so New York. You were Tupac and I was Biggie. We drove each other crazy but we loved each other. i learned so much that year in and out of class. You helped me to grow. Our paths parted. But one day we will meet again. I love you.
Anjelica Morgan
March 27, 2012
I love u big sis
Brenda Bailey
November 2, 2011
This is a tragic story...but I see that you were loved by many...RIP dear soul!!!
Shonnetta Jones
March 24, 2011
I did not know you but you seem to be a wonderful person I pray for your children to continue and grow God Bless you and your family
DANNESE PRINCE
December 30, 2010
I LOVE YOU COUSIN. ALWAYS HAVE AND ALWAYS WILL. I WISH WE COULD HAVE MET AGAIN IN OUR TEENAGE/ADULT YEARS AND KICKED IT HARD....BUT IT'S GOOD. WE WILL SEE OTHER AGAIN ONE DAY.
shanna lovings
July 11, 2010
sorry what happened i feel so sad now it seems like i know you but your in heavan thats a good thing
J S
June 6, 2010
I never met you Tameka, but I wanted to tell you how sorry I am about what happened to you. I know you are in heaven looking down and smiling on your children. Rest in peace, lovely lady.
SISTERS
October 18, 2009
WE ARE FAMILY
October 18, 2009
Tamika's Family in Chicago! Love and miss you sis .
February 18, 2009
Tamika's Family in California! We all miss and love you so much.
February 18, 2009
SHAMIKA BANKS
January 13, 2009
HELLO TAMIKA R. AUSTIN.THIS IS YOUR FRIEND SHAMIKA. I KNEW TAMIKA WHEN I FIRST CAME TO CA. FROM NJ. SHE BEFRIENDED ME AND WE WERE THE BEST OF FRIENDS. WE DID ALOT OF THINGS TOGETHER. MY DAUGHTER IS YOUR GODCHILD AND SHE HAS YOUR MIDDLE NAME. I WISH THAT SHE COULD HAVE GOTTEN TO KNOW YOU. I TRULY THOUGHT ABOUT YOU EVERYDAY.I AM JUST SADDENED THAT WE WENT OUR SEPERATE WAYS WHEN YOU WENT BACK TO IL. I JUST FOUND OUT WHAT HAPPENED BUT I WANT TO LET YOU KNOW THAT YOU MAY GONE BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN I LOVE YOU SO MUCH .IKNOW THAT YOU ARE IN A BETTER PLACE AND YOU ARE NOW WITH YOUR MOM.I WANT TO SEND MY BLESSINGS TO YOUR FAMILY AND YOUR BABIES THAT I HOPE TO MEET SOON. YOU ARE MY ONE TRUE FRIEND. I CAN STILL SEE YOUR BEAUTIFUL SMILE. I WANT TO ASK WHY DID YOU HAVE TO LEAVE ME,BUT THAT WOULD BE WRONG. WE WILL SEE EACH OTHER AGAIN.I LOVE YOU. BLESS
Karina Gonzalez
August 21, 2008
Tamika, we did'nt know you as well as we would have like to but good enough to say we have lost a wonderfull person.You willl not be forgotten, And will be missed! From the Cisneros and Gonzalez
Eric Elder
August 21, 2008
My Lil Big Sis, I don't know what to say, is that weird considering we grew up together and you always made sure Derrick and I were always okay. I am missing a third of me and it is so hard to get back in line. Like you told me I am the color of fireplace brown and I told you, you are the color of dirty house shoe.(yall know those dirty tan house shoes was Mika's color. I need you to be with me even if I can't see you. I know you is because you kept your promise to mom to makes sure we made it and we did. I love you so much !!!! Nobody will take that from me and they can't take you from Derrick and i. REST IN PEACE MY LIL BIG SIS!!!!!!!!
Daniel Reese
August 19, 2008
I pray protection for your children that have lost you far too early in their lives, for grace and strength for your parents as they take on their care; that God would meet all their needs according to His riches and glory by Christ Jesus (Phil. 4:13), and that God, ultimately, would take over the responsibility of raising these wonderful and incredibly beautiful children, following them wherever they might be. You will be missed, Tameka.
Sandy Keelin
August 18, 2008
We miss you more than words could ever say! You took care of everyone in their time of need, We will love and take care of your babies as if they are our own! We love you lil big sis!!!
Sandy Keelin
August 18, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived
okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here
is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you
every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up
and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were
gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for
me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's
chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life
on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not
be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But
one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a
time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will
give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day
was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the
way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick
him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in
your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember
you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Ninah White
August 16, 2008
I miss you so much.
Katie Wils
August 14, 2008
I dont noe if u remeber me Tamika But I remeber u From 3years ago when u lived on Bluff and you use to always make me laugh and i made u laugh and i remeber when we was laughin so hard cuz i didnt know what a comedian was. It seem to unreal and i hope your family the best and i really believe you are in a truly better place!!! LOVE U TAMIKA MUCH LOVE♥Katie
Maya Weltman-Fahs
August 12, 2008
Tamika, you beautiful, strong, and vibrant woman, I can't believe you are gone. Your presence is and always will be so strong for those of us that remember - your laugh, the way you move and dance, your spirit. I promise we will be there for Ninah and Derrick and for your babies in any way we can.
Maya Aziza Valdez AND Becky Godinez
August 11, 2008
To a beautiful person so full of life, with smiles and joy. Such a proud mother and full of love - Jai and Angel are Maya's classmates and friends. Our hearts and prayers go out to your babies and loved ones. We know you are now in a better place but we will miss your beautiful spirit picking up the kids from school. You've raised three beautiful children and have no doubt they will make it big in life. Maya and I hope and pray we can still be part of their lives.
drenell bramlett
August 10, 2008
may u rest in peace i remember all the fum times we had in iowa wen we first met u in iowa u took me in my brothers in as nephews n u was always a joy to b around u should no that u ment alot of things to a lot of people u was a mother an aunt a friend a sister n may all your greeat memories b forever cherished
Ninah White
August 8, 2008
Tamika,
You were not only my maid of honor, but my sister-in-law and most importantly my best friend and "dime sister". I remember our hilarious conversation where we sang everything over the phone like we were in a musical, and Derrick got so irritated! I miss our conversations and seeing your face. You loved everyone and you made everyone laugh and smile. There is no way I can wrap my mind around this. I love you girl, I miss you sooooooo much. You're here with us, I can feel it when we, Seric and Dinah share our memories about you. You are still making us laugh!
Elizabeth Rodriguez
August 8, 2008
Tamika-My family and I will miss your free spirit and how you brought so much life to the baseball games, cheering on each child as they came to bat. I know my daughter Alexis had fun hanging out with you, Angel and T-Nya. Jai, our Star Athlete, may you continue to excel in everything you aspire to do. May God Bless you and give your children guidance on their journey ahead.
Rodriguez Family
Doreen jack
August 8, 2008
I did not know Tameka long her son playered baseball this year at nvll with my grandson. Tameka was always cheering on the team whether the team was winning or losting she was always in good a spirit. We alway enjoy having her there. She will be missed by everyone who loved her. My thoughts and prays go out to her children and all family.
SOLOMIKIA HILL
August 7, 2008
TAMEKA MAY YOU REST IN PEACE ITS REALLY HARD FOR ME TO DEAL WITH THIS EVEN THOUGH I KNOW YOU ARE IN A BETTER PLACE. I JUST WISH I COULD HAVE SAID A FEW LAST WORDS OR TALKED TO YOU ON THE PHONE LIKE WE ALWAYS DID FOR HOURS OR AT LEAST TOLD U THAT I LOVE U. MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOUR FAMILY. I REMEMBER WHEN YOU AND THE KIDS CALLED ME ON MY BIRTHDAY TO WISH ME A HAPPY BIRTHDAY AND TO TELL ME TO BE CAREFUL AND THAT YOU LOVE ME, I REMEMBER ALL THOSE NIGHTS WE TALKED ON THE PHONE AND HOW WE PLANNED FOR MY BABY, MY BOYFRIEND AND I TO COME AND SEE U, I REGRET WE NEVER MADE IT. TAMEKA YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART. AND FOR MY LAST WORDS WE LOVE U 2 ALWAYS AND FOREVER U WILL ALWAYS BE HERE WITH ME. (I AM ONE OF THE OLDER SISTERS OF TAMEKA CHILDREN) MAY GOD WALK WITH THEM THROUGH THIS TRAGEDY.
Kristina Laguna-Blass
August 6, 2008
Tameka,
You will be missed by all who knew you. Your smile and laughter will live on through your children. I am still in disbelief that you are gone. You will always be our "Cheerleader" dancing and singing on the bleachers at the games. Your children and family will forever be in our prayers!
Kristina, Nona, Dylan (Pickle), Brandon, and your little one Cristian!
Laura Saltzman-Ginyard
August 6, 2008
I am deeply saddened by the tragic death of Tamika. I was one of Tamika's advisors at Los Altos High School (LA Steppers) and I knew Tamika as a brilliant, gifted and beautiful young woman with a promising future. I pray that her soul is now free and joyful and looking down on her dear children to guide them from above. My heartfelt love and prayers go out to Tamika's entire family and friends. May you be comforted. I love you Tamika and you will surely be missed by so many others who love you.
Katina Smith
August 6, 2008
My prayers and deepest condolences go out to Tameka's entire family. I will always have fond memories of Tameka's bright smile and infectiously happy and spirited personality. It was a joy to have known her as a friend and a L.A. Stepper team mate.
Tameka, I was terribly disturbed to hear of your passing but I will find peace in knowing that you are in a better place. I will keep your children and family in my prayers.
Rest in Peace.
Angel Burgess-Eaglin
August 6, 2008
And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away.
-Revelation 21:4
My prayers and condolences are extended to Tameka's immediate and extended family. I too knew Tameka from the LA Steppers team. My memory of her is one of a passionate fireball of energy, creative and beautiful woman , mother, and friend.
May God bless and keep you always....LAAAAAAAA YOU KNOW!!!!
Pomi Assefa
August 6, 2008
Tamika...May you rest in peace. I remember the last time I saw you with one of your kids. You looked happy and that's the way I will remember you. I am so honored to have known you and your positive outlook in life. With lots of love, your fellow stepper Pomi.
Cecilia Quinteros
August 5, 2008
I am also a fellow LA Stepper and had the honor to step along side Tameka in 1993. I remember Tameka as a positive and sweet person. She always had a smile on her face and treated everyone with respect. She left a lasting impression on me and I am saddened and shocked to hear about her death. Tameka you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. You will be missed my LA Stepper Sister. Rest in Peace.
Danielle Salinas (Davis)
August 5, 2008
As a fellow LA Stepper I am deeply saddened to hear that this has happened to someone with whom I've shared some of my best high school memories, our team was made up of all different walks of life and nationalities but we formed a sisterhood which after all these years still holds strong. You are in my thoughts and prayers as are your three children. My memories of you are of someone who had a wonderful personality, a positive influence who was sweet, thoughtful and kind. Rest In Peace my friend.
THIS IS HER SISTER FROM CHICAGO
DENISE MCCALLUM/STREETER
August 5, 2008
My beloved sister you will be missed sorry your life had to end so soon but I know you are in a better place with god who will now watch over you as you watch over your children I will always carry you in my heart my sweet baby sister I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART.
Darlene Fonte
August 5, 2008
Here at Dom Dinis Daycare Preschool where Tamika,s Youngest child attended preschool send our deepest sympathy and prayers to Tamika's family and Friends. Tamika was a very sweet person and We all enjoyed having her child with us. It really saddened us all to hear the horrific tradegy that had happened. God bless you all. We will all miss Tamika very much
sharon godinez
August 5, 2008
Tameka your warm smile and laughter always live on in everybody's lives you've touched. RIP my Angel and watch over All . My heart and prayers goes out to all the family and friends.
Los Altos High 1994 LA Steppers
Monique Saulsberry
August 4, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with the family during their time of mourning. I will miss you very dearly Meka. You are now in heaven watching over your beautiful bundles of joy. You are their protector always. I will always have wonderful memories of you during our time as L.A. Steppers @ LAHS. Many blessings go out to your family in CA & IL.
Your Friend,
Monique Saulsberry (Robinson)
c/o 94
[email protected]
Mohnique Weaver
August 4, 2008
I was a high school friend(Los Altos High)we were on the LA Steppers together....My heart and prayers goes out to the entire family she will be missed BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN!
Dawn Onstott
August 4, 2008
I am Sandy's Friend Dawn, I just want to send my condolences and my prayers to all of the family. May God be with you in your time and help you with his wisdom and spirit.
Beth LeBlanc
August 2, 2008
I am still in shock over my friends early death. Our boys just finished their baseball season just two weeks ago. Jai, your mom was so proud of you. I hope you know that you have a family at NVLL (Flickinger) as well. We are praying for you and your family, Jai and we love you. If you need anything, e-mail me at [email protected].
Beth
(N'Jai's mom)
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