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Jarvis Carr Obituary

Jarvis Alexander Carr, 63, of Middletown, passed away on Tuesday, Jan. 4, at Middlesex Hospital. Born in Norfolk, Va., he was the son of the late William and Zelma (Swain) Carr.
Jarvis lived in Middletown for the majority of his life and worked for the city of Middletown for many years.He loved to walk and spend time in the Middletown Parks and was an avid Dallas Cowboy and New England Patriot fan. Jarvis was a kind person who was always willing to help anyone he could.
He is survived by five sons, Jarvis A. Carr Jr. of Ahoskie, N.C., Maurice Parker of New Britain, Mitchell Carr of N. Providence, R.I., Shamar Carr of Middletown and Ancen Singleton of Norfolk, Va.; three daughters, Tora Outlaw, Sheena Outlaw, and Theresa Carr, all of Middletown; three brothers, William Carr of Richmond, Va., Percy Carr of Middletown, and Robert Carr of Queens, N.Y.; two sisters, Shirley Brockers of Middletown and Brenda Carr of New Britain; five grandchildren; a very special friend, Carolyn Green, and a host of nieces, nephews and cousins.
Besides his parents, he was predeceased by his daughter, Brenda Carr, two brothers, Thomas Swain and James Carr and a sister, Sarah Swain.
Funeral services will be held on Tuesday, Jan. 11, at 11 a.m. at Shiloh Baptist Church, 346 Butternut St., Middletown, with the Rev. Dr. W. Vance Cotten Sr. officiating. Burial will follow in Pine Grove Cemetery in Middletown.
Friends may call on Tuesday from 10 to 11 a.m. at the church and may send messages of condolence to the family at www.doolittlefuneralservice.com.
The Doolittle Funeral Home, 14 Old Church St., Middletown, is handling the arrangements.
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Published by Middletown Press on Jan. 8, 2011.

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tommie rollins

January 14, 2011

sorry for alls lost gods in control hes in a better place now god bless the rollins family of new britain

frank cox

January 11, 2011

Jarvis was a nice guy,god just recieved another angel,may god be with the carr family in this time of sorrow.

Freda Mitchell

January 11, 2011

to the carr family; may god be with you in this time of sorrow.i will miss seeing jarvis walking around middletown,now he is walking with jesus.you the family will be in my prayers.

Lisa Moody

January 11, 2011

Jarvis Jr. & Family-
May God Provide you with comfort durring your time of need. My paryer's are with you and your Family.

Sonia Dawes- montford

January 10, 2011

Jarvis Jr, Mitch, Maurice & the rest of the Carr family.Sorry to hear about the passing of your father, uncle, brother, uncle and friend.My sincerest condolence, may your memories bring comfort and peace to you all!

January 10, 2011

Maurice,
I pray God comforts you during this time of sorrow.

~Dave Morassini, Meriden, Connecticut

Terry D'Aloisio

January 10, 2011

Dear Maurice,
You have my sincerest condolences in the loss of your father. My prayers are with you.

Terry D'Aloisio for EDAC AECR

January 10, 2011

Dear Maurice,
We are very sorry to hear about your father. May the memories you have of your father bring you comfort and peace. In deepest sympathy.

Brian Curry

January 10, 2011

Shamar,
I am very sorry to hear about your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers
Brian Curry

January 10, 2011

May God bless the entire Carr family in the loss of their brother - he was a very nice man - miss seeing him walking and his beautiful smile .

Flo Weston Crump (Middletown, CT)

Rae & Evelyn

January 9, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Jim Greco

January 9, 2011

To Shamar and the entire Carr family.

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.The thoughts of many are with you.

Jim Greco

January 9, 2011

To Shamar and the entire Carr family.

We were so sorry to hear of your loss.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.

January 8, 2011

Jarvi was a good friend we've known him for many years. he will be gfreatly missed. our lost is heavens gain, our prayers are with all of you. (Rev Benjamin &Vernice williams, Charleston,SC.)

BUTCH GAYLORD

January 8, 2011

PERCY: SORRY FOR YOU`R LOST.STAY CLOSE TO ALL FAMILY MEMBERS.IT HELPS AT A TIME LIKE THIS. THE BEST TO ALL, BUTCH GAYLORD, ( WORKED WITH YOU AT RAYCO METAL SAY HI TO ALL.)

chaquita morris

January 8, 2011

I loved my uncle so much and will miss him alot. My condolences to the family and especially his kids. He was always smiling and a very kind hearted man. I know i will miss his smile and his very uplifting words. May you rest in peace and say hello to the rest of the family. You are one of God's angels and i will look up at you every chance i get. Love you and miss you!! forever gone but never forgotten!!

john milardo

January 8, 2011

Jarvis was a good man. I worked along side him for his entire career at the Parks Department, and enjoyed his friendship. He will be missed.
John Milardo

Cliff & Marcella Holloman

January 8, 2011

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

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