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Thomas Michael Byrne

1939 - 2025

Thomas Michael Byrne obituary, 1939-2025, Modesto, CA

BORN

1939

DIED

2025

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Salas Brothers Funeral Chapel Inc

419 Scenic Dr

Modesto, California

Thomas Byrne Obituary

Thomas Michael Byrne

April 26, 1939 - August 4, 2025

Modesto, California - Thomas Byrne passed away on August 4, 2025, at the age of 87. Tom was born in Oakland to Mary Loughery Byrne and Thomas Paul Byrne. He fondly remembered All Saints Elementary School, and Bishop O'Dowd High School. He was part of the "Byrne brothers". He made lifelong friends at Oakland Junior College. Tom then entered the United States Forest Service, beginning at the Groveland, CA station. He met his wife Judy, while there. They married in Twain Harte in 1966. From there, the family moved to Modesto, CA and had two sons, Sean and Shamus. Their families are important to us, including Sean and Rosy, grandson Andres and his family; Shamus, Vanessa and Shamus Junior.

In 1978, Tom became the founding Executive Director for United Cerebral Palsy in Stanislaus County. In 1984, he moved on to the national staff of United Cerebral Palsy Associations, Inc., where he worked in many areas of the country. In 1992, he began providing counsel through his own firm, Development Directions, to organizations. He also worked with Fund Development Associates out of Sacramento, CA with William Schopfer, the firm's owner. In 1998, his main focus turned toward raising the initial major funds for the new St. Stanislaus church. We became friends with many people in the parish over the time of the project.

Grandchildren and great grandchildren took on a special place - Shamus Jr., Iris and now Eli were on his mind. Tom is predeceased by his son Shamus (2013) and his brothers Jim (2010) and Kevin (2012).

He is survived by his wife Judy, and their son, Sean, Sean's wife, Rosario, and their son and daughter-in-law, Andres and Paris.

Tom loved people. He enjoyed his neighbors and loved keeping up our family garden. He had some good, close friends. Thanks for your friendship. You couldn't tell he was retired. He would say, "I'm just on a break from work!" Type A personalities never stop.

On Monday, August 11, 2025, from 5-7 p.m., there will be a visitation at Salas Brothers Funeral Chapel at 419 Scenic Drive, Modesto, CA 95350 (209-523-5646). On Tuesday, August 12, at 12 noon, there a private, graveside service at St. Stanislaus Cemetery (1141 Scenic Drive, Modesto, CA 95350).

On Monday, August 18th, at 10 a.m. there will be a Memorial Mass at the old St. Stanislaus Church (709 J Street, Modesto, CA 95354). It will be followed by a Celebration of Life reception, in the church hall. In lieu of flowers, please consider donations to the United Cerebral Palsy Organization (209-577-2122), or the Sisters of the Cross of the Sacred Heart of Jesus (209-526-3525), or a favorite charity of your own.

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Published by Modesto Bee from Aug. 8 to Aug. 11, 2025.

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Peggy

August 22, 2025

We were privileged to have Tom as a friend for nearly 50 years. He brightened our lives with his generosity of time, kindness, and support. His wry sense of humor kept us laughing. I met Tom in 1978 when my two year old son was diagnosed with cerebral palsy. United Cerebral Palsy of Stanislaus County was just setting up an office in Modesto and Tom was unpacking boxes when I walked in. He greeted me warmly and rummaged through boxes to find me some literature. He encouraged me to get involved with UCP, which I did. Thus began our friendship. Tom dedciated his life to helping others, particularly those with disabilities. He was someone you could count on. Tom is deeply missed by our family.
Peg (Divine), Patrick, Mahlon, and MIchael McAnaney

Brian Eugene Green

August 20, 2025

My heart is saddened after hearing of Tom's death. How often I had thought about Tom and had planned to see him when I was in Modesto. Time passes quickly and the contact did not come to fruition. He was such a valuable friend when I was younger. He will always have a place in my heart! I wish Judy and Sean (and the rest of the family) much peace at this time.

Robert Mahoney

August 18, 2025

Judy and family -
So sorry to hear of the loss of Tom. My prayers are with you. Tom used to always make sure to make a trip into the Ice Creamery in Oakland where I worked while in college to say hello, while visiting his folks. We are second cousins on his mom´s side.

Cindy Largent

August 14, 2025

Judy & Family~

My Prayers and hugs go out to all of you. Tom was an amazing man of faith & Family.

Cindy Kilroy-Largent

Rose Wyeth

August 12, 2025

Judy, I am so sorry for your loss. You and all your family are in my prayers to aid you with your loss and grief. As you know our Lord is with you always.
Sincerest Condolences,
Rose & Jim

Barbara Jaroch Sheatsley

August 10, 2025

Oh Judy I´m so sorry. Hugs

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Memorial Events
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Aug

11

Visitation

5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Salas Brothers Funeral Chapel Inc

419 Scenic Dr, Modesto, CA

Aug

18

Memorial Mass

10:00 a.m.

Old St. Stanislaus Church

709 J Street, Modesto, CA

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419 Scenic Dr, Modesto, CA 95350

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