1960
2023
Paul Michael Aguilar
February 2, 1960 - July 27, 2023
SAN DIEGO, CA - Paul Michael Aguilar, 63, of San Diego, CA, passed away on July 27, 2023. He was born on February 2, 1960, in Butte, MT, to the late Paul Poncho Aguilar and Cecilia Aguilar.
Paul served in the Navy for 30 years, starting as an enlisted service member and eventually obtaining his commission as an officer. He reached the rank of Lieutenant Commander before retiring in 2007. His military associations spanned from 1977 to 2007. His accomplishments included, but were not limited to:Served in the Gulf War, Operation Desert Shield/Storm. Awarded: (2) Meritorious Service Medals, (4) Navy and Marine Corps Commendation Medals, (2) Navy and Marine Corps Achievement Medals, Meritorious Unit Commendation Medal, National Defense Service Medal, Armed Forces Expeditionary Medal, Global War on Terrorism Expeditionary Medal, Global War on Terrorism Service Medal, Humanitarian Service Medal, (3) Sea Service Deployment Ribbons, Kuwait Liberation Medal (Saudi Arabia) Kuwait Liberation Medal (Kuwait), Surface Warfare Officer Qualified, PEO TSC Award for Excellence, CNSF 2005 Pacific Fleet Officer Award for Tactics Excellence. After his military service, Paul joined the team at TEA, Tactical Engineering and Analysis, where he provided engineering and information technology services, software and analysis support, and testing services to defense agencies worldwide. He was highly regarded in his field.
Outside of his career, Paul had a passion for cars, friends and family history. He spent many hours compiling genealogical research to preserve his rich family history. He never missed an opportunity to connect with family and friends. He was generous with his knowledge and time. He was an active member of the POCI (Pontiac Oakland Club International) and donated to several museums, including the 'Old Montana Prison and Auto Museum' in Deer Lodge, Montana, and the 'World Museum of Mining' in Butte, Montana. He contributed to the latter by providing his full-dress white uniform and plaques for their new exhibit featuring armed services members from Montana.
Paul is survived by: sister; Felicia Korinko, of Butte, Montana, his longtime companion, Debbi Tomlinson of Harbison Canyon, CA, and the mother of his two children, Delores Schelin, of San Diego, CA. His children, Melissa Aguilar-Galceran and her husband, Robert, John Paul Aguilar and wife, Denisse, and their children, will deeply miss him. He was a loving grandfather to Robert Galceran II, Adam Galceran, Dennisa Galceran, Alexandra Marie Aguilar Sanchez, Arturo Galceran III, Antonia Delores Aguilar Galceran, Aurora May Aguilar Galceran, Nevaeh Angela Aguilar, Jazlyn Denisse Aguilar, Lilianna Juels Aguilar, and Natalyn Catalina Aguilar.
A memorial service will be held on September 22, 2023, at 10:00 AM, at Miramar National Cemetery, 5795 Nobel Dr., San Diego, CA 92122.
Another service will take place on October 6, 2023, at 10:00 AM, at Holy Cross Cemetery, 4700 Harrison Ave., Butte, MT 59701.
In lieu of flowers, Paul would appreciate donations to the World Museum of Mining, 155 Museum Way, Butte, MT 59701, The Butte Archives 17 W Quartz St, Butte, MT 59701, or the Old Montana Prison & Auto Museum Complex, 1104 Main St, Deer Lodge, MT 59722. Your contributions will help preserve and promote the history he cherished.Paul will be remembered for his work ethic, unyielding drive to achieve excellence in all he came into contact with, and his love for his family and his country. He will be deeply missed by all who knew him.
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Marlo Schelin-Black
September 10, 2024
Pauly, you know what you meant to me. My condolences go out to his children and his grandchildren who weren't allowed to meet their mother's side of the family. You were my brother from the time I was 3 years old until my mother passed away in 2000. I remember when you thought it would be funny to take a 5 month-pregnant woman to black beach for her birthday, so she would have to see all those naked family members. Lol. I remember the diamond earrings you bought me on my 21st birthday, saying every young woman deserves something special. I cherished those earrings until Mom wanted them to wear. You knew Mom she loved diamonds. You will always be my brother no matter what. I love you and I miss driving that firebird from LA to San Diego cause you and Dee Dee were a little drunk. You will always be miss, Love you always and rest in peace with you family in heaven.
Theodore ( Tad) Davis
November 16, 2023
Wow what a totally shock Paul aka Squeaky you were and always will be my best friend ever as we grew up togethe played football and blew up our GI joe s with fire crackers rode our bikes being in cub scouts as your mom being our den mother was awesome so so wished i could have seen ya to reminace Any in loving memory ..Your old friend Theodore (Tad)Davis
Susan Bean
October 3, 2023
Squeaky, I remember you chasing Felicia and me out of your room constantly and threatening us to NEVER TOUCH MY STUFF! Of course, we didn't...I think we liked to bug you more. Godspeed, may you find rest in our Lord. Felicia, I am so sorry you are going through tough times. I truly loved you all as you were all my family when I needed one. Susan (Driscoll) Bean
Brandy Aguilar Lloyd
September 24, 2023
"Your life was a blessing, Your memory a treasure. You are loved beyond words, Missed beyond measure."
Forever in my heart, your cousin Brandy Aguilar Lloyd
Christena Aguilar Trujillo
September 24, 2023
It still doesn´t seem real that Paul is gone. I am grateful for all of the memories both old (60´s) and new. Especially memorable was being in San Diego for his Navy retirement ceremony. Anytime you knew that you would see Paul for whatever reason it was something to look forward to. He is missed more than I can put into words. Love, your cousin.
Jamie Schelin
September 22, 2023
Awe , I am truly so sorry to hear of his passing, Pauly aka Squeaky you was my brother in law for many many years. I looked at you as one of my actual brothers. I didn´t know what a brother in law was. You are The father and grandfather to my nieces and nephews. I am so sorry for the Aguilar/Sanchez/Galceron family members.
The loss of Paul has to be so devastating to you all.
Wow what to say about the one kid that made me a Auntie to Lissy at the age of 13.
We called him Squeaky Pauly when he was a young teenager. He started dating my sister DeeDee when they were in 8-9th grade in Butte. Paul always wanted to go see the world to know where all different types of people came from. What the world would offer him as a kid from Butte Montana.
When he decided to join the navy I think he was only 17 and I can remember my dad telling him that he would do better in either the Marines or the Army. Said the Navy was sitting Ducks and couldn´t get away fast enough if something was to happen.
Well, when my father passed in 1988 Paul said to at the graveside Pops I won´t be a sitting duck for to long, I´ll be the one pushing out the darts to take `em down. I later knew what that meant.
Paul I know you always loved to show everyone you had the compassion care and love for what ever your life was bringing to you or your family.
I know your in heaven now with Ponch Cecilia and all of the family that greeted you as Jesus brought you home.
Give my parents and Johnny an niece Taylor a big hug from me please.
To all the children, grandchildren that he leaves behind, know that your father always loved you with all his being. He believe he had the best of both worlds. A man who became a father and a man who could serve the world and show his family just how great it can be.
So now Paul you are in heaven drumming away I am sure with Lennon and singing Let it be! Or better yet. That little Yellow Submarine.
Pound those sticks Paul from time to time to let me know your hear and watching over us all.
Father God
give comfort love for his loved ones that now will continue to live life without their beloved father partner friend. Give them your grace, knowledge knowing his life was lived with all he could do in it until that day when you smiled upon him and said it´s time to come home my son.
In the name of Jesus I ask you to hear mine and everyone´s prayers for his eternal life.
Amen
Marlo Black
September 22, 2023
May you rest in peace Pauly, I loved you as my brother, not just an in-law.
Debbie Newgard
September 21, 2023
Debbie Newgard
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Debbie Newgard
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Debbie Newgard
September 21, 2023
My heart breaks for one of the most special cousin who never ever forgot his family and his roots. Paul made sure to keep in contact with us no matter what part of the word he was in. Paul would wave as he flew over Montana. Aka Squeaky Paul kept us laughing and we could not wait for the next adventure. Paul was nothin but pure love that he showered on his family. Maybe he´ll finish his ghost story book in Heaven All my love. I will miss you deeply cuz Debbie
Cousin Lexie
September 21, 2023
Rolina Aguilar McQuiston
September 20, 2023
Rolina Aguilar McQuiston
September 20, 2023
Rolina Aguilar McQuiston
September 20, 2023
If I am writing this, then this must be real. How many mornings do we wake-up and think for a second there is no way possible he is gone. I am the youngest caboose of the 1st cousins, but Paul felt more like my brother. One of our fondest memories is when he stayed at our beach house in Newport and went took the ferry to Catalina Island. Later that night during dinner, the electricity went out and Paul had us gather candles from neighbors to set the mood for ghost stories. His laugh was contagious! Those dimples? How could you not absolutely love him. He was brilliant, handsome, one of the good ones. He probably flew threw Heaven Orientation and returned to help his mom. Paul, we love you and we will miss you! Please tell the elders that you successfully kept their legacy and memories alive for the next generation.
Cousin Korey and second cousin Lexie
September 20, 2023
Cousin Paul aka Squeky as I knew him was the most funniest and kindest guy in the world.
Paul always kept in touch and let us sisters(his cousins)know where he was with all the pictures of him around the world and texts and funny stories.
Family was very important to Paul and he showed it.
I will remember him always and he will be missed so much!!
Charlene (Conniston) Warren
September 18, 2023
I am so sorry to read of Paul´s passing. We enjoyed meeting him (with Debi) at our family reunion in Butte. Such a pleasant lil guy.
RIP Paul and a big hug to you Debi.
Dana Parr
September 17, 2023
Much love to you Paul aka Squeaky. I will miss you & forever in my heart. Growing up with you, our Family Reunions, our dinners. You always had time for us. Your story telling, you always made us laugh. You were one of the strongest men I know. I'll miss hearing of your adventures. Asking, ok where is he at now. You had a heart of gold. I'll miss you cuz.
felicia korinko
September 16, 2023
love ya to the moon and back back
Cheryl Schelin Myers-Marsh
September 16, 2023
Heaven must have needed a rock drummer for the Beatles reunion. Or a mariner to drive the submarine. One day Aguilar we´ll meet again and until then, know that your presence will always and forever be missed by those who loved you and whose lives you´ve had such an impact on. Thank you for always being a beacon of clarity and sound mind in the storms. Love you always and forever my brother.
Cher
To Melissa and John Paul, know that the two of you posses the best of him everyday of the rest of your lives. He will be looking in on each of you from time to time. He was so proud of you for the woman and man that you each have grown into. Love you both Aunt, Cheryl
Danette Driscoll
September 16, 2023
So sorry to hear about the passing of Paul. He was my hero years ago when he stepped in during an altercation to protect me. I have always remembered him and his quiet strength and determination and dignity. My condolences to Felicia and his entire family RIP "Squeaky" and Godspeed. Danette Driscoll
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