David Stankovits Obituary

David J. Stankovits

AGE: 39 ? New Brunswick

David J. Stankovits, age 39, died suddenly on Thursday, Feb. 24, 2011.

Born in New Brunswick, he was raised in East Brunswick, where he graduated from high school in 1989. David went on to complete the Culinary Arts Program and Restaurant/ Food Service Management Curriculum, receiving his associate and bachelor of arts degrees from Johnson and Wales University, Providence, Rhode Island.

Following college, David opened several food service concept establishments, including Hansel N' Griddle, Tito and his Junkyard Dogs, and "The Kitchen." Continuing his culinary passion, David was soon to open the Deerfield House of Spirits Bar and Grill. David's artistic talents showed in his work with ice block sculptures, drawing, painting, creating with plaster of paris, paper mache, and other art mediums. He frequently entered his work in the sand art contest held on the beach in Belmar.

Surviving are his parents, Steven and Diane; his brother, Steven; his nieces, Ashley and Emory; and his aunt and uncle, Patricia and Robert Cotter.

Visitation at Spotswood Funeral Home, 475 Main Street, Spotswood, NJ 08884 on Sunday, Feb. 27th from 7pm to 9pm and Monday, Feb. 28th from 2pm to 4pm and 7pm to 9pm. Family and friends may gather beginning at 9am on March 1, at the funeral home. A mass of christian burial will be celebrated at St. Mary of Mount Virgin Church, Remsen Ave., New Brunswick at 10:30am. David will be laid to rest at Saint Peter's Cemetery, New Brunswick.

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Published by Home News Tribune on Feb. 27, 2011.

Memories and Condolences
for David Stankovits

12 Entries

Sandy & Bill Hojecki

March 2, 2011

The Stankovits Family:
Our deepest sympathy on the tragic loss of your son. David was an artistic and creative soul who shared his talents with all those around him. His premature passing reminds us all that every day is a gift and to live life to the fullest. May he rest in peace with the angels.

Rose (Piparo) Reap

March 1, 2011

Diane, Steve and family

|Sorry to hear of the passing of your son David. I will keep you in my prayers.
May he rest in peace.

Narcisi Family

March 1, 2011

I am very sorry to hear of David's passing. Our family will keep David and your family in our thoughts and prayers. Our deepest condolences.

Nella Blumengold

February 28, 2011

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

Linda Soden

February 28, 2011

Dear Steve, Diane and Family,

Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of your dear son David. May he Rest In Peace. May all of your wonderful memories carry you through this most difficult time.

Patty Christian

February 28, 2011

Our deepest condolences to Diane, Steve and the family.
May David rest in peace.
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Doreen

February 27, 2011

What a terrible loss, may he rest in peace. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.

Ray Green

February 27, 2011

Dave was one in a million. I stll remember meeting him when he lived in Raritan Gardens.I will always hold on to the great memories of Dave. My condolences go out to the Stankovits family. May he rest in peace.

Debbie St. Onge

February 27, 2011

David was an extremely talented individual who took pride is his work. He will be missed by all who knew and loved him. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends. David, may you rest in peace and live forever in our hearts.

The St. Onge Family

Debbie St. Onge

February 27, 2011

David was an extremely talented individual who will be missed by all who knew him and loved him. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family during this difficult time.
May you forever rest in peace and remain in all of our hearts.

The St. Onge Family

Erin Varga

February 27, 2011

David was one of the most talented human beings I will ever know. He always put such care and time into everything he created, even a Valentine's poem he wrote to me in the 8th grade! He will hold a special place in my heart forever. May God be with all of you, especially Mr. and Mrs. Stankovits. You are such amazing human beings and fabulous, loving parents. Peace and Love be with all of you, Erin (D'heron) Varga

Richard Palfey,Jr.

February 26, 2011

Dave was a dear friend of mine for a long time. I will miss him. However, my memories of the good times we've shared together is what I will remember the most. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Stankovits family. May you rest in peace my brother!

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