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RALPH E. BAILEY, JR.
AGE: 38 PARLIN
Ralph E. Bailey Jr., 38, of the Parlin section of Sayreville passed away Saturday, April 18, 2009 in New Brunswick. Born in South Amboy he has resided in Parlin all of his life. Ralph was employed in his families business, Buddies Tavern and Catering in Parlin, as a chef, and was a communicant of Sacred Heart R. C. Church in South Amboy.
He is predeceased by his father, Ralph E. Bailey Sr. in 1980, and his uncles, Ronald Bailey Sr, and Robert Bailey. Surviving are his mother, Kathleen "Kathy" Bailey of Parlin; his daughter, Leane Nicole Bailey; his sisters, Karen Bailey Bebert of Parlin, and Janice Peterson and her husband Eric of South Amboy; his nephews and nieces, Wayne and Kristy Bebert, Bradley, April and Skylar Peterson; his aunts, Arlene Balaskiewicz, and Jean Bailey; his uncle, George Anderjack; his friend, Shannon Vargo, and a host of cousins.
Funeral services will be held Thursday 8:45 a.m. from the Carmen F. Spezzi Funeral Home 15 Cherry Lane Parlin followed by a 9:30 a.m. mass at Sacred Heart R. C. Church in South Amboy with burial to follow at Sacred Heart Cemetery, Parlin. Calling hours at the funeral home will be Wednesday from 2 p.m. to 4 p.m. and 7 p.m. to 9 p.m.
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Memories and Condolences
for Ralph Bailey
Jill-Leigh (Bailey) Andreacchio
May 4, 2009
Ralph, I remember high school, making potato chips for Monday night football, but most of all you were always there for my family. Our wedding, our childrens affairs. We will never forget you, and the memories we hold so close. We Love You! Your cousin,
Cindy Andreacchio
May 4, 2009
To you we always remember,
The memories you hold so well,
That will never leave us,
Beloved Ralph.
I remember when we were younger
You dressed up,
As Santa,
And gave us presents.
We will never forget,
Your love,
And kindness,
That will always,
Remain with us,
For now,
Forever,
We love you very much.
May 3, 2009
May 3, 2009
Pat & Sharon Borbely
April 30, 2009
Our most sincere, honest and heartfelt sympathy goes out to the Bailey family at this time. Ralph will be missed.
April 29, 2009
Dear Kathy and family Our deepest sympathy to all of you. Ralphie was a great kid. May your memories sustain you. Flo & Joe Nehila and family Lady Lake Fla
Jimmy Makransky
April 25, 2009
Ralphie and I were like shadows of each other for many years. You couldn’t separate the two of us it seemed. We spent more hours and days together than I could ever count. We got into small amounts of trouble from time to time, mostly for “borrowing” the needed tools in order to fix something we were working on. (Thinking back, most of the things worked fine before we needed to “fix” them, but we fixed them none the less and had fun doing it). There were no broken bones, no eyes shot out (although we came close) and no real property damage (that anyone can trace to us).
Ralphie and I put many miles on our “bikes” together. Unlike what most of you are thinking right now, back then, our bikes had no motors. We peddled everywhere. I have no idea how many miles it was between spots in Tuckerton, we’d leave shortly after breakfast and not return until dinner. We explored places, find dirt paths that seemed to lead to nowhere and enjoyed every moment of it. Maybe that was the spark that gave Ralph the love for the bikes with motors, first the dirt bikes, then the Harley. Whatever it was, no one can argue, he loved to ride. I can remember him doing things on his Suzuki 80 that grown men on 125’s and 250’s couldn’t pull off. The only thing I could think of that he loved more than riding was laughter. He always had a smile. It was infectious at times, making all those around him smile too.
I’ll remember my childhood with Ralphie forever. Some of my favorite memories will be the bungalow in Tuckerton; fishing, crabbing and scratching those damn green fly bites all summer long. Every trip down there usually started with the declaration of “We’re off – like a herd of mad turtles.” I still use that line to this day with my kids. Playing the drums and setting up the trains in the basement of his house was how most winter days were spent. Digging tunnels and building snow forts from the freshly plowed parking lot was the call of the day after blizzards. When that Dodge with the snow plow hitch was first bought, we were ecstatic. We could only dream of how high those plowed drifts could get now that we were in control of building them. The possibilities were endless it seemed.
At the bar, dumping countless (red) quarters in Ms. Pacman, the pool table and the jukebox was a typical afternoon. (The red quarters came back to us free – or so we were told). If I remember, the shuffleboard was only a dime back then, but now it’s free. Ralphie could usually beat most of the regulars at pool and refused to ever use the bridge on the long shots. I’m pretty sure the regulars were not throwing the game to him either; he was just good at an early age. We made pizzas together for the regulars at the bar on many nights – Friday and Saturday only, we had school the rest of the week. I know, but can’t reveal the secret ingredients that made the sauce so good. When I look at the pizza oven now, it looks a lot smaller than I remember. They say it’s the same one, but I know it was bigger back then; someone must have changed it out.
I can fill many more pages with stories from a time that was more innocent for most of us, but the theme would always be the same – two great friends, doing fun adventures together.
I will forever miss my friend. You’re off, like a herd of mad turtles. Until we meet again Raphie…rest well.
April Peterson
April 24, 2009
Uncle Ralph,
I still can't register the fact that your gone. All the memories I have of you are amazing ones and I will never forget them ever. You had a huge heart and such a lovable laugh. I will miss you calling me Dr. Shaloogie. I love you Uncle Ralph.
Karen Makransky-Hart
April 23, 2009
Ralphie - My heart will forever hold you dear. You were my fourth brother. All the memories that we shared growing up together, the rides, the Dead, the weddings, all of our good times, they will never be forgotten. YOU will never be forgotten, R I P my friend.
Mrs.Bailey, Karen, Janice, Shannon, and Leane - I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Yes, we are sad & angry - taken way too soon - but he is with his Dad now...they are both watching over all of you, and smiling, together.
Love,
Karen Makransky (Hart)
April 23, 2009
Dear Kathy,Karen and family,
Ralph was a great guy and i knew him when he was 14,when we had my mom's funernal breakfast in 1985 at buddies. He will be missed,he was happy and laughing when i'd see him recently. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Cindy Gerba(Chip's sister) Sayreville
Monica Corrigan Wayne Palermo and the Corrigan Family
April 22, 2009
Dear Kathy, Karen, Janice,and family Our deepest sympathy goes out to you. We loved Ralph very much as we do all of you. He will be missed dearly. Ralphie until we meet again may God hold you in the palm of his hand. RIDE ON BUDDY RIDE ON. And last but not least Leane always remember your daddy loved you very much.
Dean Johnson
April 22, 2009
Ralph was a great friend, a dedicated co-worker, and an excellent fishing partner... he will be missed and remembered always.
Carl Krzyzkowski
April 22, 2009
Dear Mrs. Bailey and family,
So sorry to hear of Ralph's passing...
I now live in Erie, Pa (15 years) I grew up in Parlin and was friends with Ralph
Mary Ann Bisaha
April 22, 2009
Mrs. Bailey, Janice and Karen, I've known Ralphie for many years. Last year I had seen Ralph for the first time in years and he was so happy and cheerful. He was a great man and many memories of shooting pool at Buddies and knowing Ralph will be forever in my heart. My condolences to you and yours and Ralph's family.
Steve & Barbi Ruskuski Brennan
April 22, 2009
Dear Kathy & Family,
We are so sorry for your loss.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during these difficult times.
Ralphie was a great guy. No one will ever forget him.
Laura Schneider
April 22, 2009
Ralph, I will always remember you with a smile on your face when I walked in the door at Buddies. I hope you keep that smile forever. Peace to the Baileys, and I will see you later today.
Deanna Coppola-Rosseter
April 22, 2009
I'm very sorry for your loss--I knew Ralph from high school and growing up in sayreville--my prayers and deepest sympathies to you in your time of loss.
April 22, 2009
Our Thoughts and Prayers are with the Bailey Family.
We are deeply sorry for the loss of your Son, Brother, Father....
The Gerlesky Family
Michele
April 22, 2009
My Last Ride
My hands are clenched around chrome bars
the engine's rumble sounds so sweet.
I twist the throttle with my palm
and roar off down the street.
The slapping of my leathers
and raging winds on either side,
drum a beat of sweet contentment
as I ride this.....my last ride.
Alone on my tin pony,
to the heavens I've been called,
but fret not my dear loved ones,
I’m not lonely here at all.
The speedometer is just a blur
as tears blow from my eyes,
the bike and I roll forward
off into the calling skies.
I hope I touched your lives one day,
and left a treasured mark,
now I’ll ride on to FOREVER,
with your memory in my heart.
April 22, 2009
Our Deepest Sympathies to the Baily Family
and to Baby daughter. You are all in our
Prayers.
Tim & Alice Wrobel
Russell Nayduch
April 21, 2009
Ralph we shared alot of good times together, I will always remember cruising in the dodge,cranking the dead in your room for hrs,dead shows,taking the bikes out,late nights in the bar,our high school days but most of all our friendship you were a great friend & a great person im gonna miss you alot man...My heart goes out to your family..R.I.P buddy
Michael Grau
April 21, 2009
To the entire Bailey Family,
You are in my prayers during this time.
MIke Grau
Louisa Correa & Jason Liverman
April 21, 2009
We are so sorry for the loss of Ralphie. You are all in our thoughts each day. May your memories bring you comfort and keep your loved one close in your hearts.
corrie samra
April 21, 2009
May you take comfort in knowing an angel is watching over you...I send my deepest sympathy and condolences to your family..
Robert Goldie
April 21, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
Beth Correa & Duane Juhasz
April 21, 2009
We are so sorry for your loss; you are in our prayers and thoughts.
There is strength in knowing that Ralphie is with God now and he is watching over him.
April 21, 2009
kathyits amelia im so ry to hear about ralphie i hope youll be fine im sure you will take care amelia sprague.
Michael D'Arpa
April 21, 2009
To the Bailey Family, I was deeply sadden to learn of the news. Ralph was a good man and a great guy! No words can express my sorrow. May each memory comfort...and bring you peace. With Deepest Sympathy, Mike and the entire D'Arpa Family.
Lisa Sprague
April 21, 2009
DEAR MRS. BAILEY & FAMILY,
My heart is with you, Mrs. B, Karen, and Jan i love you all so much and am so sorry...i love Ralphie and he will be very missed...Gone too soon....
sincerely
Lisa Sprague
Dorothy Lynch, Daidone
April 21, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
April 21, 2009
im so sorry to hear about your son my heart goes out to you and your family . love rosie wingler johnson panzera
Catherine McLean-Walsh
April 21, 2009
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
sonny johnson
April 21, 2009
sorry for your lost
Jennifer Meyer
April 21, 2009
To the Bailey Family, my heart and prayers go out to all of you at this time of sorrow. Ralph was always so sweet and always greeted you with a smile! Buddies will never be the same!
Debbie Walsh
April 21, 2009
Ralph, Thanks for being a great dad to my granddaughter Leann, and taking Lexy into your life,we will miss you, your memory will always in our hearts. DEDE and ROB
BRIAN FERGUSON
April 21, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
Kevin Burbulak
April 21, 2009
Ralph was 1 of a kind with a signature laugh that too was unforgetable. I will always remember him as a happy camper who worked hard, enjoyed his 2 wheels, and took care of his family and friends. He will definitely be missed. Condolences go out to the family from the Burbulak family!
April 21, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with The Bailey Family. Sincerely, Peter, Jessica, P.J. and Andrew Zulin
Alice
April 21, 2009
Ralphie boy- you are the best! I will
miss you buddy. We had alot of good
times and laughs.
Love, Alice (Kramden)
Michele Peaney
April 21, 2009
The presence can be felt through the memories and everytime you look at his beautiful daughter. Confort and prayers out the the Bailey Family. Rest in peace Ralphie Boy!!!
Robert Vargo
April 21, 2009
Ralphie i looked to you as a best friend and a part of my family me and mom miss you alot! you helped with big and little things when i needed help. Thank you! and may you rest in peace!
Frank and Judy Greco
April 21, 2009
Our condolences to the Bailey family. Ralphie, you will be missed and remembered. God Bless.
shanon vargo
April 21, 2009
Ralph I can't imagine life without you. You will be so missed and you were loved by so by so many.You were taken from us to soon.My deepest sympathies go out to Kathy,Karen, Janice and his daughters.
John Nayduch
April 21, 2009
RIP RALPH,BUDDIES will never be the same without you!!! GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!!!
April 20, 2009
Kathy, Karen, Janice & family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Our deepest Sympathy.
Grace & Steve Toth (Pohl)
Eddie Pajak
April 20, 2009
Ralph, rest in peace my friend and my deepest sympathy to all of the Bailey family.
Keri Schafer
April 20, 2009
Rest in peace Ralph, you will be missed. You are now in a better place with God. My deepest sympathy to The Bailey Family & May God be with you during this difficult time.
Frank Diaz
April 20, 2009
Ralph-Rest in peace. My condolences to the Bailey family; Kathy, Karen and Janice.
Greg
April 20, 2009
My condolences to Ralph and his family. Rest in peace and god bless.
Kathy & Andy Howard
April 20, 2009
Words cannot express the sadness we are feeling. Ralphie, You were one in a million. We have shared alot of laughs, and this is what I will remember and miss the most. Our deepest sympathy to the Bailey Family.
Danielle Viering
April 20, 2009
As his neices' friend, I spent much time with Ralph. I know he will be missed by everyone. He always knew how to make people laugh. Ralph was a man with a big and kind heart. My thoughts are with his family and friends. I'll miss you.
Kathy Meyer
April 20, 2009
Ralphie-Boy you will really be Missed you Touch All of Our Hearts in your Own Special way. Sorry you had to leave us so young. To The Baily Family We Are so Sorry For You Loss. The Meyer Family
KENNETH WULLE
April 20, 2009
I'M SO SORRY FOR YOUR FAMILY LOSS.RALPH IS A GREAT PERSON AND WILL BE TRULY MISSED.
Kevin
April 20, 2009
We have not lost a friend in death; we have just entered into the next phase of our relationship with him. This is the phase of remembrance.
Over the next few days, weeks, months, even years, we will all touch something, hear something or see something, and we will think of Ralph ... Do not be afraid of any of these moments, for these moments are the jewels of Ralph’s life that he has given us. These are Ralph’s legacy ...
My condolences to Ralph's family and friends. May God stand by you all in your time of grief.
melody burrows
April 20, 2009
There are no words to express our sadness at this time our thoughts and prayers go out to Mrs.Bailey, Karen and Janice and family Ralph was one of the best , always a smile, a big hearted man always having a good laugh we will miss him so very much, we spent alot of time with ralphie over the years and each time was always the best he was taken away from all of us way too soon, god has his reasons , so at night look up into the sky and the biggest star you see you will know its ralphie, rest in peace Ralph we love you and will miss you Russ and Melody
Bob & Gail Casazza
April 20, 2009
Our condolences to Ralph's family and the Bailey family. Rest in peace.
April 20, 2009
Ralph was a good guy with a big heart. We will miss him very much. We are so sorry for your loss. Richie and Debbie Fredricks
Sue Mills
April 20, 2009
Ralphie, you were taken much too young. May you rest in peace. You will be missed.
Keith & Karen McGee
April 20, 2009
Our condolences to the family and friends of Ralph. May God bless you and stand by you in your grief.
sherry halas
April 20, 2009
Ralphie boy --We are surely going to miss you. Many good memories with you. May God bless and keep us all together till we meet again .Love you always The Halas,s
Melissa
April 20, 2009
Ralphie ~ You will be missed!
TOM&ELLEN ADAMEC
April 20, 2009
WE ARE SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS,WHILE NO ONE CAN EASE THE PAIN, THERE IS STRENGH IN NUMBERS. AND EVEN HERE IN NORTH CAROLINA YOU HAVE NUMBERS
Renee Coppola Rondeau
April 20, 2009
Ralph will truly be missed!! I have know Ralpie since Arleth school. He was always kind and sweet. My condolences for his daughter and family.
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