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Alexandra C. "Alex" Selfridge
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Beloved wife of 12 years to Douglas Selfridge; devoted daughter of Lisa (nee Boyle) and the late Vincent Conway; loving daughter-in-law of Steve and Michele Selfridge; cherished granddaughter of the late James and Elizabeth Boyle, and Marie and the late Thomas Conway; dear sister-in-law of Ronessa (Benjamin) Acquesta, and treasured aunt of Emily and Julia. Alex is also survived by many loving extended family members and friends.
Born in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania to Lisa and the late Vincent Conway, Alex was raised in Mount Laurel, prior to moving to Turnersville 12 years ago. After graduating from the University of Delaware in 2010, Alex went on to become a project coordinator with Cogent Communications where she worked for 11 years.
A fighter and hero to many, Alex was her own best advocate. Through many struggles, Alex fought hard to maintain her independence. Whether she was at home, at doctors' appointments in Pittsburgh, on a weekend trip with family, or down the shore in Avalon or Ventnor, she always carried a wonderful sense of humor and a smile that would light up a room. Alex enjoyed reading a good book, going to concerts, and selecting clothes and shoes that showed off her impeccable style. Most of all, Alex loved animals. She was always quick to point out bunny rabbits or feed the birds in her yard, and she adored spending time with her dogs, Lincoln and Reagan. Alex was truly one of a kind and will be missed dearly by those who knew and loved her.
Relatives and friends are invited to attend Alex's visitation on Saturday, February 8, 2025, 9:00 AM - 12:00 PM at the Mount Laurel Home for Funerals, 212 Ark Road, Mount Laurel, NJ, where the Funeral Ceremony will follow at 12:00 PM. Interment will take place privately.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in Alex's name to , 32 Strawberry Hill Court, Stamford, CT 06902; please make checks payable to CF Project.
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Maria Pacifico Ruth
March 5, 2025
My heart breaks for you as you navigate this unimaginable sorrow. Alex´s legacy will forever be remembered.
Shelly Blackstone
February 11, 2025
Doug & Lisa,
It is with my heartfelt condolences be given to you both in the loss of your beloved Alex. What a gem, such a kind, sweet, loving soul but most of all a courageous fighter in her battle during her illness.
She will be sorely missed for sure. Lifting you both up in prayer.
Cherish the memories you both had with her.
Weeping will endure for a night, but JOY will come in the morning. He didn´t say what morning but He promises us that it will come.
Warm Regards,
Shelly Blackstone
Donna Stagliano Swetsky
February 10, 2025
With heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your sweet Alex. She will live on in your memories-and always in your heart.
-Steve and Donna (Stagliano) Swetsky
Betty Wilson
February 5, 2025
Meeting her for the 1st time in Las Vegas for a Cogent Kick Off Meeting she was not shy and was straight forward. She had a spark that ignited and motivated any room. Her outlook on everything was always positive and she was a true inspiration and fighter she is and will be missed. Prayers and condolences to all of the family.
Betty Wilson
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John Kendall
February 4, 2025
Condolences and prayers to Doug and family. She was a beautiful person inside and out.
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