Aubrey Denisford Dandy, 82, of Charlotte, NC passed away on February 14, 2025.
Aubrey was born in St. James, Jamaica on July 18, 1942 to the late Edith Fray.
Along with his parents Aubrey is preceded in death by his son Winston Dandy.
He is survived by his daughter Jacqueline Royal of Charlotte, NC and his two sons Roger Dandy and Vincent Dandy in Jamaica.
In his early years, he worked as a cook on a ship in Germany to support his wife and children back in Jamaica. After that, he settled in New Jersey working as a restaurant cook for 30 years. Aubrey continued to work into early retirement age as a part-time custodial staff at the local community college. He will be remembered and missed by his family and friends
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