Barbara Jean Estlow

Barbara Jean Estlow obituary, Manasquan, NJ

Barbara Jean Estlow

Barbara Estlow Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Orender Family Home on Dec. 18, 2025.
Barbara J. Estlow, 77, of Manasquan, passed away on Tuesday December 16, 2025, at Jersey Shore University Medical Center, Neptune, NJ. Barbara was born in Elizabeth and had lived in Manasquan for 64 years. She was a dedicated homemaker, class mom, assistant soccer coach, and a member of the Wall Booster Club. Barbara was a secretary for JCP&L for many years, and that is where she met her husband, Thomas. She was also a secretary for the Boro of Manasquan.

Barbara was predeceased by her husband Thomas Estlow, and parents Howard and Stella McKeon. She is survived by sons Todd Estlow and Patrick Estlow and granddaughter Emerson.. Barbara also leaves behind her two siblings: Patricia Findlay (Harry) and Howard McKeon (Linda), as well as two nieces Mandy and Meri and two nephews Chris and Matt.

Family and friends are invited to attend a memorial visitation on Monday December 22, 2025, from 3:00 pm to 6:00 pm at Orender Family Home for Funerals 2643 Old Bridge Road Manasquan, NJ 08736. There will be a prayer service at 5 pm. Inurnment of ashes will be private at St Anne Cemetery, Wall Township, NJ. To send condolences to the family please visit www.orenderfamilyhome.net.

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Kathy Martone

December 19, 2025

Todd, Patrick, Pat and the rest of the family,
I am truly shocked to learn of Barbara´s passing. We were close friends for many years. I am sending you my condolences and prayers. I will always remember all the good times we had and how she would always make me laugh. Keep the good memories in your hearts.

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