Brian Joseph Fay

Brian Joseph Fay obituary, Quincy, MA

Brian Joseph Fay

Brian Fay Obituary

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Brian Joseph Fay, of Abington MA, passed peacefully surrounded by family on Sunday, October 30, 2022, at the age of 58. He was the husband of Michele (Palmer) Fay, of Abington and loving father to Brianna (Fay) Noble and her husband Paul Noble, of Abington, and Christopher Fay, of Abington.
Born in Boston MA on July 1, 1964, he was a son of the late Michael Fay and the late Geraldine (Cronin) Fay. Raised in Weymouth along side his 5 siblings, Brian was a 1982 graduate of North Weymouth High School. Growing up he enjoyed summers at the pool with his friends, cousins, and siblings.
Brian went on to build a 40-year career in environmental services, travelling throughout the country restoring the devastation left behind by natural disasters. His most impactful job being his time spent at Ground Zero following the 9/11 terrorist attacks. Due to the elements he was exposed to there, Brian would later develop interstitial lung disease, a devastating diagnosis that found him oxygen dependent.
In August of 2019, Brian received a life-saving double lung transplant. A procedure that gave him three more years with his family and loved ones. Brian spent those years becoming an adoring grandfather to Charlie Noble and Avery Noble. He looked forward to coffee hour with the family at his sister Rosemarie's home on Sunday mornings. Golfing and spending nights at the Knights of Columbus with his son and childhood friend Eric McCarthy, where Brian was a proud member for over 20 years. Brian also spent many hours donating his time to the various causes and events run by the Knights. He enjoyed watching hockey and football games in the she-shed with his neighbor and friend Lenny Paoletta. And Friday night dinners with his wife, children, and grandchildren. And more recently, Brian enjoyed his long road trips with his brother Mike.
Brian was fortunate to be surrounded by so many loved ones who were there to help Brian and his family navigate this difficult health journey. We would like to thank those for all they have done.
Brian was survived by his siblings; Marianne Sheppard and brother-in-law Kevin Sheppard of Abington MA, Michael Fay and his wife Patty Fay of Wilmington MA, Richard Fay of Palm Coast, FL, Rosemarie Brown and her husband Craig Brown of Norwell MA, Kathleen Austrino and her husband Dominic Austrino of Palm Coast, FL. Brian is also survived by many nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.
Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to visiting hours on Sunday November 6, 2022 from 2-6 PM in the McDonald Keohane Funeral Home SOUTH WEYMOUTH at 809 Main Street (Rte 18 opp. So. Shore Hospital). A Funeral Mass will be held at St. Albert the Great Church in Weymouth at 11 AM on Monday November 7, 2022. Burial will follow in Mt. Vernon Cemetery in Abington.

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McDonald Keohane Funeral Home - South

809 Main Street, South Weymouth, MA 02190

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November 22, 2022

Caleb posted to the memorial.

November 15, 2022

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November 6, 2022

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Caleb

November 22, 2022

May you rest in peace B Fay. Will always remember the challenging debates over response strategies and will forever hold your memory as one of a highly regarded and respected professional. My condolences to the family - always remember the positive impacts.

Paul Donahoe

November 15, 2022

Blessed to have known you and your family. Fortunate to have had you as a neighbor. Proud to have had you as a collaborator in hi-jinx and shenanigans. Lucky to have had the privilege to call you "friend". No one could ever forget you Brian, and I know I never will. The memories, like you, are as clear as day and as bright as the sun.

Brian Chapman

November 6, 2022

Michelle and Family,

We would like to pass along our deepest Condolences. I will never forget those wonderful times at the Clean Harbors Softball games. Brian was always able to make things happen. R.I.P My friend.

Neil & Tammy Akusis

November 5, 2022

Michele, Brianna, Chris, Paul, Charlie & Avery you all have your own Super Hero watching over you & keeping you safe. Brian was such an amazing person , we are all blessed to have known him. Brian, May you rest in the sweetest of peace.

Mark Chambers

November 5, 2022

Michele and families prayers to all of you. It saddens my Heart to hear of "Brian“s passing. He was and still is one of the "Best Persons " in the response services, That I had the Privilege of working with.
Mark Chambers. Fellow Worker

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Jo, OB, Kellie and Nick

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Siji George

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Robert Chambers

November 3, 2022

Michelle, Brianna, Chris and families,
My warmest thoughts and deepest prayers are with you at this time. "B" was a good friend and colleague for the 28 plus years I have had the opportunity to know him. We shared many laughs along the way! Peace!

Robert Chambers
Friend and colleague

Dave Galvin

November 3, 2022

Michelle and Family, i'm very sorry to hear about Brian. I will always cherish the great times that we had working together, and spending time together as friends. May God bless you and your family during this difficult time.

Mary Hannon

November 2, 2022

Michele Fay & Family, BFay touched more lives than he ever knew. Thank you for the fond memories of Clean Harbors softball. God speed dear Brian

Mary Ford Hannon

Patricia A Ganley

November 2, 2022

Brian, My Favorite One. Rest Now.
You will be Missed by Many. Love, Auntie Pat

Rick Gately

November 2, 2022

To the Fay & Ganley Families - I am so sorry to hear about Brian but grateful for all of the fun childhood memories that we all shared!! Rick Gately

Faithful Blessings Bouquet - VASE INCLUDED

Stephanie Haughey

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Eternal Affection Arrangement- BASKET INCLUDED

Johno

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Howard Ray

November 2, 2022

Michelle and Family,

So sorry for your loss, "BFay" of "Fayso" was a top notch individual, fantastic co-worker and a good friend

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