Brian D. "Big Daddy" Fuelling

Brian D. "Big Daddy" Fuelling obituary, Shelby Township, MI

Brian D. "Big Daddy" Fuelling

Brian Fuelling Obituary

Published by Legacy on Oct. 9, 2025.
Brian D. Fuelling, lovingly known as "Big Daddy," passed away on September 18, 2025, at Corewell Health in Royal Oak, Michigan. A longtime resident of Royal Oak, Brian was 61 years old.
He was born on February 5, 1964, in Jefferson City, Missouri, to his parents, Merle and Phyllis Fuelling. Brian began his career in environmental services at Beaumont Hospital in Royal Oak, Michigan, and spent over three decades there, eventually serving as a secretary in the emergency room. His dedication, kindness, and calming presence made him not just a coworker but a beloved team member and friend to all who had the privilege of working alongside him.
Brian was known for his big heart, great sense of humor, and deep love for people-especially the friends he called his chosen family. He also shared a special bond with his loyal dog, Budders, who was always by his side.
Brian is survived by his son, his father, stepmother, brothers, sister and in-laws, his closest friends, and many extended family members, friends, and colleagues who will remember him for the joy he brought into their lives.
In honor of Brian's life and legacy, memorial donations may be made to the Sarcoma Foundation of America, supporting research and care for those affected by the disease.
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