Brian J Toht

Brian J Toht obituary, Sayreville, NJ

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Brian Toht Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Carmen F. Spezzi Funeral Home on Dec. 9, 2025.
Brian J. Toht, age 52, of Sayreville, passed away on December 8, 2025, at Raritan Bay Medical Center in Perth Amboy. Born in New Brunswick, Brian grew up in South River, where he spent most of his life before making Sayreville his home five years ago. He worked as a chemical operator for Lanxess in Woodbridge for the last five years. Brian was a fun, easygoing, and deeply likable guy-someone whose personality drew people in and whose presence made every gathering better. Family and friends were at the center of his world. He liked traveling, trips to Atlantic City, days at the beach, boating, and enjoyed being a foodie. To all who knew him, Brian was the kind of person who made life lighter and brighter, and he will be profoundly missed.

He is predeceased by his father, Ronald Toht Sr. Surviving are, the love of his life, Sueann McCloskey; his mother, Josephine Toht; his brothers, Ronald Toht Jr. and Thomas Toht and his wife Alissa; his niece and nephews, Taylor, Trevor, and Tommy; his stepdaughter, Samantha Stary; his beloved dog Callie; and many extended family members and dear friends.

Visitation will be held on Saturday, December 13, 2025, from 12pm to 4pm at the Carmen F. Spezzi Funeral Home, 15 Cherry Lane, Parlin. A private cremation will follow.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in Brian's name to the ASPCA at www.ASPCA.org.

Brian's legacy will continue with the generous gift of life through organ and tissue donation

Complete arrangements, directions, and messages of condolence may be found at www.spezzifuneralhome.com.

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December 9, 2025

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Robert Blaszka

December 10, 2025

Sorry for your loss! I remember when you said ( hey Bob, let´s take your car down to the pits! ) Why did I listen when this 14 yr was laughing at me the whole time!

David Tender

December 10, 2025

I´m shocked and saddened by this. He´s one of the best guys I know. Always good for a good laugh and a great friend. First met him playing baseball in JFK. Been friends w him ever since. God Bless.

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