Bruce Nelson

Bruce Nelson obituary

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Bruce Nelson Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by DeFiore Funeral & Cremation Service on Sep. 29, 2025.

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Bruce Nelson: A Life of Humor, Heart, and Humanity
Bruce Nelson, a creative and patient soul who gave generously to the world throughout his 76 years, was born on November 27, 1948, in Chippewa Falls, Wisconsin. He departed this life peacefully on September 18, 2025. He was preceded in death by his mother, Elaine Szep Miller, stepfather Irving Millier and father Wanye Nelson.
In his early childhood, Bruce's family moved to Illinois, a transition that would shape the course of his life, paving the way for the enduring friendships he cultivated, especially during his remarkable 42-year tenure at United Airlines.
Bruce was the kind of friend who could elevate any moment with his clever wit and quiet charm. At United Airlines, (UAL) he served with distinction, becoming a beloved friend to flight attendants, pilots, ramp agents, and countless passengers. His quirky humor and gentle demeanor made him a beacon of light in even the most stressful situations. His presence soothed and his laughter sparked joy.
Bruce's creativity was boundless. He channeled his artistic spirit into cartooning and built a business around whimsical, clever buttons that became legendary among his UAL peers.
Whether in the terminal or on the tarmac, his designs brought smiles and sparked connection.
He truly embodied the spirit of the "friendly skies," extending that warmth to the snowy slopes of Colorado, where he refined both his skiing and his signature subtle flirtation. Bruce's empathy ran deep. He listened intently, guided gently, and offered thoughtful support to anyone seeking direction. Though he didn't suffer fools, he always made space for kindness.
In retirement, Bruce devoted himself to caring for his parents while gracefully adapting to the challenges of declining vision. As those challenges deepened, a devoted circle of friends rallied around him with unwavering support. Brian Wendtlant became his steadfast advocate, managing Bruce's affairs with care and precision when his eyesight no longer allowed. Sue and Eddie Opitz, Jan Brown, Steve Maglich, and his half-brother Ed (Danette) Nelson formed a loving team that ensured Bruce was never without companionship or help.
His cousin Russ Szep's annual visits from the East were a cherished tradition, filled with laughter, shared memories of childhood mischief, and their always enjoyable lunch at Portillos, a ritual that became a highlight of Bruce's year.
In 2020, as the world grappled with COVID, Bruce reconnected with an old friend, Marcy Piekos. Their rekindled friendship brought unexpected joy and light to his final five years, a gift neither of them anticipated but both cherished deeply.
Bruce's legacy is one of humor, heart, and humanity. He leaves behind a constellation of friends, colleagues, and loved ones who are better for having known him and who will carry his spirit forward with laughter, compassion, and creativity.
A Celebration of Life will be held at the Schaumburg Golf Club on October 16th, from 4:00 to 7:00 p.m. Friends and loved ones are invited to gather, reflect, and share the many fun, tender, and unmistakably "Bruce" stories that made him so unforgettable.
In lieu of flowers, please enjoy lunch with a friend or help a friend in need.

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Upcoming Events

Oct

16

Celebration of Life

4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Schaumburg Golf Club

Schaumburg, IL

Send Flowers