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C.D. Carter Desmond Carter obituary, Matthews, NC

C.D. Carter Desmond Carter

C.D. Carter Carter Obituary

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C.D. Carter, Jr., born on September 12, 1940, in Clinton, North Carolina, passed away peacefully on May 12, 2025, in Charlotte, North Carolina surrounded and comforted by his family.  He lived a life enriched with purpose, love, and devotion to his family and community.

C.D. embarked on his professional journey in 1960 when he began working at General Electric. His career evolved over the years, leading him to Walker Parkersburg (Textron) in 1967, where he continued to hone his skills. By 1979, he had founded the Carter-York-Agency, carving a niche for himself in the business world. C.D. was also known for his keen interest in investing in real estate, demonstrating a forward-thinking approach to securing a prosperous future for his family.

C.D. was educated at Clinton High School, graduating in 1958 before pursuing business and accounting classes at UNC-Charlotte. His commitment to learning laid the foundation for his successful career. However, it was not just his professional life that defined him; C.D. was also a man of deep faith and genuine character. He was known for his positive attitude and sense of humor, qualities that endeared him to many. He was a mentor to others and never met a stranger. He tried to see the best in people and was always willing to give someone a chance. These qualities helped him foster friendships that spanned a lifetime.

On June 4, 1961, C.D. married the love of his life, Margret Owen Spell. The couple's love story began at Williams Lake in Sampson County in 1960, a memory they cherished throughout their decades together. C.D. always said the best decision he ever made was to marry Margaret.  Together, they built a beautiful family, which includes their son Desi Carter and his wife Carolyn, and their daughter Dianne Barbee and her husband Mark. C.D. took immense pride in his grandchildren—Nicole Osborne and her husband Nate, Phillip Carter, Olivia Voeltz and her husband Matt, James Ryan Barbee, and Zack Barbee—as well as his great-grandchildren, Avery Voeltz, Grant Voeltz, Jack Osborne, and Emma Osborne. He also embraced his step-grandchildren, Melissa Barbee and Amanda Barbee Phillips.  He showered them all with love and support.

C.D.is also survived by his beloved sister, Dorothy Phillips Tyndall, as well as numerous nieces and nephews who held a special place in his heart. He was proceeded in death by his father, C.D. Carter, Sr.; his mother, Penny Carter; his sister, Wanda Carter Arven; and brother, George Carter. He also mourned the loss of his great-granddaughter, baby Adelyn Voeltz. 

Outside of work and family, C.D. enjoyed traveling, golfing, and immersing himself in country gospel and bluegrass music with his band the Rae Road Boys.  His passions added depth to his life, bringing joy to his heart and to those around him.

A Celebration of Life will be held on May 27, 2025, at Central Church, located at 5301 Sardis Rd., Charlotte, NC 28270, starting at 11:00 AM. Following the service, a reception will take place from 12:00 PM to 1:00 PM at the same location.

C.D. Carter, Jr. will be remembered as a devoted husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather and friend who left an enduring legacy characterized by love, faith, and genuine kindness. His impact on those who had the privilege to know him will be felt for years to come.

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Stephenson & Gaskin Funeral Services

14617 West Lawyers Rd. #B, Matthews, NC 28104

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