Carl F. Shaffer

Carl F. Shaffer, "Fred" (as his wife lovingly called him), age 87, a 38-year resident of Naperville, IL, passed away peacefully on January 9, 2026, surrounded by the love of his family. He was born on October 7, 1938 in Johnstown, PA.
Carl is survived by his devoted wife of 63 years, Louise; his loving children, Russell (Karen) Shaffer of Moyock, NC, Janet (Bill) McLaughlin of Plainfield, IL, and Caryl (States) Mead of Naperville, IL; his cherished grandchildren, Alexander (Chelsey) Shaffer, Jacob (fiancée Ginny) McLaughlin, Andrew (Marian) Shaffer, Daniel McLaughlin, Alyssa, Carter, and Logan Mead, and great-grandchildren, Grayson and Leo Schultz; as well as his dear sister, Barbara Connor.
He was preceded in death by his parents Fred and Irene Shaffer, and his brother, James Shaffer.
Carl was raised in Johnstown and proudly called it home throughout his early years. He graduated from Johnstown High School before continuing his education at Carnegie Tech (now Carnegie Mellon University) and later earned his bachelor's degree from the University of Pittsburgh. Carl honorably served his country in the United States Army, a commitment he carried with pride throughout his life. One of his most meaningful recent experiences was participating in an Honor Flight, an experience that deeply touched him and affirmed the gratitude felt for his service.
Carl dedicated more than 30 years of his life to a fulfilling career as a mechanical engineer. Outside of work, he found true happiness in the simple pleasures-working with his hands through woodworking, tending to his garden, and enjoying the peace those hobbies brought him. Above all else, Carl's greatest joy was his family. He was a devoted husband, a loving and supportive father, and a proud grandfather who treasured every moment spent with those he loved most.
Carl was known for his generous spirit and his unwavering habit of putting others before himself. He was always thinking of those around him, often reaching out with a card, letter, or text simply to let someone know they were remembered and cared for. These small but meaningful gestures reflected the deep kindness that defined his life.
A faithful servant, Carl found true purpose in giving back to his community and church. He served quietly and consistently, never seeking recognition, and in doing so left a lasting legacy of compassion, humility, and service that will continue to inspire all who knew him.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Carl's name to Honor Flight Chicago. In addition to memorial donations, the family asks that you honor Carl's memory by performing an act of kindness for someone else, just as he so faithfully did throughout his life.
A private inurnment will be held at a future date at Abraham Lincoln Cemetery, Elwood, IL.
Friedrich-Jones Funeral Home & Cremation Services, Naperville, was entrusted with arrangements.