The Hon. Carl E. Taylor

The Hon. Carl E. Taylor obituary

The Hon. Carl E. Taylor

Carl Taylor Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Molloy Funeral Home - West Hartford on Oct. 3, 2025.

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The Honorable Carl E. Taylor, 69, of West Hartford, died on October 1, 2025, after an extended illness. Born in Washington, D.C., on July 21, 1956, he was the son of Orlene and John Willis Taylor, Sr. From the age of four, Carl spent his childhood and teenage years helping his father in the family garage. By the time he was a teen, clients often asked whether Carl was available to work on their vehicle. He attended the Taft School for two years and spent his final two years of high school at the Bullis School in Maryland. He graduated from Wesleyan University in 1978 with a double major in History and Sociology and was a member of both the Wesleyan Football and Lacrosse teams. No one was a greater fan of Wesleyan Lacrosse and when, in 2020, Wesleyan won the NCAA Lacrosse Championship, Carl was extremely proud to be one of the people photographed holding the trophy. Carl graduated from the University of Connecticut School of Law in 1981 and in 1982, began a 43-year-career serving the people of the state of Connecticut within the criminal and juvenile justice system. He served for 19 years as an Assistant State's Attorney, in both New Britain and Hartford. During this time, the New Britain Police Department gave him an award for his service in teaching seminars to educate police officers on legal issues. In 2001, he was appointed to the bench. His appointment to the judiciary was a source of immense pride for his family, who cherished his professional achievements and lifelong commitment to justice, fairness and service. He presided as a judge for 24 years in numerous locations and positions, including Hartford G.A. 14 and J.D., Hartford Juvenile, Manchester G.A. 12, Meriden G.A. 7 and J.D., the Regional Child Protective Session Court in Middletown, New Britain G.A. 15 and J.D., New Britian Juvenile, Rockville G.A. 19, Rockville Juvenile, and Waterbury Juvenile. In 2024, the New Britain Bar Association awarded him the Liberty Award for 42 years of public service. Carl's true love in life was youth lacrosse. He coached middle school teams for West Hartford Youth Lacrosse for 42 years, coaching hundreds of youths, including the sons of players he had coached in previous decades. In 2016, he was inducted into the Connecticut Lacrosse Hall of Fame in recognition of his service as a coach. He followed those players, watching them play for Conard or Hall High or the Kingswood Oxford School and for various colleges. He is survived by his wife, Shari J. Cantor, his son, John W. Taylor, III, his nephew, Gilbert Bussey, Jr. and wife, Teresa Bussey and children, Camile and Caden Bussey, his best friend, the Honorable Nicola Rubinow, and many cousins, nieces, nephews, friends and colleagues. He was predeceased by his parents, his brothers, Robert, Lloyd, and John Willis Taylor, Jr., and his sister, Jane Bussey. The family wishes to thank all the staff at UConn John Dempsey Hospital for their exemplary care for him during his hospitalizations during the last three months of his life. In lieu of flowers, donations in Carl's memory can be made to Wesleyan University at https://www.wesleyan.edu/giving/. His funeral will take place at Fairview Cemetery, 200 Whitman Avenue, West Hartford at 11:00 am, Monday, October 6, 2025.

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Larry Ellsworth

October 7, 2025

I was a member of the vaunted Raiders lax squad alongside Carl. He gave me the nickname "Slash" not for my blazing speed or race car cornering (I had neither) but in recognition of my propensity to commit needless fouls. A man who saw the truth and spoke of it with good humor! Although we were not close, I remember Carl fondly. May he rest in peace, and may his family and friends treasure his memory.

Bruce Tonkonow

October 7, 2025

I met Carl on the first day of law school at UConn and we remained friends for decades. His sense of humor was contagious; his sense of fairness and compassion was a judicial model. Our paths crossed when he sat on the bench at the Superior Court for Juvenile in Hartford and I supervised the State's Attorney's Office. When my daughter attended his alma mater Wesleyan he never failed to ask how she was doing.
We spent numerous autumn Saturdays together at Corwin Field where he was a regular fixture watching football and sharing Lacrosse stories.
As many have mentioned, he had a booming laugh as well as a quick wit.
I will miss him.

Ellen A. Morgan

October 6, 2025

Please accept my deepest condolences. Judge Taylor was a force to be reckoned with in the courtroom.

Jennifer Kellie

October 5, 2025

Coach Taylor,
Thank you for being there for my son with Lacrosse. You not only gave guidance on the field but in life. You helped me with words of kindness and wisdom when it came to my career and life. You were an among the most amazing men to look up too. Thank you for everything you did for my family

Jenn and Aiden Kellie

John Herzfeld `78

October 5, 2025

As a college classmate of Carl´s and the goalie for the Red Raiders JV lacrosse team behind Carl´s defense (thanks, Mac, for our name: "Raiders!"), I feel privileged to join in celebrating his life. Just yesterday I was telling a friend who´d grown up in central Connecticut about our team´s exploits. What he went on to be - noted judge, longtime youth coach - is exemplary. And that garage full of used lacrosse gear for kids to borrow, that´s pure Carl Taylor. What a spirit, and what a voice. We are blessed with the memories of our time together.

Trudy Condio

October 5, 2025

So very sorry to hear of his Honor's passing. I appeared before him many many times. He'd yell at me on the bench but when he had a minute, he ALWAYS asked me how my grandchildren were and did I have pictures for him to see. Judge Taylor you were always larger than life. God speed.

Catherine and Mark Capuano

October 4, 2025

Dear Shari,

Mark and I were saddened to learn that Carl had passed away. Our memories of time spent with you and Carl are fond ones. Thinking of you and wishing you peace.

Cathy & Mark Capuano

Francine Hegel

October 4, 2025

So saddened to hear about Judge Taylor's passing! I enjoyed the time we worked together at Juvenile Court in Middletown . He had a great laugh and it was infectious! He always asked how my family was doing. He will be missed! My condolences to his family!

Pastor Sylvia D. Reid-Chappell, Esq.

October 4, 2025

He will be truly missed in the halls and behind the benches of all the court houses for which he served. Respected him so highly. He was honest and down to earth. He was a wonderful mentor for all lawyers.

Pat McQuillan, teammate.

October 4, 2025

Wont soon forget the sheet hanging out the window overlooking the football field: "Carl Taylor: #68 (I think) in your program, and #1 in your heart." Wish I had a photo.

Bill Ahern

October 3, 2025

Carl was one of the first people I got to know at Wesleyan. We both were on the football team and had lockers near one another. There was never a dull moment with Carl. He had a great sense of humor and kept us entertained season after season. He could also play football very well. He was a great man even then and liked by all. It was no surprise that he accomplished so much. He will be missed by all of his teammates.

Janice Wolf

October 3, 2025

I worked with Judge Taylor in the early 2000s when he was in GA12. His smile and laughter were infectious. So sorry for your loss.

Paul Rotiroti

October 3, 2025

Carl was a wonderful mentor to me and to so many others I owe him a debt of gratitude that I could never repay. He always gave so freely of his advice and knowledge. He made all of us better prosecutors and better people. The people of Connecticut, particularly the people of New Britain, should also be forever grateful to Carl for his commitment to public safety. It was an honor to know him and to call him a friend.

Paul Rotiroti

Steve Preleski

October 3, 2025

A wonderful man and dedicated public servant. He accomplished so much for so many people. Rest In Peace my friend.
Steve Preleski

Stanley Fuger

October 3, 2025

I had the privilege to serve with Carl for several years. I will miss his deep booming voice and friendship and genuine humanity. He was a spectacular role model and compassionate human being. Our state judiciary is greatly diminished by his passing. Sail on, my friend.

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