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Carla Jean Calisay - Wetselline
1976 - 2024
Carla Jean Calisay - Wetselline
1976 - 2024
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BORN
1976
DIED
2024
Carla Wetselline Obituary
Carla Jean Calisay - Wetselline, 48, passed away on September 23, 2024, in Oklahoma City, OK. She was born on March 2, 1976, to Gerald Lee & Ladonna Capes Calisay, in Lawton, OK. She grew up in Anadarko, attending school at Riverside Indian School. Carla enjoyed spending her time doing crafts, helping others, volunteering, and spending time with her family. She was a member of Grace Christian Fellowship and a member of the Kiowa Tribe. She will be dearly missed by all who knew and loved her.
Survivors include:
Children: Ella Calisay - Grant & husband, Toisharvis, OKC, OK
Parran Burrus, Jr., Anadarko, OK
Gracie Calisay, OKC, OK
Belicia Wetselline & companion, Eusebio Zamacoma, Anadarko, OK
Ronald Wetselline III, Anadarko, OK
Zoe Wetselline, OKC, OK
Vanessa Wetselline, OKC, OK
Grandchildren: TraOndre Hopgood, Anadarko, OK
Alexander Calisay, Anadarko, OK
Isaac Calisay, Anadarko, OK
Sisters: Charlotte Lastier & husband, Bill, Haysville, KS
Katherine Calisay, Haysville, KS
Kristi Martin & husband, Perry, Peck, KS
Kimberly Baxter & husband, David, Peck, KS
Dawn Mammedaty & husband, Cecil Autaubo, Anadarko, OK
Melanie Pahcoddy & husband, Bud, Anadarko, OK
Brother: Carlos Calisay, Anadarko, OK
A host of other grandchildren, nieces, nephews, cousins, & friends.
Preceded in death by her parents: Gerald Lee & Ladonna Capes Calisay, and grandma Ella Tointigh Calisay.
Funeral Service: 11:00 a.m., Monday, September 30, 2024
First Baptist Church, Anadarko
Visitation: 1:00 - 8:00 p.m., Sunday, September 29, 2024
Ray & Martha's Funeral Home, Anadarko
Interment: Memory Lane Cemetery, Anadarko
Under the direction of Ray & Martha's Funeral Home, Anadarko, OK
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