Carolyn Fagan Brimer

Carolyn Fagan Brimer obituary, Conroe, TX

Carolyn Fagan Brimer

Carolyn Brimer Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Conroe Funeral Directors on Oct. 1, 2025.

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Carolyn Fagan Brimer
December 19, 1961 - September 14, 2025
Carolyn was born on December 19, 1961 in Quanah, Texas to Archie and Florence Fagan. She attended Smiley High School in Houston, Texas where she learned to play and love softball. Carolyn married the love of her life David Leon Brimer on December 30, 2010 in Conroe, TX. Although Carolyn had worked throughout her life, she made a career out of being a wife, mother, nana and friend.
She loved spending time with her beautiful family, deeply loved her momma and daddy. She spent her days taking care of her momma and family. She enjoyed watching Fox News, the Hallmark channel and football, but Carolyn loved thrift shopping. She was a devout Christian who loved Jesus, disliked anyone who was heard swearing. She was famous for the phrases "watch your mouth," "love you back" and on the funnier side "kingchingwangpow."
She loved her sons Johnny, Joey, David Jr., and Josh. Thought her grandbabies walked on water. Carolyn loved everyone. She was the foundation of strength, love and glue of her family.
She was preceded in death by her father Archie Fagan, brothers Terry, Donnie and Roy Fagan, sister Sandra Fagan Dierlam, brother-in-law Floyd Malena, sister-in-law Reba Fagan, and ex-husband John Pady Sr.
Carolyn left behind her loving husband David Leon Brimer; Sons John Pady and wife Shawna, Joseph Bustamante and wife Whitney; Stepsons David Brimer Jr. and wife Tasha, Joshua Brimer and wife Ashley; her mother Florence Fagan; sister Peggy Malina, and brother-in-law Lawrence Dierlam; 10 Grandchildren Lexi, Brooke, Patrick, Kadince, James, Jamie, Brittney, Riley, Bryson and Brantley and one great granddaughter Paisley. She is also survived by special friends, Raymond Bustamante, Debbie, and Diane as well as many nieces and nephews and friends.
Carolyn will be greatly missed by all that knew and loved her. Meanwhile she will always be that voice in our heads and hearts that says, "Watch your Mouth" and "Love you Back."
Pallbearers:
John Pady, Joseph Bustamante, David Brimer, Josh Brimer, Kevin Malena, Patrick Bustamante
Honorary Pallbearers:
Floyd Malena, Lexi Kauffman, Brooke Kauffman, Kadince Bustamante
Graveside services will be held on Thursday, September 18, 2025 at 10:30 a.m. at Copeland Chapel cemetery with the Rev. Ray Hyden officiating. Visitation will be held on Wednesday, September 17, 2025 from 5:00 -7:00 p.m. at Conroe Funeral Directors.
Reception at John and Shawna's immediately to follow Burial Service at 12508 Green Ridge Dr., Willis, TX 77318
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