Charlie Wedemeyer

Charlie Wedemeyer obituary, San Jose, CA

Charlie Wedemeyer

Charlie Wedemeyer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 3, 2010.
The Associated Press SAN FRANCISCO — Charlie Wedemeyer, a Northern California high school football coach who inspired athletes and others with his long-term battle against Lou Gehrig's disease, died Thursday. He was 64. His wife, Lucy, said he passed away at a San Jose hospital after developing pneumonia following surgery. He was surrounded by family and friends. Wedemeyer grew up in Hawaii, where he earned nine varsity letters in high school, a football scholarship to Michigan State University, then spots on the East-West Shrine Classic and the Hula Bowl. After the marrying Lucy, his high school sweetheart, the couple moved to Northern California where Wedemeyer took a job as a teacher and football coach at Los Gatos High School. While working at the school, Wedemeyer was diagnosed at age 30 with amyotrophic lateral sclerosis, or ALS. At the time, according to family members, he was given one to three years to live. When the disease started taking its toll, Wedemeyer worked out an arrangement with the school where he coached the team from a golf cart and relayed play calls through Lucy to the field. "In the beginning we didn't see anything positive about it, but then we renewed our faith in God and realized we are a tool that can be used to help other people," Lucy said in a 2005 interview with the Honolulu Advertiser. "I think Charlie realized what an awesome responsibility he had been given, that there is a plan and purpose for everything." Despite the disease, Wedemeyer was still able to lead Los Gatos to seven league championships, while posting a 78-18-1 record. His inspirational life story has been chronicled in the PBS documentary "One More Season," the CBS movie "Quiet Victory The Charlie Wedemeyer Story," and a book he and his wife Lucy wrote, "Charlie's Victory." "Pain and suffering are inevitable we all experience it. But misery is an option," Wedemeyer said in 2005. "We do get to make that choice."

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February 19, 2025

Frank Grosso posted to the memorial.

February 6, 2022

Bobby Fisher posted to the memorial.

December 12, 2020

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Frank Grosso

February 19, 2025

I just watched the movie about his life. He certainty was too young. He gave it all he had til the end. It brought tears to my eyes. We were a football family as well. My Son played high school and college football, then became a coach. I will pray for Charlie his wife and children, God bless you all. Frank from Pa.

Bobby Fisher

February 6, 2022

I’ve seen the made for TV movie it was truly inspirational.

Dean Kaya

December 12, 2020

Being from Hawaii I’ve know about Charlie but seeing the documentary enlightened me to so much more. It was a beautiful story of love and power that truly touched me. My prayers and condolences to Lucy and the ohana.

Karen Cauthen

July 15, 2020

Just watched the documentary about your amazing life. What an inspiration you and your whole family is to whomever watches this story about your life. God has used you and is still using your story to inspire others that never had the pleasure of knowing you and your family. May God bless your sweet family left here still on Earth.

Kathy Richards

June 6, 2020

Such a strong story about a man who wouldnt give up and his family that made it possible for him to become an outstanding example of the spirit all of us can have within us. Charlie......a life well lived.

Benjamin Soule

September 12, 2019

Knowing of your life has helped save mine, thank you RIP, tour strength helps me carry on with hope

August 24, 2019

Such an inspiration to us all... Rest well Charlie youve encouraged me, thank you.. Kimberly D Turner

August 24, 2019

Wow! What an amazing, beautiful and awesome story... very inspiring and encouraging. God rest his soul (a beautiful spirit)

Linda Clifford

August 20, 2019

A truly inspirational movie! The strength of charlie and his wife was unbelievable!

August 1, 2019

Inspiration = Charlie Wedemeyer.

Arlynne

April 17, 2019

I just watched the movie and it was truly a inspiring story of one man's battle with an encurable disease and he beat the odds with his faith and determination.

Tannya Zurita

August 24, 2018

I saw your movie today, Quiet Victory.
I wanted to say it touch me.
It shows you that you can keep going, and pursue what you want to accomplish. Regardless, of your situations. You said something aling the lines, we are left to choose in the end.

Diane McLain

March 29, 2018

Your story is an inspiration to me.

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