Darlene Marie Rawling

Darlene Marie Rawling obituary, North Haven, CT

Darlene Marie Rawling

Darlene Rawling Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by North Haven Funeral Home, Inc. on Jun. 6, 2025.
Darlene Marie Rawling, 54, of North Haven passed away peacefully on May 24th, 2025, at Smilow Cancer Hospital after a courageous battle with cancer. Born in New Haven on June 21st, 1970, she was the daughter of Valerie Moore Rawling and Richard Rawling Jr. (Dina). Darlene was a 1988 graduate of North Haven High School and earned her BS in Human Development from UConn in 1992. Darlene's professional career touched countless lives. She worked for many years as a Director of KinderCare Learning Centers in North Haven, Cromwell, and Hamden. Her exemplary leadership skills led her to be assigned to open and accredit several CT KinderCare Centers. Darlene was also the Director of Masonic Child Development Center for many years and most recently worked for Benchmark Senior Living Centers as a Director of Business Administration and Community Human Resources Director. Darlene positively impacted hundreds of children, seniors and families, but none more than her daughter, Brooke Marie Plummer, whom she loved with her entire being. Sister of Valerie Rawling Pierpont (Ed). Aunt of Marissa Pierpont (Shawn Smith), Michael Pierpont (Alexandra Sauro), Olivia Dunham (Rick) and Scott Cushing (Hayley), Great-Aunt of Easton Edward Smith and Hallie Dunham. Also survived by her former husband Kevin Plummer and her beloved pets Belle and Peaches. Darlene was a member of the Wallingford Elks Lodge, enjoyed music, UConn basketball, and being with friends and family (especially her daughter, nieces and nephews) whom she loved unconditionally. Darlene's presence and sense of humor will be deeply missed by all who knew her. Private services have been entrusted to The Havens Family North Haven Funeral Home, 36 Washington Avenue. A celebration of life will be held by the family at a near future date. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to one's favorite animal charity in Darlene's name.
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June 23, 2025

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June 12, 2025

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Sandy Potter

June 23, 2025

Dear Brooke,

I worked at Masonicare with your mom, and my kids attended the child development center. Your mother cared for and watched over those kids and the teachers there with a loving hand, a true "mother hen." She made me feel so comfortable as a parent leaving my babies there. And, I'll never forget she had a gallery of pictures of you, her pride and joy, and gushed about you in the sweetest way! I am so terribly sorry for your loss. There really are no right words other than to say you are in my heart and I pray for comfort for you and your family. I know your mom is looking down with such pride for the kind of young woman you have become and will give you strength.

Tracey Angelo

June 12, 2025

Brooke, Kevin, Valerie and Family, My thoughts and prayers are with all. You know better than anyone else what a gift Darlene was! She was one of the funniest people I ever met and prided herself on her humor. Beyond her wit, she was an incredible friend to me and my family. I will never forget the impact she had on us and will forever be grateful for her friendship, kindness, support and care and compassion for my children.

Wendy Becroft Osgood

June 7, 2025

Darlene was not only a great director but also a wonderful friend to all of us at Masonic Child Development Center She was always upbeat and always looking for a way to make things fun. I will miss your friendship my dear friend but will cherish the memories we made My deepest sympathy to Brooke and family

Katherine Crisci

June 7, 2025

Darlene was the best loved her sense of humor and never missed a beat she was also the best director and a dear friend too I will truly miss her so much

Carol Cortina

June 7, 2025

Darlene was always forthcoming about giving advice to those whom she worked with. Darlene always had a smile on her face.

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