David Etnier Austin

1933 - 2023

David Etnier Austin obituary, 1933-2023, Darien, CT

David Etnier Austin

1933 - 2023

BORN

1933

DIED

2023

David Austin Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 23, 2023.
David Etnier Austin, 90, architect and founding partner of Austin Patterson Disston of South Norwalk, died on February 18 from complications of Alzheimer's. A modernist whose work included private residences and community spaces throughout the Northeast, Austin's designs were thoughtful, innovative, and elegant.

Born in Hartford to Helen Goodwin and A. Everett "Chick" Austin on January 19, 1933, he and his sister, Sally, grew up in a household that offered a unique cultural education. His mother and father, the director of the Wadsworth Atheneum, lived at the center of an exciting artistic world frequented by luminaries such as Alexander Calder, Betty Davis, Gertrude Stein, and Igor Stravinsky.

Mr. Austin was educated at the Kingswood School, Harvard College (B.S.) and the Harvard Graduate School of Design (M. Arch.), where he developed his passion for modern architecture. He began his career with Philip Johnson in New York before opening up his own practice in Connecticut.

Mr. Austin had a vivid imagination, boundless energy, and a zest for life. As a child, he spent countless hours drawing and building models of boats, trains, and airplanes. As a teenager, he began building boats and helped design the prototype for the Castine Class sailboat, which remains an active racing fleet today. While still in college, he crossed the Atlantic Ocean on a 38-foot sailboat using only a sextant and a compass for navigation. As an adult, he enjoyed cruising and racing on the northeast coast and competed in several Bermuda races.

Classical music was a lifelong passion. He was a dedicated violinist, practicing daily in his later years when he had more time. He especially enjoyed chamber music and had a coterie of musician friends with whom he played regularly.

Austin sustained a sense of wonder and curiosity about the world throughout his life. Having majored in physics at Harvard, he followed discoveries in quantum physics with great interest. He particularly welcomed conversations about ideas in science, music, and architecture. He loved to travel and would immerse himself in the history, language, and cuisine of whatever place he visited, especially during regular trips to France and Italy.

A devoted husband and father, Austin and his first wife, Mollie Munro (dec.), had two children, Donald and Laura, who survive him. Mr. Austin also leaves behind his beloved wife and partner, Sandy Falconer, and her three children, Ian, Tonia and Tory, as well as eleven grandchildren.

He enjoyed his association with the Century Club, the New York Yacht Club, the Noroton Yacht Club, Pequot Yacht Club, and the Castine Yacht Club, where he served as Commodore in the 1960's. He was a founder of the Bridgeport Architecture Conservancy and longtime member of the American Association of Architects.

A celebration of his life will take place on Saturday, April 8, at 3:00 p.m. at the Noroton Yacht Club, and at a date to be determined at the Castine Yacht Club in August. A contribution in Austin's memory can be made to the Maine Coast Heritage Trust.

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Leslie I Gold

April 3, 2023

I had many interesting conversations with David, enjoying his wonderful, knowledgeable and creative mind. Dinner with David was always exciting and I always looked forward to being with him and Sandy. May everyone's sadness regarding the passing of David be replaced by wonderful memories in time. With his amazing force and kindness, he will surely be missed. Wonderful father and husband to my good friend, Sandy. With deep heartfelt sympathy and love to family and friends.
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Beth Miller

February 25, 2023

I remember David from my teenage years of sailing and teaching at the Castine Yacht Club (which he designed) in Castine, Maine. David was a brilliant, funny gentleman, and a highly accomplished sailor in his beloved Castine-built sloop, Fannie G. Rest peacefully at your heavenly mooring, David!

Wendell & June

February 24, 2023

Our condolences to Sandy and the family.
Wendell & June

Dana Markus

February 24, 2023

My sincere condolences to David's family and colleagues at the firm he created in Southport and I gratefully worked in for thirteen years treasuring dear memories.
Rest in peace David!
Dana Markus

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