David J. Gilpatrick

David J. Gilpatrick obituary, Arlington, MA

David J. Gilpatrick

David Gilpatrick Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Keefe Funeral Home - Arlington on Nov. 25, 2023.
David Joseph Gilpatrick of Arlington, MA passed away on November 24, 2023 at the age of 83. He is survived by his wife Deborah Hayes, his brother James and his wife Rose of Arizona, and his dear friend Paul "Happy" Frederick. David is also survived by his sisters in law Denise Hayes and Jeannie Wall and her husband Ben Wall and his brother-in-law Chuck Hayes and by his nephews and nieces Michael, John, Bethany and Christie Gilpatrick and Rebekah, Meredith, and the late Katherine Wall. David is predeceased by his parents, Lewis and Agnes Gilpatrick.
David was a long-time employee of the Town of Arlington and was responsible for taking care of its playgrounds and playing fields. He was a devoted fan of all Boston sports teams, especially the Boston Red Sox. David enjoyed "playing the ponies", and with Happy by his side, could be found at racetracks throughout New England and in Hollywood Florida where he spent the winter months for many years.
The family wishes to thank the staff of Beth Israel Lahey at Home Hospice and Right at Home for the kindness and care they provided.
Visiting hours will be at Keefe Funeral Home 5 Chestnut Street Arlington on Wednesday, November 29, 2023 from 8:30 am to 10:30. Funeral services will be held at Keefe Funeral Home at 10:30 am followed by burial at Mt. Pleasant Cemetery in Arlington. In lieu of flowers the family requests that donations be made to the charity of your choice.

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Fred sanger

January 4, 2026

Fred sanger

January 4, 2026

Aw Dave..... my heart sank when I saw you left us all. Im so sorry Deb. I go back to meeting Dave In saratoga, and you reading your books by the pool at the design motel. Dave invited me for many years to share a room with him in Hallendale Fla, some of the best memories of my life with Dave at gulfstream and the dog track. I´ve been sick myself for 5-6 years, and was hoping to see Dave in Florida one last time, but god had different plans. I loved the heck out of Dave and loved to tease him about the horses. I liked our dinners at "big daddy´s". He´s with "happy" now, telling Dave to "belly up to the bar". I miss ole happy and now Dave. I may never visit Florida again knowing I won´t see Dave anymore. Im done here, and going back to being sick to my stomach with a heavy heart for my dear friend Dave. You have no idea how much thru the years I´ve always thought about Dave, see you later Dave, in the big rack track in the sky. Saratoga Fred

Diana Reintges

April 26, 2025

I was David,s first cousin and spent a week or two with the family every summer when I was young. We had many great times together with Jimmy, auntie Agnes and uncle Lewis. He was a groomsman at my wedding and I attended his wedding to Deb. I learned of his passing when Jim called me from Arizona. He will be missed.

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