David Spencer Mernick

David Spencer Mernick obituary, Red Bank, NJ

David Spencer Mernick

David Mernick Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Thompson Memorial Home - Red Bank on May 12, 2025.

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David Mernick, a loving, generous husband and father, passed away on Friday, May 9, 2025 leaving his family and friends forever missing his joy of life and kindness to all who knew him.
Born on December 11, 1952 in Elizabeth, NJ, he was the son of William and Edith Mernick of Cranford. In the spring of his sophomore year of high school, the family moved to Fair Haven where he graduated from Rumson-Fair Haven Regional High School in 1970. He attended Boston College and Brookdale Community College.
Carpentry was his life's work. Inspired by his grandfather Andrew Reid, a skilled woodworker of Warwick, RI, the two became close roommates when Andrew's wife, Hettie, died in 1985 and moved to Fair Haven. They spent countless hours together building toy boats, sailing them in the bathtub and watching Gunsmoke on the TV.
He was a longtime resident of Sea Bright, before moving to Oceanport in 2001. He was married on August 20, 2003 at St. John's-on-the-Lake, Bear Island, NH, to his high school sweetheart and soulmate, Cyndy. He was a member of the St. John's Chapel Association Board and loved working on "the little brown church in the vale" for many, many years.
He was a Union carpenter and millwright, before going into business by himself. A creative man, he loved woodworking, fabricating stained glass items and carving decoys, as well as playing electric and acoustic guitar. In the 1980s, he was a member of a local band, The Shoal Brothers, singing and playing rhythm guitar. His love of music remained a strong part of his life and he wrote many songs for his beloved daughter, Liz.
His passion was boats. Building them, racing them, and just poking around the local rivers and in Lake Winnipesaukee in NH. He owned many throughout his years but his favorite was a 1949 Chris Craft Sportsman named Two Belles.
He loved all aspects of nature, especially living amongst the pines at his island home on Winnipesaukee, but it was meeting new people and telling stories with old friends over a glass of scotch which gave him the most joy.
Surviving are his wife, Cynthia Halsey Mernick of Oceanport; his daughter, Elizabeth Ann Mernick of Oceanport; Cyndy's children, Brooke, Amanda and Casey Blinebry; a brother and his wife, Andrew and Judith Mernick of Monmouth Beach, and their daughter, Robyn Mernick; his father-in-law, Sandy Halsey of Bluffton, SC; a sister-in-law and her husband, Ann and Stuart Burlingham of Savannah, GA; a brother-in-law and his wife, David and Katie Halsey of Edgartown, MA; many nieces, nephews, cousins and grandchildren; as well as everyone who ever knew and loved him. There is a hole in our hearts and we will miss his laughter and blue eyes every day.
A Memorial Visitation will be held on Tuesday, May 20th from 2-4 pm at Thompson Memorial Home, 310 Broad St, Red Bank, NJ 07701. Memorial donations may be made in his name to the Lake Winnipesaukee Alliance, PO Box 1624, Meredith, NH 03253 who are dedicated to keeping his lake healthy for generations to come.

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