David E. "Dave" Motes

David E. "Dave" Motes, a cherished soul known for his kind heart and unwavering devotion to his loved ones,
passed away at his home on November 12, 2025, at the age of 63.
Born on February 5, 1962, in Germany, Dave was the beloved son of the late Ernest Eugene and Georgia Rae (Havens) Motes. He was also preceded in death by his sister, Kathryn D. Wiley-Motes, and his nephew, Christopher E. Motes.
At the center of Dave's world was his loving husband, David Violett. Together for over 25 years, the two built a life rooted in mutual respect, joy, and their shared passion in helping others. Their unbreakable bond will stand the test of time.
Dave's passion for communication and connection guided his academic and professional journey. After a long first career in retail, he earned an associate's degree in Sign Language and Interpretation and spent most of his second career at Harris Communications working with deaf and hard-of-hearing clients. For Dave, his work was more than a job and his personal integrity and strong work ethic led him to become an invaluable employee and mentor to others.
Outside of his career, Dave had a wide range of interests. He was a voracious reader, and he and David were avid travelers, always seeking out new adventures and experiences. Dave was an accomplished league bowler with two 300 games to his credit, played tennis and softball, and enjoyed spirited games of volleyball. Many of the people he met in his pursuits became lifelong friends. At home, Dave loved playing any card game, a favorite pastime that filled his days with laughter and camaraderie.
Beyond his hobbies, Dave's gentle nature and generosity defined him. He had a deep affection for animals and an instinctive desire to help others. Whether offering a comforting word, a helping hand, or simply his presence, Dave made those around him feel cared for and valued.
Dave lived a life marked by kindness, service, and an enduring love for family and friends. Though he is no longer with us, his warmth and spirit will continue to inspire all who were fortunate enough to know him. He will be deeply missed, and his memory will be forever treasured not only by David, but by the Violett family, Dave's cousins, uncle and aunt, and his many friends.
Services: A Memorial Service will be held at 2 P.M. on Saturday, December 6, 2025, at the Cantelmi Long Funeral Home, 500 Linden Street Bethlehem, PA 18018 where the family will receive relatives and friends from 1 P.M. until time of the service. A memory tribute may be placed at www.cantelmifuneralhome.com.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the National Association of the Deaf, https://www.nad.org/make-a-donation/.