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December 10,1968-December 22,2023
David Joseph So, age 55, passed away peacefully in his sleep at home in Garfield on Friday, December 22, 2023. He was born on December 10th, 1968 to Acuzena and Catalino So.
He leaves behind his distinguished daughters, Lea and Kiana So. His beloved wife, Haejin Kwon. His cherished dogs, Sammy and Roxy. His father, Catalino So. His Siblings, Malou Ricciardi, Theresa Wong, and Christian So. His nieces, Katrina So-Lasala, Camille So-Lasala, and Karina So-Cornista. As well as his cousin, Raul Matias.
David So was known by many names, David in his professional life, Joseph to close friends and family, and Otep to the ones closest to him. But most importantly he was Dad to two girls. He made many achievements in his life. He graduated from De La Salle University in Manila, came to the US and got his masters in computer science from Felician University in Lodi, NJ.
David was the the life of the party, he enjoyed talking to his friends which he had many and enjoyed riding his motorcycle. He liked watching movies and building car legos. There was never a dull moment with him.
He was married for 24 years to his wife Haejin Kwon and had met through their mutual friend, Marilyn Cunanan who recently passed a few years ago. Together, they had Lea born in 2000 and Kiana born in 2005. They traveled several places both as a family and as a couple. Such as, Montreal, London, Tokyo, Kuala Lumpur, Hong Kong, and even lived in Singapore from 2012-2015.
He is on his way to be reunited with his mom in spirit.
David So was a man loved by many and will be continuously be loved by all those around him.
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Ed Vincent
January 16, 2024
I am so sorry to hear David passed away. I worked with Dave when he was with Bloomberg. I got to know him and become good friends just a few months prior to him leaving the company in NYC and relocating back home. Dave had a great sense of humor and he was a hard worker, always wanting to learn and pass on his knowledge to others. My prayer's are with his family. May he rest in peace.
Joslyne Contreras
December 27, 2023
My condolences to David's family. May God be with you in this difficult time. David and I attended Felician together and we would all bond over the struggle of balancing full-time work and school. We had a lot of tough days, but we were always cracking jokes to lift each other's spirits. I'll always remember David as a funny and kind school friend. RIP David
Nancy Aronson
December 27, 2023
My condolences to David's family. I worked with and went to grad school with David; he was a great guy and wi) be missed.
Rachael So
December 26, 2023
My family´s deepest sympathy
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Salvatore J DeFranco
December 26, 2023
I worked with Dave for years, and will always remember his unflappable joy and humor. When I found out he took ill, I was shocked and saddened. I would have made the wake, but the wife and I are ill with a fever, and do not want to risk getting everyone else sick.
I would like to express my heartfelt condolences to the family, and pray for you all to find peace and comfort during this undoubtedly difficult time.
Dave, the happiness and light you brought to this world cannot be replaced, and will be missed deeply. Until I see you again brother...rest well.
With love and sympathies-
Sal DeFranco.
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